Girls, They say every girl has a gay Best friend is that true?

[Anonymous]

I'm trying to make more friends, I literally only have one Friend!! I know I sound like a total loser.. because I am a loser lol I'm a really nice and friendly guy but no one wants to be my friend I even had to pay a girl to hang out with me on Halloween..

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I didn't mean to ask this question anonymously lol my username is GayPrincess

[7Phoenix7]

Aw, are you an introvert? Having one friend doesn't make you a loser. But having plenty "friends" who aren't really your friends sucks.

[Asker]

Awe thanks sweetie, I feel like people just take advantage of me.. and does paying for someone to hang out with me make me more of a loser than just hanging out by myself? Lol

[7Phoenix7]

No but whoever took the money is a loser for sure. They should have just hung out with you and enjoyed your presence! I think you just haven't met the right people yet. 💕

[Asker]

You're totally right.. Basically the girl is an ex co worker and I asked her cause no one else would and her response was "Ugh.. I had better plans already.. fine but you have to pay me $50 to hang out with you or you're spending Halloween alone.." I already payed her so I have to make the most of it.. she's very popular and I'm hoping I'll make more friends through her lol

[DeeDeeDeVour]

I have gay friends but none of them are among those close friends in my inner circle.

[Asker]

May I ask why that is? My only friend is a girl.. I just don't click with guys on a friend level I'm very girly obviously lol so I just get along with girls way more and I'd like a close relationship like going shopping going to the movies doing their hair and makeup trying on outfits together talking about guys together..

[DeeDeeDeVour]

My/Our gay guy friends have much in common with me or the rest of us in our inner circle except fashion issues with just us women or partying with me. I also think they're afraid of the men (the husbands).

My/Our bi-sexual or lesbian girlfriends are quite aloof. They just don't mingle.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

My/Our gay guy friends *DON'T have much in common...

[Anonymous]

It's not true, not even close, but having said that most of my friends are bisexual.

[Asker]

I just wanna be the best gay friend.. go shopping try on outfits together watch chick flicks and talk about guys and penis together lol

[DancingQueen16]

It might not be true for everyone but I do have a female friend that likes girls

[AsaKyo]

Not for me

[Asker]

Would you like one? I'll be your gay friend lol

[Dinklex3]

Nope.