I lost my mom and my older brother shortly after each other near the end of last year , Yes I was in a state of shock and sad etc.. My friends keep saying I haven’t officially grieved yet? What do they mean by that?
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When someone says that you haven't officially grieved yet, they may be suggesting that you haven't fully processed or come to terms with your loss. Grief is a complex and multifaceted process that can involve a range of emotions, including shock, denial, anger, sadness, and acceptance. It's possible that your friends are noticing that you are still experiencing some of these emotions or that you haven't fully engaged in the grieving process.
It's important to remember that grief is a highly individualized process, and there is no "right" or "wrong" way to grieve. It's normal to experience a range of emotions and to take as much time as you need to process your loss. However, if you feel that your grief is impacting your daily life or that you are struggling to cope with your emotions, it may be helpful to seek out professional support or to engage in activities that promote healing and self-care.
Remember that everyone grieves in their own way and at their own pace, and it's important to be gentle and compassionate with yourself as you navigate this difficult time.
Some people function based on survival and some people function based on attachment and reaction so if you do not grieve in the traditional manner, they may not feel you fully understand what happened. I don’t grieve in a lot of deaths because I believe God will take care of them and they are in a happier place.
You're too young to lose them both, I feel sympathy pain for your loss.
Thanks bro
No problem, I hope there's some kind of afterlife so we can see our family when they pass.