Not all guys are that way, the first girl I fell in love with I didn't know how she looked for the first year of the relationship. I loved her personality.
Well hell, women do the same thng.. It's a part of the human condition... what wouldya want men to do- date whomever is approvable by some silly set of rules?
Yea. this is gonna sound mean but I could never date someone I wasn't physically attracted to.if he's a great guy but not my type (physically) he'll /only) be a really good friend :-/
It turns guys on but I don't go for looks I'm mean sure if your nice but I don't want a girl that's like really beautiful but is a real jerk and would only use me...
Well, because if you're asking why guys go for one thing, and girls go for the same thing, then the question really is: Why do "people" go for looks above all else?
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Not all guys are that way, the first girl I fell in love with I didn't know how she looked for the first year of the relationship. I loved her personality.
like don't know
but I get attracted to beautiful faces,everyone does
Okay fair enough
Well hell, women do the same thng.. It's a part of the human condition... what wouldya want men to do- date whomever is approvable by some silly set of rules?
People that go for someone based on looks (men and women) are shallow. There is much more than looks IMHO and I choose my women accordingly.
BECAUSE GIRLS DO TOO?
seriously. stop playing innocent
I'm not innocent and I'm not playing innocent. Of course girls go for looks too lol
Yea. this is gonna sound mean but I could never date someone I wasn't physically attracted to.if he's a great guy but not my type (physically) he'll /only) be a really good friend :-/
It's just in our nature ;-) But you may be surprised how often that can be overcome.
Not often
Like I said, obviously you'd be surprised. Not every guy in the world is a jerk... It just seems like it ;-)
most guys heading into their 40's and beyond become attractive but it's not the time women seek them for mates. Time really matters.
Quit lying to yourself. Most of the time we go for attractive men too.
to me its both even if the girl doesn't as good but her personality is good then I don't c why not
but why are you asking this question when girls do the exact same thing...
Initial attraction is what lures someone, the personality is what holds them.
looks do matter but for me she doesn't need to be so attractive ,she should be that kind of girl who I can stare back again and again
Generalisations are a dangerous trap. They can only lead to bitterness and resentment.
I suggest you avoid them
its a fact, get used to it, same reason girls go for money or power
rich guys go for looks
beautiful YOUNG girls (under 30) go for rich guys
older women (over 30) take whoever they can get
It turns guys on but I don't go for looks I'm mean sure if your nice but I don't want a girl that's like really beautiful but is a real jerk and would only use me...
u got that wrong its actually girls who go for looks not guys
that's like asking why dogs aren't vegeterians...its genetics
i have to disagree...i think women go for looks as much as men do
Girls go for looks to its not just the guys and not all girls go for money!
I know girls go for looks too...and I never said all girls go for the moolah.
Soo uuhhh then, doesn't that imply your question is flawed since it's the same for girls?
Jeeperss, the question isn't flawed. What makes you think that?
Well, because if you're asking why guys go for one thing, and girls go for the same thing, then the question really is: Why do "people" go for looks above all else?
No because it is more prevalent for men.
well...guys are visual ?