If you 2 have spoken about not becoming Girlfriend & Boyfriend then it sounds like he is trying to pick up some other girl as a girlfriend and do the right thing by her and not sleep with you while he's doing that.
he isn't testing or degrading you or anything bad towards you, it's just that he wants a Girlfriend and if you've said you're not the one for him then he is finding someone else to be one.
If his attempts with her fall through he'll likely be interested in sex with you again. If this is all OK with you then bring it up and tell him you are OK with it.
If you are not OK with it then it means you are jealous and want to be his GF, own up to it, and tell him so.
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This guy actually respects you, because this friends with benefits buisness is so a guy can sleep around and not upset the girl or vice versa, so your basically using each other, but this guy don't want to use you any more, so he just wants your friendship without disrepecting you in the process, a pretty desent guy really, you have a good friend in him, because these are real friends, the others who do want sex are just friends because you give them sex, your giving what theyu want and probably getting a reputation without knowing it, so beware of this friends with benefits buisness, because real friends wouldn't use you in this way,x
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I'm sure this guy wants to be boyfriend-girlfriends with you. He's reasoning that by removing the sex and just going back to being friends, something better can build up, and he can change your mind about being serious with him... If you have asked him if he wants to be closer to you than he already was, and he said yes, he's making a move to make that become reality. It's actually a really mature move, and this guy has his game plan ready...
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