Does it sound like my brother is purposely trying to drive me crazy?

Pink2000

Ever since my dad died my brother and I moved back in with my mother. He has been living out of state for the last 5 years. At first, I was happy he was coming back so that he can be with my mother. However, he’s been making my life miserable and I don’t know if he’s doing it on purpose. 1. He put cigarette ashes in the plant I bought to remember my dad and it died. (I told him to stop and he didn’t think it would kill it) 2. He ate my vegetable fried rice that came with my tofu (I know it’s petty and not a big deal he claimed I told him he could have it. 3. He tore a hole in my bread for no reason. A big hole that caused my bread to become rock solid while his bread is untouched. 4. He stole my kitchen towel that I just bought and it was in his room. 5. My birth control has gone missing !!! It stays in my room and it’s just gone.

The bread like why tf would you do that
The bread like why tf would you do that

Every time I ask my mom why he’s doing this she always says he didn’t mean to or when I confront him he says oh sorry. Now with my missing birth control he said he did see them but didn’t remember where and he thought they were adderall.

The thing is if he is doing this on purpose I don’t understand why !! I mean he puts on this act where he wants to protect me and stuff but yet makes perverted comments about me.

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7 mo
This man is 37 by the way. I could understand if he was like 13.
Does it sound like my brother is purposely trying to drive me crazy?
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