What’s a good way to attract a woman, if you don’t own your own home or car?

[Vinnygraphix]

• I have hit financial hardship reasons being my mom passed away 8 months ago. Im up to my nostrils with debt lost my apartment.
• I have 0 family members that actually care. No friends no brothers or sisters.
• All the stress that I still carry on my shoulders since age 17.
• Never had a girlfriend but I try searching I get discriminated because of my height. Im too short or not good enough what can I do?

[Anonymous]

I’m terribly sorry about your mom, even more sorry that aside from dealing with loss you are stuck in financial hardships. As for your question, you may not like me telling you this but I think you’ve got more important things to focus on than finding a girlfriend. Things like height won’t make a difference to the right woman when she’s connected to you on a spiritual level, so I wouldn’t worry about that. However I think as adults we can agree that being able to bring something to the table is important. Whoever you date will want to know she can build with you and count on you to do your part in providing for one another, especially in this economy. If you’re on a sinking ship, she won’t want to go down with you. That’s why I think you should focus on bettering your situation now, so you can be confident approaching a woman and don’t have to drop this huge load of baggage you have onto her.

[Vinnygraphix]

Thing is woman tend ti get to know me but since I never have been to a bar club & I have never experienced night life In reality I have zero friends and or family

[Vinnygraphix]

When they ask me about have you ever been to a club I tell them no they also ask what interesting things you have done in your life? all i can say was nothing

[Opinion Owner]

Are you asking a question?

[Nikki1989]

A home or car has little to do with anything. Even more irrelevant is your height, so it seems like you are focused on all the wrong things.

[Vinnygraphix]

You may be correct but coming from a person who has never in his life been out to a real date it’s tough

[Vinnygraphix]

I've tried getting to know many women they all tell me im a dream come true but two things always happen 1 im too short or the woman thats my age tells me im not ready to be in a relationship and i need to learn how to love my self

[serious]

I never try to attract a woman.

[Anonymous]

You can't not once you're 18

[Vinnygraphix]

Please clarify your self

[Opinion Owner]

Not having a car, under 18 of the fine but over 20 it becomes a major detriment

[Vinnygraphix]

You really don’t need a car in Nyc

[Opinion Owner]

Needing and being expected to have one are very different things

[Vinnygraphix]

Parking alone will cost you about $375 per month gas is about $3.89 per gallon tolls are at $15 car insurance $350 rent for 1 bedroom is $1,500

[Vinnygraphix]

And car payment could run up to $450 per month

[Opinion Owner]

It's part of the dating economy, I can't drive and haven't dated it year and will likely never date again