Why my mom Is toxic & rude to me?

[Sugar100]

we always argue and she sometimes is bipolar and will say something mean.

I like a guy that likes me back. But we have this distance 2 weeks as we work different shifts so that’s why we haven’t been able to progress and continue the relationship yet. As I talk about him she randomly said I’m obssesed and that he don’t like me.

the only reason we talked and hung out was becuz he is interested in me likes me.

she might act that way as she’s jelaous or in bad mood. She’ll be jelaous when I have a boyfriend and she doesn’t.

then she’ll make fun of my body. I was born skinny. I never can gain weight. I got the genes of my dads skinny body. And she doesn’t shut up about my body, I learned to accept my skinny body and she puts me down. I eat all day and don’t gain weight.

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3 mo

She always talks to friends on phone saying I want a boyfriend , I have strong urge have a boyfriend , I haven’t had sex in 20 years. She also must be jelaous cuz she’s fat and I’m skinny. Becuz there’s no reason for her to judge my body for no reason.

[hahahmm]

I've known a lot of females like you in my life. You all go blabbing to others about your personal life & then act surprised when someone uses what you told them against you. It's not that complicated. Stop yapping. Also you're 27. Focus on moving out & getting your own place. Or if your not feminist focus on being the kind of woman a quality guy wants to wife.

[Billlewis]

She's probably jealous of you. My mom was bitterly jealous of me, and it took me a long time to figure that out.

[boggboss]

Why do u expect your mum who is a toxic person to act any way that's simply not toxic

[Sugar100]

It’s true then? I’m obbsssed cuz I like a guy? And in love daily happy? It true he don’t like me back?

[Sugar100]

Only reason y I talked to that guy in first place was cuz he began following me inside the job and walking near me on purpose so I make move to talk to him. We even spend his break together 4 days after that. If he never liked me he would never of done all that, only reason we have no progress now is cuz we work different schedules so we haven’t been able to see each other 2 weeks now.

[boggboss]

No I was saying your mum is a toxic person so why do u expect her to act any differnty then negatively

[Sugar100]

She’s always happy talking of him but out of now where she acted like a bitch and said he don’t like me. Then calling me skinny judging my body

[Sugar100]

She was happy nice all day I don't know y randomly she acted like that like a bitch

[Sugar100]

She sounds jealous cuz I have a guy that likes me back and she can’t stand seeing me in love all day daily

[boggboss]

Thats pretty much obvious but I'm sure u have complained about your mother's behaviour before and dony see why u think she will start acting normal

[Unit1]

Doesn't matter. Mothers being toxic is as common as common assholery.

She toxic? Cut her out of your life. Simple as that. That's what I did.

[Jerre]

It’s a shame your mom is like this, but I think her being bipolar is responsible for her talk. Do you live with her? If so, perhaps time to move out if you can.

[Sugar100]

I can’t move out she says I neee marry to move out , if I move out a guy will only want me for sex as he sees I’m n out family girl living with family not take me serious

[Sugar100]

Everyone in my life is married except for me so I cannot live alone until a guy marries me

[Sugar100]

It’s true then? I’m obbsssed cuz I like a guy? And in love daily happy? It true he don’t like me back?

[Jerre]

It’s time you quit listening to your mother and do what YOU want to do.

[Sugar100]

I neevr knew being in love happy daily means ur obbsssed?

[Sugar100]

He does like me
Back, that’s y we spent 4 days together talking spending his break togsther likea. Couple cuz he likes me. If he didn’t like me he wudnt do any of that.

[Sugar100]

Maybe she’s jealous. Jealous cuz she sees me happy in love and she has no man.

[Jerre]

That could very well be the reason

[Strong_Warrior]

@Jerre I have an other question for you. There is a girl i am flirting with. And she is bipolar too. Should i stop seeing her? But she said after treatment she healed. But i am not believing her. What do you think? I only wanna have sex with you and then leave. I dont want to make her my girlfriend. Is it unhealthy for me to hang out and bang this bipolar girl? I am afraid that her broken psychology will affect me or not?

[Jerre]

@Strong_Warrior I have never heard of anyone being cured of bipolar, only using prescribed drugs to help people. If I were you, I would leave her, find a normal girls.

[Anonymous]

Sorry for your situation. I have an other question for you. There is a girl i am flirting with. And she is bipolar too. Should i stop seeing her? But she said after treatment she healed. But i am not believing her. What do you think?

[Roudyrebel8]

Don't let her get you down love yourself for the beautiful amazing person you are

[art84]

Just ignore your mom.