Cancer and how it has ruined our family? Is it my fault?

[_johnflin_]

My father has been diagnosed with cancer and its bad... Really really bad... We can't give him the right treatment and we tried loans and everything... I'm working part-time as a model.. It was my life long dream to become one of the best fashion model... Shitt... Literally I'm in tears writing this... I should've listened to him before.. We really don't have the financial facilities to provide him the right treatment... And I feel like it's all because of me.. I turned my back on business and a well paying job... Just so I can chase my passion as a model.. I loved modelling but it cost me my dad... now I feel I could've saved him if I would've listened to my family.. I love you dad... I'm sorry.

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1 y

I just wanted to get this out, please do pray for him❤️

[Static_In_The_Attic]

My brother from another mother you have to stay strong & you have to stay strong for your father as well. CANCER SUCKS & the one thing about cancer is that it chooses us we don’t choose it & it’s no one’s fault & it certainly isn’t your fault as well. Cancer choose my mother & cancer choose a dear friend of mine & it flocking sucks.

Treasure your time with your father & your family & your friends as well.

[najekim]

Not your fault. Cancer doesn't care who it infects. Wife is almost 5 years cancer free now.

[Anonymous]

It’s not your fault so ok don’t blame yourself, life hits us with all kinds of shit beyond our control at times.

My prayers for you and your father