This is regarding my fraternal, twin sister. Guilt took over her and she confessed to cheating on her boyfriend with one of his good friends. They obviously broke up and she's been single for several months.
Neither of us grew up in a healthy environment but she got more affected than me. She knows what she did was awful and even calls herself a horrible, selfish person. She's trying to be a better person for herself.
If she was writing this wanted to be a better person (not to get the guy back but for herself and not do that to others in the future) what would you say to her?
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It's possible, I feel it depends on why they cheat and what kind of relationship they really want. I doubt it's very often they ever get the resolve to actually make a relationship work or not be a chicken and just end the one they are in before moving onto another
She got drunk with him at a party and it happened. She confessed a couple days later.
I guess you could give her some credit for admitting it. If you decide to continue it, I'd consider what things to make adjustments on or with will be needed...
yeah confessing is better than the cheaters that either continue doing it under getting caught or if they never tell and the person ends up finding out elsewhere, or from someone else's mouth
Maybe I did read in article saying that if you cheat in a relationship your 2x more likely to cheat in the next relationship, I also heard that if you get cheated on your also likely to get cheated on a second time by your next partner. I don't know if any of it is true tho
So basically your past (whether past behaviors or who you attract) dictates your future?
It is possible, but it rarely happens.