Was I wrong here you guys? how long should I give him? and should I let him reach out first or me?

So I think I messed up here. My boyfriend picked up his daughters from the airport at 3pm. I found out at work I had do is , I told him to go get checked. He asking me playfully was I coming home to help him paint , but then he said he will have the bed ready for me to rest but he had a friend come over to say hello. I asked him did he tell me that because it is a woman? So I kind of accused him. He told me he was very pissed and upset and just to give me a while to get his new apartment and his daughters situated.
Was I wrong here you guys? how long should I give him? and should I let him reach out first or me?
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