I can see both sides of this issue, man. On one hand, it's totally uncool for a custodial parent to cut the other out of the kid's life just because they started dating someone new. That's super messed up, and kids need both parents most of the time.
At the same time though, I can understand why moms especially might be real protective and cautious about letting the kid spend time around a new romantic partner so soon after the divorce. Maybe they don't trust the other parent's judgment yet or are worried about how the kid will adjust.
I think ideally, both parents should be reasonable and compromise in the best interests of the child. The custodial mom doesn't have a right to completely deny visits just for dating. But the dad needs to understand her perspective too and be open about the relationship at a pace the mom and kid are comfortable with.
Family counseling or mediation could really help work through issues like trust and setting fair visiting guidelines. And the most important thing is making sure the kid feels secure, stable and loved on both sides. It's a touch situation for sure, but cooperation between parents is key.
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Cause they get jealous. Mostly angry bitter baby mommas. A real mother is fine with having the father have a real relationship with their child. It's a complicated problem.
no, you cannot legally deny custody time of a parent and child just because that parent is dating someone new
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