I am almost 30 years old and my parents still control my life. Is this normal? (Page 2)

Question

Since I still live with my parents, I am not sure if I need to think about it...

AmeerX · Answer

You're complaining. Mine control my life too. I don't want arrange marriage but they won't let me marry

CubaPirate · Answer

No not really, even if you still love with them. But I can understand their possible our house our rules philosophy. Is it not possible for you to move away

Havthrills · Answer

No. You're old enough to have your life. How much do they control?

loveslongnails · Answer

There's nothing "normal" about it. When do you plan on becoming an adult?

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Me too, well my mom does. No, I don't think this is normal behavior

Googlemyahoo · Answer

Are you a fuck up? If so that’s probably why. They’re probably just trying to help

dudeinohio · Answer

This is not normal. You need to assert yourself. You are an adult.

Alex8736 · Answer

controlling your life meaning you still have an early curfew even if you are at work or do you still get grounded?

Anonymous · Answer

no that's not normal. but i need more details... this is very vague. what are they doing?

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Well, yeah. That's kind of how it works. You need to move out, girl.

boobliker · Answer

if you live at home yes it's one of the things of living at home

DDoSAttack · Answer

HOLY SHIT YOU"VE BEEN ON THIS SITE FOR 15 YEARS SINCE AGE 11?

msc545 · Answer

What is NOT normal is that you let them do it.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Nope that's definitely not normal your a grown woman why are they still treating you like a child

Surely · Answer

You are still their little girl. Under their roof. Under their rules!

Songomatic · Answer

Get married with someone they REALLY Really dislike but you totally Love AND they will FOREVER leave you alone. Lol

krin_m · Answer

Only you can decide if they can have any say in your life. I'm sure they do it out of love but they should still respecy your boundaries.

PainusNdeeAnus · Answer

Jesus loved with his parents till he was 30

AngryCarl · Answer

If you don't control your life someone else will.

TallAnon · Answer

Nope, I moved out at 19 and just chat with them once a week, that's all.

CharlieDMX · Answer

Way too normal. You just need to cut the cord and go live somewhere else

Fleet7635 · Answer

No not really but I’m not judging you or your situation

justFriend · Answer

You can understand when you become a parent :)

RandomGuy1030 · Answer

MOVE. OUT. "Thy enemies shall be those of your house."

Anonymous · Answer

Only of you allow it. Move out, then they can't.

Anonymous · Answer

Not really. But normal is overrated. If you still live with them you should accept some control. Not total control; but some reasonable amount of it.

Ushna_Sh · Answer

You should obey your parent and they have right to control you.

JesusChristItsBorn · Answer

Oh hell no. If you're 30 then your a more than capable adult most likely.

trillionaire123 · Answer

Control what? Do they not allow you to go for a walk? 26 is not almost 30 LOL.

Summeroflove · Answer

It’s not normal no. Sorry

Anonymous · Answer

Same with me but they don't even try to get me a girlfriend.

CA4444 · Answer

No it’s not get away and be free 💚

Rania05 · Answer

Then don't live with them

Guy13 · Answer

No it is not unless you need their care.

Blackcupcake · Answer

maybe you should move out

JPresidente · Answer

Totally unreal. I'd find a way out.

linka_pat307 · Answer

Not normal, take control of ur life

joeldalton · Answer

You're still 30 and living at home? yikes.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Very weird. You need to get your own home.

Pterodon · Answer

Shame on you for allowing it

BLP11520 · Answer

Do you live at home?

Cheerfull009 · Answer

No, uptill now you should have 3 kids

eagle1951 · Answer

not normal at all, why are you letting them

jimmy2 · Answer

Still at home if so it their house their rulers

sunflower00 · Answer

Absolutely not

Anonymous · Answer

If you are european yeah.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes you live in their house

Msputiton · Answer

No not normal

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

No it's not.

Anonymous · Answer

No it's not. Forbid them

yourmancallsme · Answer

Yes grow up

Anonymous · Answer

Yup!!! Mine do too

Teriyaki70 · Answer

Prolly not

Andinara · Answer

my life is up to me

Preeti161101 · Answer

Not agree

ZenJen444 · Answer

Who's fault is that?

EaterPeter · Answer

No and yes

Sailormoon95 · Answer

Nope

legalboxers · Answer

No its not...

haremhan · Answer

not normal

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