He was the only guy there. I only found this out from Facebook.
Am I right to be mad with him?
I'd be pissed. That was totally disrespectful to you as his girlfriend, disrespectful to your relationship, and disrespectful to his friend as well, even if nothing happened. I'd be even more pissed if I had to find out from Facebook, rather than from his own mouth. We'd have to have a serious talk about our relationship, and re-establish some boundaries. If we stayed together, it would definitely be the beginning of a probationary period for him. That sh*t's not gonna fly. I wouldn't be with someone who shows that he doesn't consider my feelings, or alternatively, knows what my feelings would be and has complete disregard for them.
first of all talk to him to make sure its not a rumor or just to get his side of the story. also remember he was drunk so he didn't really have will power of self control. but you DEFINITELY have the right to be mad at him that's just crazy and not right of him. he shouldn't have gotten drunk with all those girls, especially if you werent there. you have every right to be pissed, but don't sweat yourself or get jealous because its not worth it.you need to talk with him.
Wow, talk about completely disrespectful for you! And you only found out from Facebook?! That raises even more red flags like what else was he doing that night? I'd be more than pissed!
You have every right to be angry about that, it is badass skinny dipping with a bunch of girls, but not when you're in a relationship lol. Why was he just hanging out with his friends gf? Where was his friend at haha
If the roles were reversed, I suspect the women would be telling the guy to relax. In my opinion, if a gal did that to me, she'd be on a very short leash until I decided if I still wanted to be with her.
You mean if a girl was skinny dipping with a bunch of guys, she'd pander on about it being no big deal, nothing to worry about? Maybe some would. But I wouldn't put myself in that kind of situation. I wouldn't be swimming naked with any guy when I'm in a relationship, unless my dude is there too, also naked, and it's obviously mixed company, not just a bunch of guys. Even then I don't think I'd get naked with everyone, I'd just feel uncomfortable.
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why do women always ask if they have a right to be mad?
You feel upset about the situation, so yes you have a right to be
You should let him know how you feel
He should of at least mention the event to you
Yes you definitely have a right. I'm sure if you got drunk with a bunch of guys and got naked he would mind.
well,he was drunk,and it's not exactly cheating-but your feelings are normal and he should know better-everyone knows you don't hang out with naked people of the opposite sex when in a relationship.
You have every right to be. Why was he with his friend's girlfriend without him? That's weird. He has some serious explaining to do.
No. Because men have to skinny dip at least once surrounded by women.
You should be angry, and you have a right to be. That's not how a man in a relationship should act.
Dont let him make an excuse thathe wasdrunk because if really was srunk he wouuld have drowned. Keep an I leye on him he's deceitful
Sounds sexy, haha. I'm jealous lol. But yes you should be angry.
You have the right to be mad at him, if you found out threw Facebook and he wasn't even the one who admitted to it and owned up if probably the worst part of it. Be pissed, and let him know why.
i would be pissed too
Yes of course it could of led to other things
Kinda, I would be.
yess! of course.
You should be mad
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