So in high school, I had a best friend. Throughout the school we were known as two peas in a pod. Other students couldn’t bring up her name without bringing up mine. When someone thought of me they thought of her.
That’s how close we were as best friends.
Then in our final year of high school we had a stupid falling out. It was over a stupid text message. I ignored her because I was angry. Then she started hanging out with another group and I started hanging out with another group.
We reconciled later on in that year but then we fell out again. Because I found out she had been telling people things I had told her. So I blocked her on all platforms.
Stupid high school shit, right?
We graduated high school without talking to one another.
Now I’m 22.
I look at my mother and her best friend. They’ve been best friends since birth. I resent the fact that I fumbled that bond that I once had with someone over something so ridiculous. Sometimes but not all the times I feel really sad about it.
then I take into the account the fact that this ex best friend is still very much alive.
I know what her instagram handle is. I know what her Snapchat handle is. But it’s just matter of reaching out.
But I ask myself
Is it worth it? It’s been 7 years.
How would you feel if a former friend who had blocked you had reached out again? Or sent you a friend request on instagram?
But part of me just craves that want of having life long friends.
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Its completely upto but uf it does work out u won't be best friends again u will need to out in the work and effort to even become friends let alone life long friends
We won’t be best friends ever again?
No u could be but thats somthing u both would want to happen and have to work towards happening it won't be as simple as saying your sorry and things becoming how they was in the past
I say give it a shot, what do you have to lose?
My dignity and my pride lol
It’s been 7 years since I blocked her
Yes, befriend your friend