Me and my best friend since high school have stepped back from each other. We planned to on vacation as a group of friends for his birthday. We all planned it, booked the day off with work and put money down on a hotel. Instead my friend used up all his vacation days for this year in February so he could meet up with a girl. His vacation days to use but he watched us put money down and book time off all while knowing he couldn't come along to his OWN birthday trip. Even lied and said he could. When confronted he refused to even say sorry to any of the group and would not take accountability for lying to us. Up until now he's been giving everyone the silent treatment.
However, last night I found out from a mutual friend of ours that he has essentially been talking behind my back. Saying I'm crazy and always overreacting. He's always put my emotions down, no matter how small, to being a overreaction and I'm sick of it.
When I announced to my friends I was pregnant he went into a rage calling me names and making me feel bad because it was an accident. He never let me be happy about it which I hold against him as I lost it so never will get to be happy about it.
He's sexually assaulted me before but I promised not to tell the police. When he's upset he screams at me to "vent" then tells me I'm overreacting if this uneases me. He always puts me and my dreams down but expects me to blindly support his own.
Im sick of his lack of accountability to things he does wrong, twisting them to make him the victim. I'm sick of forgiving him for things that hurt me but I never get an apology for.
I've not spoken to him in 2 weeks yet I don't miss him. I'm wondering if it's time we went our separate ways.
