How come mothers are shamed when the father leaves when she gets pregnant?

[chocolatetwopointo]

same when everyone calls the kid ”fatherless” like its their fault, nobody elses fault but the father, god men have it so easy.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

My bad, I accidentally clicked your follow button when I was scrolling through. Then I thought it'd be rude to retract it. Oh well, I follow you now!

Yeah, team effort should not be blamed on one person. I don't know if it's so easy for us though. You get expected to do a lot of things on this side too. But definitely that sucks with your example.

Even though I'm atheist, I'm starting to dig the Christian ideas and other religions. No sex before marriage! Solves everything, don't you think?

[Summeroflove]

People want to bring kids into the world but not care for them.

[chocolatetwopointo]

mostly men

[Summeroflove]

It’s pretty equal. It’s just entitled people who don’t want to accept responsibility.

[chocolatetwopointo]

soo.. men. lmao

[Summeroflove]

You have a unhealthy obsession with men

[chocolatetwopointo]

nope js telling the truth

[Summeroflove]

All you talk about is men

[chocolatetwopointo]

still the truth

[Summeroflove]

I mean it’s not normal to obsess this much

[chocolatetwopointo]

as i said, still the truth

[chocolatetwopointo]

simply spreading awarness

[Summeroflove]

Lol okay

[chocolatetwopointo]

yupp

[Gwendoline]

I don't believe that is the case. I think the shame is in the bad choices they make to sleep around with men who are not committed to them and the lack of responsibility and the responsibility that falls upon soceity and their relatives to support the consequences of their bad choices.

[chocolatetwopointo]

im talking ab people who r in committed relationships too. and still, do men have no responsebility at all?

[Gwendoline]

Women who are pregnant but whose husband has left are not shamed, they are supported unless they've cheated and become pregnant. The man is shamed.

[chocolatetwopointo]

oh yes they are, do u live under a rock?

[Gwendoline]

No I live in the real world.

[chocolatetwopointo]

hard to believe

[alice55]

People say it’s women fault cause she did not chose the right one, i never understood it either as many men lie Even during multiple years and hide their true personnality 🤷‍♀️

[Agape93]

Because guys don't hold each other accountable. They'll just join him in bitching about his ex making him pay child support

[Ariesman81]

It's typically the woman that pushes him away. If she was pleasant to be around he would probably stay.

[chocolatetwopointo]

so men should face no accountability? he could’ve left or COMMUNICATED.

[Ariesman81]

Hahaha... yeah, cause women listen so well, right?

[chocolatetwopointo]

yes? better than men. that think killing their whole family for their mistress over a divorce is easier.

[Ariesman81]

Divorce is expensive though.

[chocolatetwopointo]

so you’d rather kill ur family for ur mistress? smartest man.

[PrincessC16]

Pfft..🙄

[Anonymous]

I think women shame the mand and men shame the woman

[chocolatetwopointo]

what?

[LEGENDARY4200]

It's more of a society shameing

[chocolatetwopointo]

wdym?

[LEGENDARY4200]

Kinda like a stigma

[chocolatetwopointo]

still dont understand?

[LEGENDARY4200]

It goes back to the early days of society, single moms were looked down apon

[chocolatetwopointo]

no shit? thats literally my point, no?

[LEGENDARY4200]

Ya...