My Unconventional Type In Men

[Anonymous]

1. Average height men

I was before attracted to lots of short guys of course, think 5'0-5'3. However I prefer 5'10-5'11, my height or an inch taller is perfect for me. I don't wear heels as they hurt my back and feet, and I love the sporty look rather than the whole high heels thing. That's the perfect male height to me. I can still be attracted to say a 6'4 man, but I find 5'9 minimum and 6'3 maximum the most attractive. 6'5-6'8 is kind of tall even for me but wouldn't mind if I really liked the guy.

I can still be attracted to shorter guys, but that never works out as the guy would mind my height, and I just find myself more comfortable with men my size.

2. Feminine men

I like men with androgynous but still looking masculine features. I do not know how to explain it.

I also notice myself liking feminine men in personality. I can't help it. It never works out though.

3. Big eyes

Big eyes with that squinted/slanted look are very sexy. I just find big eyes really attractive.

4. Skinny

I won't lie, I ideally prefer fit men, and they prefer me as I workout and lift as well. However, almost all the men I've liked so far and noticed a pattern they happen to be very very skinny. So obviously my preference is not in line with what i seem to be attracted to.

5. Ugly smiles

I just love it. I have no idea how to explain it but I love smiles that are quirky and weird.

6. Light skin

Don't get me wrong, some of the sexiest and hottest men I've ever met in my entire life have been dark skinned. And I have been attracted to lots of different ethnicities. However, when I looked at the pattern of my type, it was always light skinned guys. It might be a weird coincidence, or a subconscious preference. Nothing i find special about lighter skin though. Possibly a subconscious thing.

7. Round baby faces

All of them had some sort of innocent looking face or a baby face, or rather softer features and a fuller face with a small head.

8. Thick legs

I prefer broad shoulders but with thick legs. Even the skinny guys I liked, they had nice legs and a nice bum. Even if it curves out slightly, it doesn't bother me at all.

9. Gay men

Something just attracts me to them. I can't tell you how many times I've been rejected by 'oh I'm sorry, I'm gay' thing. Gay men are just too sexy.

10. Long hair

I can't explain how unbelievably sexy this is.

Damn oh damn, long hair is so sexy. I just find it so so sexy. I can't explain it. I haven't met a lot of men with long hair, but the ones that I saw are the sexiest to me. I just love it.

I basically like a balance of masculine and feminine with more masculine to the man. Nice jaw, but feminine lips. Broad shoulders? But thick legs. A go getter and assertive? But still has a sensitive and sweet side. Balance is always great.

Feel free to mentioned any unconventional things you find attractive.

[A-man-22]

I respect you for liking average height men, I'm well above average but even I can tell shorter men need more attention.

Fatness just isn't attractive on men or women, I agree with that.

Gay Men the most delicious fruit that women can't have. I don't know what the science is behind the opposite sex being attracted to homosexuals if the opposite sex but it's clearly a thing.

[myTake Owner]

I think its because gay men take extremely good care of themselves, and have high self confidence as they do not fit the stereotypical 'straight manly man' image. Plus they aren't afraid to embrace their feminine side and I'm into that as well.

[TripleAce]

What the heck Lol this isn’t unconventional it’s totally typical 😂
You like guys from 5’9 to 6’3 😂 that’s totally typical hahahah

[myTake Owner]

6'3 MAX. I said I love and prefer 5'10.
However all my previous exes and crushes have been 5'3-5'10 .

[TripleAce]

Ya 6’3 is kinda a limit for most girls too
I mean above that is really tall and probably too tall

[ChgzDaniel]

You say this is unconventional but it's still 100% attractive to most chicks. Now, THIS s unconventional. To me, the stranger and more characteristics on a guys face the beautiful he gets. Give me my Klaus Kinski or my Steve Buscemi every day of the week. The stranger a man looks the sexier he is!!! <3

[laurieluvsit]

Some things in common with my taste, and some not so much, but to each her own :)

Things That I Find Attractive On Guys ↗

[bamesjond0069]

Literally everything you wrote is not unconventional except the gay stuff.

1. 5'10-6'3" is taller than average. The average height of men is about 5'7". So you like tall guys but not super super tall guys. Ok thats pretty conventional. You don't want to date a freak 7' man. But you like taller guys. So weird.

3. Big eyes. Notice the picture you used, he looks pretty conventionally attractive as far as I would imagine. Who likes tiny beady eyes?

4. You like fit or thin men. You really aren't into fat chubby men? Weird again. I thought everyone likes big beer bellies. Not.

6. Whats skin shade really have to do with anything? I think everyone just has a preference there isn't a best skin shade as far as I ever heard.

8. Fit legs... see #4

9. Probably only legit one.

10. Long hair. Most girls seem to love long hair or super short hair. So i dont think thats weird either. I used to have long hair, girls liked it. Then I shaved my head, girls liked it. Don't really notice any difference.

[myTake Owner]

Uh not where I'm from the average is 5'10 . I said 6'3 MAX and clearly said I prefer 5'10-5'11 the most.
I have liked chubby men , but they had strong bone structure and werent super flabby , even had curvy legs ( I mentioned that actually , that curvy legs are even a slight turn on for me as long as they dont curve out more than the photo I included ).

[myTake Owner]

That's the only photo that I noticed had a man with big eyes , he just happened to be henry cavill.
I can like eyes bigger than his even , and smaller than his. My preference just so happens to be his eye size.

[TheUsername27]

The average height is like 5'10. Sorry to tell you that.

[bamesjond0069]

@TheUsername27 you're right. So she likes average and taller. Sounds like most girls still tbh

[TheUsername27]

Yeah girls prefer taller guys, more muscular guys, wealthier guys, better looking guys. Whether they get what they want is down to their standards, the value they bring.

