"The only thing that’s important in a relationship is being sexually and romantically attracted to each other." That's a pretty shallow thing to say for someone that doesn't want to be complimented shallowly
I agree, the way you look shouldn't be the most important. But it has some importance. You want to hear the right compliment from the right person. Until that comes along, everything will sound ungenuine and meaningless.
I appreciate it when my guy tells me I'm beautiful, I know he means it! Wait until your pregnant, and starting to think and feel fat, when he tells me how beautiful I look or I just look pretty melts my heart!
i understand what you are saying, but dont you think some people may think you're beautiful even though you dont? that doesn't mean they are lying to you
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This is absurd. Looks are subjective. If you don't find yourself good looking its whatever but don't get offended if some guy thinks you're attractive. Instead feel good about yourself. And looks is the first thing we notice in people so obviously any guy who doesn't know you personally is only gonna know what you look like.
I don’t find myself attractive at all, but still let others think otherwise. It’s certainly better than someone saying they agree with you, don’t you think?
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"I don't need nice lies to cover up the truth"... who says its a lie? you sound insecure even though you say you arnt.
Nah I just think she thinks her opinion is the only one that counts. Doesn’t mean she has low self esteem though, just means she doesn’t trust other people’s opinions
I won't call you beautiful, or tell you I love you. I know girls hate that shit. I'll still tell my friends you're the most beautiful woman I ever met and I'm nuts about you, but you won't hear that stuff from me.
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Just say 'thank you'. Gratitude is one of those desirable traits to develop. Complaining about everything is not.
"The only thing that’s important in a relationship is being sexually and romantically attracted to each other."
That's a pretty shallow thing to say for someone that doesn't want to be complimented shallowly
I agree, the way you look shouldn't be the most important. But it has some importance. You want to hear the right compliment from the right person. Until that comes along, everything will sound ungenuine and meaningless.
I appreciate it when my guy tells me I'm beautiful, I know he means it! Wait until your pregnant, and starting to think and feel fat, when he tells me how beautiful I look or I just look pretty melts my heart!
Okay, then, you're ugly.
Feel better? No, you don't. It's okay to not want compliments all the time, but this really is not a true problem. Go see a therapist.
I don’t think I’m beautiful and I like being called beautiful if others think I am.
I’m sorry you don’t feel the same :(
i understand what you are saying, but dont you think some people may think you're beautiful even though you dont? that doesn't mean they are lying to you
This is absurd. Looks are subjective. If you don't find yourself good looking its whatever but don't get offended if some guy thinks you're attractive. Instead feel good about yourself. And looks is the first thing we notice in people so obviously any guy who doesn't know you personally is only gonna know what you look like.
Well, all I got to say is no one beats me up on my looks worse than me. We are our own worse critics.
So because you dont think you're pretty means other people can't think you are?
Um... okay?
I don’t find myself attractive at all, but still let others think otherwise. It’s certainly better than someone saying they agree with you, don’t you think?
"I don't need nice lies to cover up the truth"... who says its a lie? you sound insecure even though you say you arnt.
Nah I just think she thinks her opinion is the only one that counts. Doesn’t mean she has low self esteem though, just means she doesn’t trust other people’s opinions
I won't call you beautiful, or tell you I love you. I know girls hate that shit. I'll still tell my friends you're the most beautiful woman I ever met and I'm nuts about you, but you won't hear that stuff from me.
Take whatever compliments you can get as long as they don't call you something ugly.
I understand where you are coming from. I just don't totally agree with your perspective.
I don't mind those compliments as long as compliments are still given in other areas about me.
Agreed. If you want to appease me, compliment my brain.
if you were TRULY beautiful you wouldn't get mad at compliments. Clearly you find insincerity in every compliment people give you.
LOL! Hey guys, imagine being so privileged that you complain about people finding you beautiful.
Holy shit lady..