they critisize women and anyone who doesn't want to have children for that matter. For the same reason that they critisize those who don't "discipline" their kids by hitting their butts. They need company in their misery, or at least to feel better about themselves.
I guess those people can't stand or dont even understand those who dont want what they want. Raising a family is the biggest decision in a relationship and in life. Its more than a traditional ritual like marriage. Its more than a job or a stock exchange.
Maybe those who have children are jealous of your independence and want to be assured they made the right decision of birthing more meat sacks onto this miserable rock of toil and suffering 🌍
I have dated several women who never had children. They never regretted it. In fact, they were in great shape in their seventies and enjoyed very active sex lives, travel and lots of fun hobbies.
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My personal experience with my girlfriend is that this criticizes is self manifestation. We have had several incident that she felt was a attack on her for not having children or not being married but no one questioned or otherwise made any comment regarding these choices. I’m not saying it doesn’t exist, just not the norma.
As @SmokinAces2000 said, the people who criticise the women who don’t want kids, are the same people who believe a woman’s only purpose is popping out babies and raising them.
because if everyone did that, humanity would cease to exist and every species seems to want to continue existing. why? cause they wouldn't exist anymore if they didn't.
Who cares if they Decide to crumble And have kids from The social pressure then they Wanted kids. Nobody can make anybody do anything unless they already at some level want to do something.
I never understood that. I’ve never wanted children and I receive the most criticism I feel like the mothers who criticize other women who choose not to have children are bitter and miserable…
It is a choice to have kids according to me, so I cannot let peer pressure to be in the driving sit of my life. My life my choices so when it comes to having kids I will have them wen I feel like it is the time period.
You are not validating their decisions and on some level they are jealpus of your status. Also they are not validating your decisions and on some level you may be jealous of them.
I wonder how many young women now say they don't want kids only to have serious regret about it 20-25 years down the line. I hope it's really what you want because the loneliness you'll likely feel later on isn't gonna be your friend.
What a disgusting and ignorant thing to say. First of all, who’s to say you’re child (ren) will be your friend or even be keeping you company when you get older. Secondly with the large amount of kiddos in poverty and foster care, it’s a noble thing for someone to admit they are not fit to be a parent before they produce a child. I wish people who thought like you could be put on a separate island away from society.
Whatever you say. If you think so, I hope it holds up. However I will point out that your hostility shows you have underlying issues. Recommend you seek out a therapist.
I'm being hostile by stating my opinion and this busybody comes along to tell me how "disgusting and ignorant" my opinion is? And you act like an apologist for that kind of nasty rebutal? Lol ok.
And just to point out, I never said OP was right or wrong, only wondering if they'll be ok with their decision. I honestly don't care either way.
You don't have to have children. The reason some say that you might regret it is that there are women who didn't have children come out and said that they did regret it.
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they critisize women and anyone who doesn't want to have children for that matter. For the same reason that they critisize those who don't "discipline" their kids by hitting their butts. They need company in their misery, or at least to feel better about themselves.
I guess those people can't stand or dont even understand those who dont want what they want. Raising a family is the biggest decision in a relationship and in life. Its more than a traditional ritual like marriage. Its more than a job or a stock exchange.
Maybe those who have children are jealous of your independence and want to be assured they made the right decision of birthing more meat sacks onto this miserable rock of toil and suffering 🌍
Yeah jealousy is a possibility. They're suffering and want other people to suffer the same fate.
I have dated several women who never had children. They never regretted it. In fact, they were in great shape in their seventies and enjoyed very active sex lives, travel and lots of fun hobbies.
My personal experience with my girlfriend is that this criticizes is self manifestation.
We have had several incident that she felt was a attack on her for not having children or not being married but no one questioned or otherwise made any comment regarding these choices.
I’m not saying it doesn’t exist, just not the norma.
As @SmokinAces2000 said, the people who criticise the women who don’t want kids, are the same people who believe a woman’s only purpose is popping out babies and raising them.
They don't.
They are really just criticizing your decision not to have children with them, or people like them, is all.
Don't look too much into it, kiddo.
because if everyone did that, humanity would cease to exist and every species seems to want to continue existing. why? cause they wouldn't exist anymore if they didn't.
ok but is everybody not having kids dumbass? Just because some women dont want children doesn't mean that none of them do.
@_deeznuts im not talking to people that call me a dumbass.
Who cares if they Decide to crumble And have kids from
The social pressure then they Wanted kids. Nobody can make anybody do anything unless they already at some level want to do something.
They think it's required to be happy, to be a full woman
No matter what someone does or does not do, there will be critics, so do what you think or know is right.
I never understood that. I’ve never wanted children and I receive the most criticism I feel like the mothers who criticize other women who choose not to have children are bitter and miserable…
It is a choice to have kids according to me, so I cannot let peer pressure to be in the driving sit of my life. My life my choices so when it comes to having kids I will have them wen I feel like it is the time period.
Good for you
Because they are miserable about their own choices and want everyone to suffer the same fate
It's greed because without kids working in the system the social security goes to pot because it's demands long outstrip its provided value
You are not validating their decisions and on some level they are jealpus of your status. Also they are not validating your decisions and on some level you may be jealous of them.
I'm not jealous of people who have children.
And you should not be because they are criticized by some who think they have children for selfish reasons or that they are not fit to be mothers.
Because these are the people that think all women are good for is giving birth and raising kids
I believe people shouldn't criticize or judge those who don't wish to be parents but this happens or those who wish not to have children.
I wonder how many young women now say they don't want kids only to have serious regret about it 20-25 years down the line. I hope it's really what you want because the loneliness you'll likely feel later on isn't gonna be your friend.
What a disgusting and ignorant thing to say. First of all, who’s to say you’re child (ren) will be your friend or even be keeping you company when you get older. Secondly with the large amount of kiddos in poverty and foster care, it’s a noble thing for someone to admit they are not fit to be a parent before they produce a child. I wish people who thought like you could be put on a separate island away from society.
Whatever you say. If you think so, I hope it holds up. However I will point out that your hostility shows you have underlying issues. Recommend you seek out a therapist.
I'm being hostile by stating my opinion and this busybody comes along to tell me how "disgusting and ignorant" my opinion is? And you act like an apologist for that kind of nasty rebutal? Lol ok.
And just to point out, I never said OP was right or wrong, only wondering if they'll be ok with their decision. I honestly don't care either way.
I'm pretty sure I'll be fine with whatever decision I make.
I do not know. If you don't want kids, that is ok. You owe nobody an explanation and they are not entitled to have what you do not want to give.
You don't have to have children. The reason some say that you might regret it is that there are women who didn't have children come out and said that they did regret it.