[CharlieUnicorn]

This is a good mytake because it shows how we're often into things which we aren't expected to, due to prevailing norms.

I bet a lot of us have things which goes against general expectation.
I personally am weak for women who:
*Has zero fashion sense like someone who grew up a country kid. She doesn't check the mirror before going out and doesn't even understand make up, or uses any.
* Uncontrolled funny laughter. She might snort and kinda sounds like Bart Simpson then, but I really like it.
*Excitable. Never feels she's too cool to show her enthusiasm for something that's generally considered silly or childish.

It doesn't mean I'd automatically turn down a more typical woman who cares about maintaining a "standard feminine image", is more cool and collected, but none of that is really any plus in my book.

[CubsterShura]

We all like some unconventional stuff xD where I live there is crazy obsession for light skin but I think some really dark men with skin rich in melanin can look so godly especially under the sun 😍 I also like big eyes in men and I myself have huge eyes too! Height is also something that I don't care much about, I used to find one short man really attractive because of his attitude.

I absolutely adore boys who are gentle.

[MissGee212]

We share almost all the same likes! Sexy, dreamy eyes are my ultimate downfall though. It doesn't matter the color. I prefer tall men as I'm only 5'1" but won't pass by a cutie who's average height. I like muscles. A nice chest and strong arms that can hold me tight. I too like a quirky smile. Crooked, slightly shy and genuine. I tend to gravitate towards men that have a slightly feminine side also even if they're not aware of it. Yes to long hair!

[tertater]

"Damn oh damn, long hair is so sexy. I just find it so so sexy. I can't explain it. I haven't met a lot of men with long hair, but the ones that I saw are the sexiest to me. I just love it."

Long hair seems to be a common interest among women , I find. I get loads of compliments. It's almost down to my waist. Dont wanna cut it, it's a part of me. Been growing it for four years.

[IlyaTheImpaler]

Is the title sarcastic and this is a humorous parody? as you exclusively include only photos of `conventionally attractive` men 😂😂😂

Actors and models can sure have some unattractive traits but the overwhelming majority of their physical traits are conventionally attractive. If you're serious about this Take then it just shows you're not aware of what actually attracts you ("whoa this actor is super hot because he has average height and has an ugly smile" rofl)

[Nita2585]

I care so much about eyes, too. I really like deep set, almond shaped eyes with dark thick eye lashes, preferably dark brown or darkish hazel.
But the rest of him must be masculine, broad shoulders, strong jawlines, dark Skin and that deeep masculine voice.

[ashleyb93]

I love men who are on the chubby side, long hair, pretty eyes, thick buns and thighs. My biggest turn off is men who try to act macho and masculine all the time. Men who are all about beer and trucks and guns and hunting and football and having big muscles. It's fine if you like those things but so many men force that shit and want EVERYONE to know how manly they are... comes off as super insecure and cringy to me. If you're oozing testosterone it's a no for me.

[DocilexElle]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VZ26a4uUzL4

THIS is my type...<3

Mike Ness from Social Distortion was SO hot... I like punk guys!

[BluesheepOwl]

Literally everything you explained is a guy I saw working at this clothing store checking me out. Except for the gay and big thighs. Even though I am 24, I look like I am 16. I'm certain I am older than him. He has that young cute innocent kid look. He's really attractive and I don't date guys younger than me. Or he might be under 18 which is even worse..

[Anonymous]

Same here!
I don't really like very masculine guys, I prefer boyish guys with a baby face such as Leo DiCaprio and Ansel Elgort. I don't think it's really unconventional as a lot of girls like this type of guys. I also prefer guys with big eyes. I can't stand guys with squinty/small eyes such as Sean O Pry.

As for gay guys, well my ex was bi... (I caught him kissing another guy). Does it mean I'm attracted to gay guys as well? I don't know

[Aiko_E_Lara]

They apply to me except 1, 3 and 9. Why can't you even consider guy who are just taller than you? As if height is controllable. I never see a girl prefer a 5'7.5 guy to a 6 footer.

[myTake Owner]

I don't know. 6'3 is when I start to look up and 6'5+ is when it gets kinda weird when he is reaaally tall and I have to look up and he has to get close to talk to me or look down.
I'm not saying I'd reject a tall guy or a short guy below 5'5 , no.
I'm just saying the perfect thing for me is around my height so it doesn't get awkward ( and most men are around my height).
I've crushed on tons of guys shorter than me though, taller than me? Not as often.

[mrArcher]

Yeah... It is indeed an unconventional taste.
Then again... My girlfriends weren't always a 10/10 either.
Ironically my fav girlfriend was chubby. And taller than me.
If only she had your taste.

[myTake Owner]

I'm sure you will meet loads of girls who will!

[passinby]

You sound conflicted with opposing parameters. Well at least I don't qualify in any way, fortunately.

[OldSchool_Metalhead]

dudes with long hair are hawt. I've had a few exceptions though my first boyfriend had short hair and was like a foot taller than me lol

[GreatnessBack]

Those are not that unconventional. It's just that media doesn't promote it like it does the "conventional" looks.
I have some of those features and girls have flocked to me, not all, but I never needed more than one.

[rockerjw]

To each his (or her) own... Cheers to you for knowing your preference, knowing what is attractive to you the most... Personally, there is so much more to attraction then looks. One could have the absolute sexiest mate standing next to them, and never hold a decent conversation.

[Felinegirl]

Lol, can I set you up with my cousin?

He's the sweetest guy ever, really smart and funny, but unlucky in love because everyone keeps thinking he's gay or has a too feminine face.

[VIVANT]

None of that is unconventional

Most people like a balance

[Logorithim]

It's good that you've figured out what you like in men.