My father continues saying that once in a while but he has conditions in the end. If I cheat on a boyfriend or wrong others, whatever. But if I were to directly betray him (ex: empty his bank account or hire someone to assault him), I'm disowned instantly and suddenly he doesn't have a daughter anymore. Where is so the called ''unconditional love'' talk then? He once tried to throw me out of the house when I was 19 for doing things online. My mother talked him out of it but he wouldn't speak to me for weeks. Unconditional love huh? LOL
My mother however at least keeps true to her word and unconditional love to her means literally unconditional even if I were beat her or attempt against her life. Off course she would have me arrested afterwards but still visit me. She's there till the very end. She's the only person I'll still have in my life no matter what. Literally unconditional.
I've made a promise and my stance has soften regarding how I would be if I had a child. I like my mother's stance, unconditional till the very end with your. This doesn't mean I'll support their bad choices or be permissive. It means loving them while not loving the action. Seriously is it hypocritical to say you have unconditional love when you still have certain conditions?
If hypothetically speaking my mother went crazy and killed my father, I would forgive her and visit her. If it's my dad that did that, he's dead to me immediately.
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