My friend Wendy and I know when he gets to his locker. It's when the 2nd class ends, before he heads to lunch. Let's call him Justin.
This is the 4th time we came from behind Justin (by blowing his hair) to initiate a conversation and get him to carry my friend's backpack. Wendy is more daring than me though. I only playfully tapped the shoulders and complement on how strong he is and the muscles (he does sports), which he replies ''Oh, ok, umm, thanks''. Wendy does more; she rubs her long hair on him, touches his arms, his ribcage and bottom. She talks more to him but he doesn't speak much.
We've seen Justin talk to his friends but he seems shy with us. Is he very shy with us?
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Your friend touches his ribcage and his butt? Just cause he's a guy doesn't mean he likes being felt up like that. I get the impression that you and your friend are just using him. You think that just because he's a guy that he loves being touched by 2 girls and maybe he does, my point is you need to back off on touching him like that. I don't know how old he is, but he's probably thinking you 2 are going to rape him! He probably likes the attention but at the same time he might not want to be touched like that and because society says that a guy that gets touched like your friend is touches him and doesn't want that he thinks something is wrong with him. Imagine if that was you or your friend and he came up to you and started feeling your ribcage and butt you'd probably report him for rape. You're not respecting his boundaries. I would never just walk up to any guy and touch him like you're doing unless he's my boyfriend. I don't like that girls think that they can just treat a guy like that and think it's okay. If you were him I'm sure you wouldn't like it.
There is a chance he is terrified never mind shy. Four times without any real response is when you back off a bit. He may not want the attention and it might be that more than being shy that stops him saying much.
Terrified is new to me. I've never heard of guy being terrified of 2 girls. I thought guys generally like being approached.
I am sure he’s around your age, a lot of teen boys are not that confident and it can be scary getting attention from 2 girls