Husbands female friend invited him to her house and I’m livid?

[Anonymous]

My husband has a female friend from work who he’s studying with along with another coworker. She invited them to her apartment to study and it made me mad. We’ve had conflict about her before. I don’t know why she had to invite him. Am I within my right to ask him not to go?

[nawtee_me]

I think the better question might be why does it make you mad? Do you trust him? If so then why would him being there upset you. It is not like he will be alone with her if others are there too. Jealousy stems from lack of trust.

You have the right to ask him not to go. But, If he is really studying to better himself, then him not going is better for him or for you?

[melnc]

Either take you with him to spend time while they're studying or find an excuse not to go. I understand your concern... after all, he is your husband.

[hanabunny]

I’d say you’re within you’re right to ask just try not to come off as too demanding or controlling and he may receive your concerns better. Is she in school or something? Because what exactly does she want to study lol

[ashikaa20]

@hanabunny please follow and dm me now.. this is my request for you, I want your help

[Ms_Facesitter]

If it's just to study there is no problem, what annoys me a bit is why they have to study together. You could also invite them over to study at your place ;)

[Anonymous]

What is the point in this post anymore… you can’t possibly be taking anyone’s advice because you keep posting about it…. Like a sick fixation or something I don't know.

[Cutegirl06]

Do you not trust him?

[gorydetails]

You're in your "right" to ask him not to go.

[NOTHINGEVERHAPPENS]

I think you are, yes.

[Anonymous]

Why are you so insecure. Trust issues

[jahaims]

If you don't trust him then get a divorce.

[dazzafromoz]

This is the best response

[dustybiker2]

Get a grip.

[Asker]

Why do you say that?

[dustybiker2]

You have to trust. You can't live your life like that. Think how unattractive that is if the roles flipped. It is for work, no?