
For Those Whose Lives are Good or Even Not So Good, Are you Feeling "NO LOVE LOSS" With Family Perhaps You No Longer" FIT IN" With?


That's been since I was born, being last of 5 to be born made me odd one out , see my siblings had nothing to do with me ever was them and me, I don't know them couldn't tell who that are or how it what they're about in have I haven't spoken with my siblings in decades of rest of my immediate family, meaning cousins aunts and so on, I wish I can say I had a relationship with my mom as well was weird living in a house and your invisible, after a while I gave up trying to be apart of and included so I just told myself being last I've born my mom is too tired with my sibling and have nothing for me, so I had lots of question so I said to hell with them, and went do find answers on my own at library was my home started reading one thing and never stopped been on my own ever since, I realized had I started and accepted my position there I would most likely be dysfunctional
I do not feel any loss after excluding my sister from my life. What she offered under the label of "love" was acerbic and harmful.
Wow! First time in a long time I heard "acerbic", but very apropos for those bitter "relationships". I'm dealing with a couple of those now.
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Yes, after four or five "second" chances, it is reasonable to assume that nothing will ever change in the way she treats me.
I have family members that I cut out of my life eons ago. Nope, no love loss. My life and the lives of the people I care about most are better off without the negative energy.
Not from all of them! Some of them sure, I’m glad I’m away from them!
Aww that's sad ma'am
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I have family that I don't stay in contact with much, but it's largely due to them moving around a significant amount. I honestly would like to reconnect with them because they are within a days drive of us now. I really value my family relationships.
I don’t have any family left. I’m all by myself now, but I have a sister that we have an estranged relationship. She won’t even talk on the phone she’ll just text and she never invites me for Christmas due to a problem over the childhood home from the past
In my immediate family, the dynamics have changed greatly after my mother's death. My father married again, but to a woman who was more his opposite. We get along, but we do not see eye to eye on many things. She is needy all the time, and knows how to put on a good show to have things happen her way. What is funny, is that my father will turn around, and use her tactics on her to have her do things he wants.
There are some extended family, I will not talk too much because of the way they are. I will hold a general conversation to let them know I see them; but I will not hold an in depth conversation.
I don't feel any loss because I've never felt connected to them. I've never had a "real" family. I only miss my nephews and nieces.
Do I hate my siblings? YES!! For all I care, they can slide under a Mack truck and taste their own blood!!
None, whatsoever!! The ONLY time I EVER want to see either of them, again, is if I have a Louisville Slugger in my hands and use it to attempt to park their heads in the cheap seats!! They deserve nothing less after what they did to mom & I!! But, I'm not bitter!
Yes. They don’t like how healthy I am despite my disposition. They seem to think “busting your ass” means sitting on your ass 50+ hours a week.
I am in a similar situation, I agree no loss on my part.
Thankfully I get along great with all my family.
Yeah I have cousins I grew apart from. That makes me feel had.
Not you too Paris
I moved away from my family because I was the one That wasn't good enough example grandmother uncle's and cousins
Oh yeah
Well, no love lost since our views don't fit this guy's views of what our thinking SHOULD be.
Never had that issue i get along w all. Some can be too much and so manage.
I haven't seen anybody in my family for about 8 months or so.
No, I miss my family.
sometimes I do?
Nope I love my family and they love me.
What family?
I’m all alone, no family
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