Would it be messed up if I gave my daughter her own room?

[Anonymous]

I financially support my sister and her two kids. I have one daughter who my sister helps with with because I work a lot. My daughter was used to having all of my attention and me doing everything for her. I work so much because we would not be able to survive if I don’t. My sister doesn’t work. She takes the kids to and from school and cooks everyone dinner everyday. I’m okay with that. However, I do work my ass off 6 days a week, 12 hours a day and I can’t ever just do anything for my daughter let alone myself. I want to get a bigger place but I want my daughter to have her own room again. Most I would be able to afford is a 3 bedroom. Would it be wrong if I gave my daughter her own room?

[Truth0225]

What I wanna know is why can’t your sister work? What is wrong with her where she cannot go to work? Also is her kids father around? Is he paying child support? I just don’t see why you’re burning yourself out when it should be a 50 50 effort

[Asker]

She escaped her ex husband from a domestic violence situation where she and her kids were at risk for fatal harm by him. I lived in a different state and needed help with my daughter so it made sense to bring her here so they are kept from harm. She has extreme ptsd and other problems because of the abuse she endured so I don’t push her to work because I need her just as much as she needs me. We are however working on getting her CNA license because we could each work 3 12 hr shifts on opposite days and still have one of us be with the kids while the other is working. There is an open cps case on the husband she fled from for also sexually assaulting my niece (6 year old, he isn’t her dad, he’s my nephews dad) .. so yeah.. I just want to give my daughter her own room again.

[MementoMori777]

Nothing bad about a mother giving their daughter a bedroom she can comfortably live in and have her own privacy in.

[Alwayreckles93]

Are you Emo?

[MementoMori777]

Nope, what made you ask that? Lol

[Alwayreckles93]

No offense you kinda look Emo.

[MementoMori777]

Because I wear a hoodie?

[Alwayreckles93]

Sorry I guess that your picture is dark lighting.

[MementoMori777]

Lol nah you good

[XXblack88]

I don't think it would be a bad idea especially if your daughter is in her preteen or teen years.

[BJP21]

Nothing wrong with that it will give her independence.

[Danny_dan92]

How would that be messed up?