What is wrong with me I dont love my nieces and nephews?

[Anonymous]

They are rude and disrespectful and they are annoying I can't feel any love towards them.

[SteveSmith1985]

I guess it depends how old they are... but my jaw dropped open when I read this question.

I've got a 4 year old nephew and a 1 year old niece. I love both of them more than I can put into words. The best thing that's happened to me in the past 5 years is my brother having had kids. I literally spend every single minute I possibly can, with either of them or both of them. They are my two favorite people to spend time with.

So, on some instinctual level... your question makes me wonder "what IS wrong with you?" But I don't think that's fair. That's me imagining not loving MY niece and nephew (which I can't imagine).

If you don't see them much or have much of a relationship with them... then I suppose they're just, essentially... annoying/rude kids (like you'd probably find most kids you don't know annoying/rude if forced to spend time with them.). I don't think there's anything wrong with you. And you can love them, but not LIKE them. That could be what's going on here too 🙂

[Emanon25]

You got to have more patience on kids

[Anonymous]

Well if they're rude and disrespectful their parents need to correct that behavior. As far as being annoying we all have our moments where were annoying.

[Asker]

My siblings dont correct their behavior and just laugh when their kids do that

[Opinion Owner]

Smh. Sounds like nothing is wrong with you. But it definitely sounds like there's something wrong with your siblings parenting skills. Which this is only going to hurt their kids in the long run. ☹️

[Asker]

Yeah I really want to move away from my family cut them all since they only bring unhappiness in my life :(

[slatyb]

Maybe it's them, not you. I feel sad for them. They aren't being raised well. I expect they are having difficulty socializing with their peers too.

[Mynameisbobby]

Sounds like nothing is wrong with you. A lot wrong with your neices and nephews though.

[Anonymous]

This is so wrong

[Asker]

Why?

[Opinion Owner]

They are your family

[Asker]

Family dont mean sh't if they are not so nice to you.

[Opinion Owner]

You talk ghetto

[Asker]

I dont even know what ghetto means