Ladies if your sister or close family member or friend couldn't have any kids and they wanted you to carry a baby for them would you do it?

[Bklynbadboy12]

I mean like a sister aunt or close family friend

[ariadneR]

Wow, what a thought provoking question. 🤔

So it honestly depends on how close I am with that family member. i would consult my partner as well. He needs to be involved in the decision too

[Bklynbadboy12]

Wow I love your answer!

[laly520]

no

I would have emotional bond with baby n I won't be able to give em away so no

[Bklynbadboy12]

This is the best answer so far

[laly520]

thanks <33

[Bklynbadboy12]

No thank you for that amazing response let me just got ahead and give you MHO

[laly520]

aww thanks for the MHO

[Bklynbadboy12]

Your so welcome thank you for your feedback

[SueShe]

No, I would not, simply because I don't want to have any children myself.

Those members of my immediate family are aware of my decision and I am sure that they would not ask me to change my mind. Also, there are so many orphans that would be more than happy to be adopted.

Furthermore, carrying a baby for a third party bears a number of risks. What would happen if the surrogate mother decides to keep the child? What legal implications would that have for the child and the parents that are not able to have a child of their own? Too many issues that I am not willing to take upon me.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Cool that's a good way to look at it

[wiltingrosepetal]

Nah, no one is worth that. If I had a sister, I'd consider it, since at least we'd share the same DNA - it would make sense why she'd want me to help her. But a close friend? Babes, there are thousands of kids waiting to be adopted. And hundreds of women who you could willingly way to be your surrogate, why do you need me? 😭

If I'm going through 9 months of pregnancy, I'm keeping the kiddo. After all that time together, I won't be able to let my baby be raised by someone else

[Bklynbadboy12]

That makes sense

[Alwayreckles93]

For my aunt yes absolutely but believe it or not she's pregnant at age 48 but if you meet her in person you wpuld actually believe she's 30-32 and she's now having a girl. Her oldest is now 21 years old in University attending law school. She's always been kind tome so absolutely I would do the favor for her. I hate it when especially guys my age say uh I want a young 20 year old woman because a woman my age can't have babies that is the dumb and most idiotic statemet I've ever hear I must give guys my agebthe side eye. They have no idea what they're talking about my 48 year old aunt is going on 7 months pregnant and healthy baby according to my aunts doctor. So who ever says woman over 30 can't have babies they are delusional.

[Bklynbadboy12]

I believe it cause you don't look your age either

[Sirenboobzilla]

Would heavily depend on my relationship with that person; how close are we? For me it wouldn't simply be enough to be family. I personally don't plan on children yet, and my partner is ok with it; he would need to be OK with this as well before I'd agree.

[Altheavas]

Depending on the person, how they treated me. I have one person, I know I would is my aunt. She is like the second mom to me. I couldn’t get through my mom with something, I know she got my back!

[Bklynbadboy12]

That's very sweet of you. I like that!

[Taniisokay]

I wouldn't. that's awkward. Will it be my baby or their baby? Better to have someone outside of the family for this issue.

[Bklynbadboy12]

That makes sense 🤔

[Apple1996]

Yes I would like to be a surrogate so it'd be even better if it was for a family member

[Bklynbadboy12]

Your truly amazing. I like that you always think of others!

[Jennz6]

I’d do it with @bklynbadboy12

[Bklynbadboy12]

I'm gonna hold you to that

[PeachyPie93]

Nope.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Okay cool thanks for the feedback

[DreamLife7]

Hell no