Would it be wrong to say I wish I was unable to have kids?

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

[PaleDale]

If you're planning on having sex sometime in the future and you don't want kids then I can understand that it would be convenient to be unable to have kids. If you're not planning on ever having sex, then it makes no difference if you're able to have kids or not.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

why do u always have to bring up sex?

[PaleDale]

Just for this question.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

you’ve done it before too

[PaleDale]

The point I'm making in this question is that if someone is planning on remaining celibate for the rest of their lives then the question of whether they can have children or not doesn't matter.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

and what if i get raped?

[PaleDale]

Then I agree with you

[Anonymous]

it would be foolish for any 16 year old girl to think that she knows what she will want ten years into the future.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

well i dont like kids, and people who dont like them shouldn't be parents

[MemeSupreme]

are you recreating your old questions on your new account lol

[MemeSupreme]

and no its your life

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

yeah i wanna see if ur answers have changed

[Cutegirl06]

No. If you don't want kids just don't have them.

[Berethor]

You 16, that too young to make such wishes, why you want to ruin your family?

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

wdym ruin my family? u mean my bloodline?

[Berethor]

Yea, in most cases there is no legacy without children, and that's a bad thing.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

what legacy? we’re not royalty? plus i have a brother, he can have kids idc

[Berethor]

Not only royalty have a legacy, so your parents didn't put all their eggs in one basket, good.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

what?

[Berethor]

Putting all eggs in one basket meaning that they put their bet on only one child.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

wdym their bet?

[Berethor]

The bet of their legacy and grandchildren, that's why it good to have multiple children.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/I_Want_Grandkids

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

ur so selfish. u can't have kids expecting them also to have a kid. you’ll be an awful dad.

[Berethor]

You the one who is selfish by not wanting to have children, family legacy is important.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

in what way possible is it selfish NOT to have kids? family legacy is not important at all, no one will remember u bc u never done anything good. wanna have a legacy do something good for the world.

[Berethor]

You don't want to put efforts for the family, as your parents done for you, it selfish.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

ok so i should ruin my life js bc my parents did? make it make sense pls.

[Berethor]

You parents gave you live and raise you, you don't want to do the same, it selfish.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

im not gonna give my parents life or raise them, their parents already did that. they chose to have kids, and im choosing not to. u can't have expectations that ur kid is also gonna wanna have kids.

[Berethor]

If my children would not want children of their own then they are a disappointment.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

”why do my kids hate me?” ”why does no one want to carry my legacy of being an awful, selfish father bc i have no real accomplishments?”

[Berethor]

Having children is an accomplishment, and not wanting children is clearly selfish.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

sure but not something u have a legacy for, if u want legacy do something good for society. in 100 years nobody is gonna remember u. bro how is it selfish not to have kids?💀 if any way isn't it selfish to have a kid to carry YOUR legacy?

[Berethor]

Family first, society second, you won't be remembered sooner without children, you acting as though you do much for the society. It not just my legacy, it's my ancestors legacy as well, you not having children then you living just for yourself, it selfish, your parents put much efforts into you, and it all going to be for nothing, if you have no children, it like you never lived.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

i dont care ab being remembered. ill be dead why would i care ab others?

[Berethor]

Because that's life's goal, to pass the torch for your children, and they pass to theirs.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

yeah for YOU, not for me.

[Simslover92]

Nope. Not everyone should be parents.

[Iron_Man]

yes you don’t want that

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

why?

[Iron_Man]

don’t you want your own children and do all these wonderful things with your children and who’s gonna take care of you when you’re older you don’t wanna be stuck in a nursing home

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

not really, id rather be in a nursing home with people actually caring ab me

[Iron_Man]

Trust me those” places are horrible. You get bad treatment. You can even get abused. You don’t wanna go there believe me

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

rather that than get shit from my kids who won't even love me, both my parents hate their mothers bc they’re old and need help with everything. nobody wants to take care of their parents for the rest of their lives.

[Iron_Man]

remember the parents took care of the kids for a very long time

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

ok and? they chose to have a kid i didn't chose to have parents

[CB-Raido-Time]

One day you would seriously regret it.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

why?

[AngryCarl2]

You can say whatever you like.

[seeyounexttuesday]

Yah.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

why?

[seeyounexttuesday]

Because having children is the most amazing thing you can ever do with your life.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

to you maybe, not to me

[seeyounexttuesday]

You don't know that. 'you're 16.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

i do tho, I've never liked kids. most people who dont like kids won't be good parents.

