How can I handle a friend asking nosey questions about how I can afford things?

[Anonymous]

[citygirlxox]

It depends I could be either offend or I could understand why she’s asking. Like if I’m unemployed but I’m going shopping every day I could understand where the Curiosity is coming from but if I’m just being asked how can I afford to buy a new home or whatever I would be offended

[Asker]

But I’m working full time

[citygirlxox]

Than I would be offended it’s possible she is jealous that you have things she wants

[citygirlxox]

Just be careful with people like that, they are not a true friend

[Daniela1982]

Just tell them that you have worked for them, and if they work hard they can too. Not spending money unwisely on drugs, booze, and new cars will help too. That should shut them up.

[slatyb]

"It's just a question of priorities."
"I have/had a generous relative."

[Asker]

I just had that patronising tone as I she’s talking to me like I’m still a skint student. No im fully employed now

[Asker]

I just find that patronising tone as if she's***

[slatyb]

So drop her.

[boggboss]

Either tell them or say its none of their business simple lol

[Asker]

I was making conversation and I was telling her I was going for a surgery on my leg for £600 and she was asking if I could afford it who does she think she is

[boggboss]

I imagine she thinks she is your friend and that's not a boundary she sees

[Asker]

It’s that patronising tone I hate it’s like she still thinks I’m a skint student…

[boggboss]

Loland u guys are suppose to be friends lol amazing

[Asker]

I haven’t known her for long but I’m starting to notice she can be a bit cheeky

[boggboss]

So set boundaries I wouldn't have a issue with this clearly u do so set rules

[Asker]

She’s one of these overly confident people and she’s had a few other friends who completely ghosted her

[boggboss]

OK not really sure why that matters 😅

[7Phoenix7]

If you're not good or close friends then she shouldn't be asking.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Trust me... learn to pretend you're poor! Buy used cars and clothes... pretend... your life will be easier

[sheikalana]

I don't tolerate these type of questions. I don't ask personal question to anyone so I do not tolerate people asking me personal questions. I would tell them to mind their own business.

[Fireguy17]

tell her that you work your ass off so you can afford them, or that you sell your ass to afford them.
Your call.

[Pinay_ako]

It’s your business, not hers… next question!

[Paris13]

Giggle and Say, "Wouldn't You Love to Know----NO!"lolxxoo

[Peter_Penetrator]

Just tell them that you’re making bank off your Onlyfans account. See what they say then.

[Booklover_90]

Stop answering her questions. Hopefully, she gets it. If not, tell her to stop asking intrusive questions.

[JacobJordan]

You tell her "my financials are none of your fuckin business"

[Jkgordon]

Ohhh boyyy I had one of those you gotta ask her is she jealous that’s what I did

[jaskin777]

Tell her to stop minding ur business and yes that u got everything handled

[serious_miss419]

How does the friend know about ur ability to afford things?

[CVNT5]

lol just tell them you have a job.
shrimple as that.

[DreamLife7]

Girl learn how to lie. Sheesh y'all too nice and wonder why y'all get treated like doormats

[Anonymous]

Since this is anon and were not your friends, can you tell us how you afford things?😂

[Cutegirl06]

Tell her it's none of her business!!

[KrakenAttackin]

Exactly. Or mess with her head and tell her you have a "sugar daddy"..😂😂😂..

@Cutegirl06. Please don't ever get a sugar daddy.

[laly520]

tell em not to ask

[JayBones]

Tell them you bought Bitcoin when it was $300

[jahaims]

Tell them you keep finances private

[noohair]

None of your fucking business works for me.