Is it ok to not always like who your siblings married?

[SunnyCaliGirl]

Nothing in a way of ill will but not like them because they sometimes can be irritating brother/sister in-laws

[OlderAndWiser]

I have one sister, the eldest sibling, and she is married to a guy from England. Although he is now an American citizen, he has an extremely condescending attitude towards all things American. We are all rude, uncultured, uneducated, and beneath the minimum level which would be acceptable in the motherland. He has said so many obnoxious and irritating things that I would not cross the street to piss on him if he was on fire. (Actually, no one else in the family would piss on him if he was on fire.) So, yes, I think it's okay to not like a brother-in-law or sister-in-law.

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO!

[AviatorTom]

You don't have to like who your sibling married, your sibling needs to like them.

[AviatorTom]

Thanks for the mho

[Effably]

Perfectly fine. I have found among my siblings that if I dislike their partners they never last and generally turn out to be dysfunctional. Of course there's a confirmation bias and most relationships do not last. But the ones that has or ended amicably were all with people I liked.

[JDavid25]

Yeah that's fine, I mean most likely it's not like you would be living with them.. Although, if you see your sibling often, maybe some type of cordial fondness would be very helpful..

[Ms_Facesitter]

I think so! Maybe I just say that because I in that exact situation but we're still good friends so I see no problem with it.

[Red_Arrow]

Sure! You just have to be polite, not like them.

[AndrésC64]

Sure. Why not? But you should support them as best you know how no matter what.

[TonyMetal___86]

Sure it's okay, you don't have to like someone that you really don't!

[007kingifrit]

every thought you have is ok. they're YOU'RE thoughts

[d3n0939]

Me too, I don't like him

[AFretiredTXn]

I think we all have a couple.

[Spotifyplaylist]

Yea, you don't have to like everyone.

[Exterminatore]

Yes.