[seeyounexttuesday]

You definitely have the ignorance and hubris of youth down pat.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

thats exactly why i wouldn't be a good parent

[seeyounexttuesday]

now.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

and forever.

[seeyounexttuesday]

doubt.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

thats dumb, i alr know i won't change

[seeyounexttuesday]

And there's the hubris.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

well I've said this since i was 6 soo..

[seeyounexttuesday]

And you were still a child then.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

and I've grown up..

[seeyounexttuesday]

You're still a child. The better question is why are you so bitter?

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

how am i bitter?

[seeyounexttuesday]

your unfounded dislike of children for one.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

how is it bitter for not liking crying machines who only piss and shit?

[seeyounexttuesday]

It's bitter to think that's all children do. Do you do other things beside piss and shit?

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

thats what kids do tho until the age of like 5💀

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

im extremely impatient and i could never deal with that, especially not if im tired

[seeyounexttuesday]

What an odd thing to say for someone who claims to have been around children.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

huh? when did i claim to have been around kids?

[seeyounexttuesday]

then how do you know you don't like them? lol.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

ever heard of siblings? cousins? being in public? the internet? u really aren't that bright are u…

[seeyounexttuesday]

Don't try to be insulting. It's not a good look for you. Sure. I have siblings, cousins, I have children, nieces and nephews. And your description of children is a bitter and pessimistic one.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

well yeah there's nothing positive ab kids💀

[seeyounexttuesday]

I mean that's a ridiculous statement. You claim to be a grownup but make asinine statements.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

nope its called an opinion, i dont like kids. u need to get that inside ur head.

[seeyounexttuesday]

And you need to get it inside your head that you're a child yourself.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

ok and? i dont see ur point?

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

just bc im a kid i should want them? u sound retarded

[seeyounexttuesday]

No because you're a child you can't know what you'll be like as an adult, nor do you have a good understanding of the world. You're barely out of diapers.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

i do tho, u can't tell me what ik or dont.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

i hate kids if u haven't noticed that yet, and im pretty sure u wouldn't want a person who hates kids but were manipulated into having them as a mother

[seeyounexttuesday]

Right. Because you're immature. That's why you hold your opinions.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

im not tho. ur probably unhappy with ur kids thats why ur on here saying ill change my mind

[seeyounexttuesday]

why would you say something as ignorant as "you're (not UR) probably unhappy with your (not UR) kids" ? Do you think it makes you sound intelligent?

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

idc if i sound intelligent, and its called shortings. nevermind ur too old to understand.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

and thats literally what majority of parents do💀 they say they love having kids but love being away from them and talking shit about them.

[seeyounexttuesday]

It's called showing a lack of intelligence.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

bc i say ur instead of your?

[seeyounexttuesday]

I love having my kids around. I also love time with adults when they're not around. They're not mutually exclusive.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

mhm right, then why can't u understand that many people dont want kids?

[seeyounexttuesday]

And why can't you understand that the people who claim to not want kids are largely doing it because of nihilistic propaganda.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

and u think im one of them? I've told u i hate kids. why would i lie ab that?

[seeyounexttuesday]

I've said it many times in my replies. You're a child. How you feel now is not how you will likely not be how you feel in 5 years, much less 10.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

yet i said I've already felt this way for 10 years. so im pretty sure i won't change my mind. and with my reasons its even less likely💀

[seeyounexttuesday]

Do you still play with Barbie dolls?

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

i never have

[seeyounexttuesday]

what toys did you like at 6? Do you still play with them at 16?

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

yeah thats my point, some things changed. but my thoughts on kids didn't. and so what are u gonna do if i dont change my mind?

[seeyounexttuesday]

I don't really care. It's you who will die alone and miserable. Not me.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

LMAO. wanna know something? my mom works at a nursing home, she takes care of elderly. she told me (and many others) that kids rarely ever check or even talk to their parents, even when they go home to those elderly people. so you’ll also die alone. and personally idgaf if i die alone. and ill be rich bc i didn't waste millions on a kid who won't want anything to do with me

[seeyounexttuesday]

Nah, my kids care about me. But you can continue to live in your delusions.

[seeyounexttuesday]

lol. you're so goofy.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

how?🤷‍♀️

[seeyounexttuesday]

Everything you claim is your opinion is just goofy.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

okk byebye see u in 10 years when ill still hate kids

[seeyounexttuesday]

If you're still on this website in 10 years, that's more pathetic than you not wanting kids.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

it was sarcasm but okay