I don’t find it constructive if it’s a natural occurrence that I have no control over. Also why does it have to be happy or depressed? There is such thing as a middle ground. Neutral isn’t angry or anything else negative.
Because others don't perceive it as neutral. They perceive it as hostile. I think its definitely constructive criticism. I would want to know if I was unconsciously doing something that made others uncomfortable.
@That1tallguy If multiple, unbiased sources told me I looked like I had a stick up my ass, I might consider softening my demeanor yeah. Occam's Razor suggests I'm the problem.
Smiling to please others is definitely fake. And usually when I’m in a neutral state, I’m by myself. But people go out of their way to point out something that doesn’t matter. If I’m by myself, why are THAT bothered? The person should either avoid me or actually get to know me. My blank/almost frowning facial expression is how my face relaxes. I don’t get why it bothers people so much to the point where they have to say something. If I’m by myself how am I ruining your day?
If you're by yourself how are other people noticing it? And maybe they're just trying to help you out by letting you know you look like you don't want to be bothered. I've had plenty of people tell me similar things; how they used to think I was a psycho or something because of how angry I looked. Yeah, it sucked to hear but I'm glad they told me so I could work on it and form connections with people who might have otherwise written me off. But its up to you what you do with it. Maybe you don't care what others think.
For example the library. Of all places 😂 I mostly get crap in the library. I’m usually alone doing what I need to do. If I wanted to be social and open in the moment, I would. But if that’s not the case, then the critiques aren’t necessary.
It's pretty simple, it's not wrong, but the consequence is that people will have a harder time approaching you and being comfortable around you because of your facial expression.
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I completely relate. I don’t anything is wrong with it. Some people are just sooo nit picky.
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No one is obliged to find you attractive, and your not obliged to make yourself attractive for others.
Just have as much fun as possible and good things will come your way
Resting bitch face generally indicates that the woman in question is a bitch.
They're just pointing out that others perceive you as angry and unfriendly. It constructive criticism. I
I don’t find it constructive if it’s a natural occurrence that I have no control over.
Also why does it have to be happy or depressed? There is such thing as a middle ground. Neutral isn’t angry or anything else negative.
Because others don't perceive it as neutral. They perceive it as hostile. I think its definitely constructive criticism. I would want to know if I was unconsciously doing something that made others uncomfortable.
So would you would smile just to please others? That's fake as fuck or more like a push over
@That1tallguy If multiple, unbiased sources told me I looked like I had a stick up my ass, I might consider softening my demeanor yeah. Occam's Razor suggests I'm the problem.
Smiling to please others is definitely fake. And usually when I’m in a neutral state, I’m by myself. But people go out of their way to point out something that doesn’t matter. If I’m by myself, why are THAT bothered? The person should either avoid me or actually get to know me. My blank/almost frowning facial expression is how my face relaxes. I don’t get why it bothers people so much to the point where they have to say something. If I’m by myself how am I ruining your day?
If you're by yourself how are other people noticing it? And maybe they're just trying to help you out by letting you know you look like you don't want to be bothered. I've had plenty of people tell me similar things; how they used to think I was a psycho or something because of how angry I looked. Yeah, it sucked to hear but I'm glad they told me so I could work on it and form connections with people who might have otherwise written me off. But its up to you what you do with it. Maybe you don't care what others think.
For example the library. Of all places 😂 I mostly get crap in the library. I’m usually alone doing what I need to do.
If I wanted to be social and open in the moment, I would. But if that’s not the case, then the critiques aren’t necessary.
Nothing at all... my badass girlfriend hoping to be fiancée has a resting b*tch face or so others say but me I don’t see it in badass ;)
Well if you look like a stuck up bitch all the time, then that doesn’t really yield anything but negatives on your end.
Nothing at all. If you're a black chick, you'll have lots of peace and quiet.
Nothing I think a woman is most beautiful when she relaxed.
I have that shit too lol
I don't mind it, keeps people away
You can’t help what position your face is in when you’re fully asleep. Just don’t drool, and it’s fine. lol
Lol..
It's pretty simple, it's not wrong, but the consequence is that people will have a harder time approaching you and being comfortable around you because of your facial expression.
If you have it on facebook etc people will think you are one.
don't worry if you don't want to smile then just don't smile
I lot I hate it
I'm more likely to pass you off as a mean person
My girlfriend has a touch of RBF, and she's gorgeous. Big difference between RBF and PBM.
It's personal preference. It's quite unattractive to those who prefer smiles and happy go lucky bubbly girls.
There's nothing wrong with a resting bitch face.
It just makes you look like a really braggy annoying person
Nothing
i have it
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~ Mrs Manson
Ain't nothin wrong wit it..