My best friend blocked me everywhere and then texted me and said its over. How can i get ober her, as it really hurts me...
hey guys! I've been friends with this girl for years now. We met when we were around 10 years old in sports class. We are now 20. I just finished high school and started to go to university.
So i texted her that i got a bad grade in uni and that its hard and i fear my future etc to who she didn't respond for days and than just said she can't change it and tha she blocked me. I made a fake account than and asked her what happend and she wrote me that she doesn't want to hear my problems as she doesn't have the nerves for it anymore and that i will find new friends and that its over. I than said i find it sad to finish over relationship as we always had so much together adm i dont want to forget her. She than blocked me...
so its true that i maybe was getting on her last nerves, but i mean thats what friends are there for. And i aslo feel like she didn't likes me as much as she did. She never wrote me, so i had to and when i did so i had to wait for like days ro get a respond from her. I know she has another best friend as well. I dont know what happend she aslo tells me nothing about hersef anymore. I think she changed since i went to university. It was all completely differnet when i still went to high school and it breaks my heart that it will be never again than it was once with her. I also think its extremely insensitive of her, how she just blocked me... my parents think she is just jealous of me, that i brought it so far and study now. As she doesn't do anything and didn't even graduate from high school, but i dont think so.. i feel like she just got bored by me and has this other friend. If she really have wnated our friendship to work, she would have.
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So I just turned 31, and last summer ended a friendship with a woman I referred to as my sister since we met when we were 15, that’s nearly 20 years of friendship so I understand this is very hurtful.
However the writing has been on the wall for a while but you’ve clearly ignored the signs. You said yourself that you’ve felt her pulling away, she doesn’t seem to like you or make time for you. She hasn’t prioritized the friendship how you have in a long time, and I think that was a big sign of how you were growing apart.
You lean a lot on her for support, but you couldn’t see the difference between treating her as a friend vs a counselor or even a partner. No matter how you see your actions, in her eyes you only talked about yourself often, maybe complained or vented to her a lot and she got sick of it. Maybe she didn’t feel you reciprocated, and you kinda write it off as her not being open with you or chopping it up to her having a new friend therefore she’s distracted. You sound a lot like my old friend when you talk, and you may not accept what I’m about to say but it’s very self centered.
We aren’t a wall to bounce your thoughts off of, friendship should work both ways and your friend stopped feeling like it did. Anyway there’s nothing to be done now. She wants to end your friendship and as hurtful as it is you must accept it. Rather than pointing the finger, I suggest you reflect, take accountability for your part (because I’m sure she’s not innocent, she just got tired), and move on. Maybe one day you can reconnect and clear the air when she’s actually interested in that conversation but not right now.
I agree but i mean its not completely my fault as well
Or ehat you think
Can we talk in private
I know, and that’s why I said she’s not innocent, she had her faults too. I said take accountability for yours, so that you can also see her POV and you won’t feel so confused. And sure! What’s your username?
Followed you☺️ deleted the comment with your name in case you want it to stay private lol
i've had girls cut off contact with me once they went away to school before , i'd like be friends with them during the summer when they worked as servers at restaurants that i went to. then once they went away to school never hear from them again. not often would they actually block me though but have had that happen before
Yeah that sucks so sorry to hear that
But what do you think about my case
I can't get ober a person that fast
How can someone act like we never had something to do with each other before
sometimes friendships work in certain realities but not others , its different now that your away at school and friend back home not doing much with there time.
i had a girl block me for no reason too , she had worked her as a server but went away to australia for school for a couple months but when i tried to add her on instagram request never went through and now i'm blocked despite the fact we always got along in person and she had even talked to me outside of work a few times at gym and another bar
Crazy
How can some people
i had someone act like they never knew me before too , this girl who i had talked to many times and always saw at our local pub. but when i suddenly saw her at another bar in another city ( after not seeing her for months ) she acted like she didn't even know me and not even a word or acted like she knew me. i can't help but wonder how awkward its going to be if i ever see her again inperson
How can i get ovver her?
I always think abou the past
note both those 2 girls are friends , i had meet them at our local pub as they were servers , always got along with them and talked , even did shots at the bar with them. but when i tried to add them on instagram neither went through and both blocked me and haven't spoke to either inperson for months , one in australia won't be back till August , other unsure what she is doing and if she even plans to come back here this summer
Did you had a crush on them? Were you interested in them?
i think about the girl who blocked me a lot , hope that maybe i'll see her again inperson at that same place and maybe we can talk or something is my only hope as i can't contact her online. seems to harsh to block me as i never bothered her online and had only sent her 1 message and 1 request at the time
more interested in 1 of them , she was always the main girl i was into at that pub last summer , everyone sort of knew that but she got annoyed with me and might of even been seeing someone else although never really been able to get the true story on her. well she lied to me a lot so even harder to figure her out and the other people there wouldn't even like say 1 thing about her or talk to me about her despite fact they knew her and knew i had an issue with her