I have a friend, who I started developing feelings for. Seemed like he was really starting to like me too. We would hang out, cuddle, etc. His friends told me he was very shy, but liked me. So I would make some most of the moves to initiate hanging out. Over the past few weeks though, I felt like I was doing most of the effort, and wanted to find out if he actually liked me, or if I was annoying him. So I wrote him, asking if he was interested, great, if not to let me know because I didn’t want to ruin our friendship or make things awkward. He replied with a very sweet message that at this point he didn’t know what he wanted. He made sure to let me know that he thought I was beautiful, awesome, sexy, etc. However said he was so busy with work and also his desire to move to a different state, that he was indecisive about “dating” anyone. Above all else he is a great man. Very sincere, sweet, a complete gentleman, etc. So I would never want to jeopardize a friendship with him, since that is how we started. However I want to know if guys can be indecisive and then come around, or if this is usually the guys “nice way “ of letting a girl down. My intuition really told me he really likes me. That is why I am so confused. I guess my question is simple…do guys sometimes need to think about what they want and come around…or is this the end? I am not waiting for him, since what he said has closed the door for now. But just curious as to the meaning behind the answer. Thank you for your responses in advance.
I would never want to jeopardize a friendship with him, since that is how we started.
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