I was telling my friends I was okay that he thought of me as a friend after telling him that I care about him, I honestly thought he was going to cry when he said, " nobody cares about me. I can die the next day and everyone will forget about me, I can go to jail and no one will care" ( he was wasted of course ) I told him that I was different, and once I like someone in a protective way. I tend to give my heart out and care for that person. He then tries to kiss me and that just confused me because one night one of my friends tried to help me by asking him what kind of girls he really likes and of course none of them sounds like it describes me, but instead a lot of those girls he described were at the club he even flirted with one of them and she was clearly interested and gave him her number. The next day he comes to me and tells me that he wasn't going to call her. Even my friends looked at me and was like, " why should you care?"
He obviously remembers everything because he kept messaging me and calling me asking if he did anything and if we're still cool to hangout even just us two and that's it.
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It's people that people are honest when they're drunk, because your inhibitions way down. But the thing people forget is that other parts of your brain are affected too. So while you might be telling the truth, the truth that you're telling may only be what you believe in that moment. Not what you believe in general.
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Thank you, I was thinking of telling him what he says when drunk because he always ask, and I really like him but I'm willing to accept our friendship but last night out of no where he was telling me how he doesn't really care about looks that much. Saying how if he likes you to where he can trust you and just tell you everything that's what makes him decide if he wants to date the girl. He was also saying how sweet I was. But when he's sober it's like he has 0 interest in me. He claims he doesn't lie people will think of him as an asshole because he will tell the truth and if he doesn't like you he will show it. So I guess he's not lying? But I don't know I just hope he kind of does know what he's saying because I don't want our friendship to end
" drunk talk is sober thoughts "
Thank you. Should I tell him though what he tells me when drunk because when he's sober it's like he has 0 interest in me, but we tend to hangout a lot and he starts to drink and that's when he changes. He doesn't even flirt he will just say stuff that makes me think if he does like me but is afraid to say it.
Yeah I would say something to him for sure.
I will definitely talk to him next time I see him, instead of calling or texting.
Yes in person is always better