How would you feel if your mom told you that she wishes she never had you?

[Anonymous]

I got abruptly awoken to my dad telling me that my mom was screaming and yelling and said this about me. How would you feel?

I spend plenty of time with her, always go out to places with her, try to help her and give her advice on issues she's having, I alleviate a lot of the stress of household chores on her, I even buy her gifts and make her handmade gifts for birthdays and other special holidays. I do everything that a good daughter should when it comes to their mother and I still get this crap from her.

[Sandeeppingping]

I'm so sorry my friend, it does end up being like that, when you least expect it, my mom never said that word for word but I did move out at 17 after being called useless and a good at nothing by her and my sister, I remember I wanted to work in order to help out with house expenses and my mother's reaction was with a laughing tone "What can you work as? What are you even good at?", that shit hurt like nothing ever did I wanted to defend myself but literally sounded like I was about to cry with a soft high voice as I felt tears around my eyes so I went into my room, I still remember it 3 years later like it was yesterday, every single day I remember it, I still love my mother I barely talk to her though, never talk to my sister and have absolutely no interest in doing so she disgusts me, it is what it is

[DiscreetUser6]

I've heard that through out my life and yes she only said that when she was frustrated by me not living up to her expectations or tried to distance myself from my family. I don't know if she really means it or just worried that I would abandon her or social pressure she has to endure if I don't succeed or whatever it hurt me very badly over the years and I can only stay little bit happy if I am away from my family and I actively push away people who try to control you with your feelings even if they don't mean harm.

In a way I turned into someone who demands absolute honesty even if the truth is too much for me to handle.

[DiscreetUser6]

But sometimes she did mention my life would be a whole lot better if I've never had you, but I think she didn't mean it she maybe just letting off some anger but I really want to know if that was actually true

[Agape93]

She has. The circumstances it was said hurt more than the words or sentiment

[Mynameisbobby]

My mother did actually tell me that. She told me she hated boys and she loved my sister. She treated her like a princess while she treated me like a dog. They both did. My mother let my sister beat me up everyday and get me in trouble. My mother as she put it told me I deserved it. I finally told someone about it and my uncle adopted me when I was 13. My sister is in prison for abusing me. I hate both of them and hope I never see them again.

[Sandeeppingping]

Damn that's tough my guy, I don't talk to my sister either because she's a bitch, like yours but that's too fucking much

[Mynameisbobby]

@Sandeeppingping yeah it was right after my dad died that it all started. Before I had my dad there to protect me.

[Avicenna]

No one should ever tell a child that- it's child abuse

[Havthrills]

That really sucks. Why would she say that? Furthermore, why would your dad wake you to tell you? That's an odd thing to do and mean to do to you.

[Asker]

My family's not normal lmao

[Havthrills]

Lol. Nope. I would say not. But to wake you and tell you. Did your dad lie about it?

[Fawful]

I'm sorry, that hurts. You're a good daughter, your mom is dumb as fuck and ungrateful for saying that. You deserve better

[Th3ft]

Wow! Sorry! That is really hard to deal with!

[TrillXHippy]

My mom would never tell me or my brothers that

[Danny_dan92]

I’d stop talking to her

[FckY0u998]

mine said that to me when i was younger

[Debbie14217]

wow sad... she never would say that