Are slightly flabby arms a dealbreaker?

Emilia Clarke is shamed for them for example despite being so beautiful, she seriously looks amazing, her body too. For me she's pretty much a perfect body&beauty example. I saw a lot of hate, nasty comments and skinny girls making fun of her, especially her sligthly flabby arms. (and yet she was voted as one of the sexiest women alive)

♦ That made me wonder if guys agree with this and also consider it very unattractive, a dealbreaker even? She has really short limbs, I don't have them as short but have similar arms to hers.

♦ Would you prefer toned arms?
an example
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  • They do not bother me, they're fine
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  • They're unattractive
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  • Prefer toned arms
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  • Comments / no preference
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I can't find the right pictures but Hillary Duff also has them.

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  • I don't think her arms are flabby at all! I do prefer toned arms but hers are totally fine. I don't think I was ever bothered by her arms. Her personality overshadows any physical "flaws" if she even has any. She's so full of life, it makes you want to be friends with her. 😄

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  • if a woman has a great personality I couldn't care less if she has flabby or skinny arms, scars or freckles or anything else which they would view as a flaw... each thing makes us all unique and every thing tells a story of who we are... so as long as the personality is great why should small things matter

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    • If only personality would be enough.

    • yeah for me personally it is, as i perceive looks to be more of a bonus if i get to like someone

Most Helpful Girls

  • That slight fatness in the upper part of the arms is common. I've notice in my daily life a lot of woman in average weights have it.

    Besides, I remember a spaniard actress who reported in social media the exaggerated and unnecessary photoshop a magazine did. They changed too much her body. This includes her arms. They changed her arms to a pretty unrealistic shape. Here the photoshop:

    estaticos.elperiodico.com/.../1444581058259.jpg

    In addition I find Emilia Clarke so beautiful in general. She's not too skinny, not too fat. However, that's just a personal point of view. I understand some people might prefer other body shapes, face types and so.

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  • I think she's gorgeous and she actually has a extremely similar body to mine and I have similar insecurities of what your talking about and seeing women like her being represented and in powered in the media positivity makes me happy and more comfortable because in the past I've always just seen skinny skin figured women on my TV and wasn't sure were I fitted in and just believed I was fat because I was a tall, skinny model type.

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What Guys Said 69

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    Slightly flabby arms? How abhorrent!

    Just joking. This is just so silly, who even makes up all these silly rules about beauty? No idea who she is but her arms look fine.

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  • Reading questions like these are red flags. Do women believe that men care about such small things? Instead of focusing on small imperfections like these maybe work on something that could actually need work. I don’t mean to offend anyone but this is the reason why I delete the app and only come back to it when I need to ask a question of my own. Thanks for reading all this 😴.

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    • Some men definitely care and that's why I am asking.

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    • Precisely how Ms. Turtletesticles (😂) said. Guys are different, many guys here voted and said that they don't care but I know enough of guys who consider every little fat part on a woman as a problem unless it's the boobs or butt.

    • Those guys with the standards may not be worth it.

  • Obviously we prefer toned arms, if like there was somehow magically two copies of the exact same girl, and one of them has perfectly toned arms and on the other, she has slightly flabby arms, obviously we're going to pick the copy of her with toned arms. Duh. But since that scenario doesn't exist since magic doesn't exist, usually we are willing to overlook some slight flab on the arms. I stress the word "slight."

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    • Also the problem here @Jemini_Crocket is that you chose a girl (Emilia Clarke) who doesn't actually have flabby arms... I mean I guess they are like BARELY flabby. If you had picked a better example of a less attractive girl, then I bet the responses you're getting from guys would be different than the comments you're getting here.

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    • For me it is ideal. I don't like the slim bony look. If I would have wanted to use a different girl, I would have done it. She's a good example of slight flab on her arms and that's all I wanted to show as an example. I couldn't find better pictures anyway. I could have used Hillary Duff, she also has them, but then it would be someone else saying that if it wouldn't be her, people would mind the flab.

    • Like I said, just saying. Try what I said to do in about a week, and see if you don't get different results from people.

  • I can see why someone would call them "flabby", but I find them sorta cute in a way. Although, I might be biased, because this is Emilia Clarke we're talking about.

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  • Even UFC fighters have flab on their arms. People have fat, it's not something that is bad inherently.

    These people shaming her, who are they? Because they're idiots.

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    • Mostly very slim girls, like really skinny ones. For example on skinnygossip forums.

  • Really don't care either way. I mean everyone has some kind of imperfection about them that they can't help. I honestly don't see guys caring too much about slightly flabby arms really.

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    • I met quite a lot of them, but I guess people here where I live are a bit pickier.

  • Dang that's fucked up. She is a beauty, definitely. She isn't even over weight or fat, and overweight isn't a bad thing anyway. Flabby arms? Stupidest thing I've ever heard of being a dealbreaker, well it's up there. Skinny, flabby, whatever there's really no normal other than what she is. But I get how some people get so bothered by things that other people have to drag on about so much

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  • Physical attractiveness is subjective. Different people have different taste. I didn't know who Emilia Clarke was as I don't care for celebrity life. While she wasn't ugly, I can't say I found her super attractive either. A little flab on the arm isn't a deal breaker, but they are certainly more attractive without it in my eyes.

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    • Minus the fake ass lips, the first pic, is hands down the hottest for me. 2 is second. But neither 2 nor 3 are attractive to me.

  • There's absolutely nothing wrong with Emilia Clarke's arms. Some people are just nasty about bringing other people down. She's a beautiful woman.

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  • Toned arms... just like you girls prefer muscular six packs instead of average joes... haha

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    • Fair enough xD
      Though I personally don't give much of a damn when it comes to abs.

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    • I hope it's true.
      I'd go for her too though I'm not exactly lesbian lol

    • Aww... she's cute..!

  • Yes, Im sure that if I find Emilia Clarke in front of my house asking for a date, I will answer not, you have slightly flabby arms.

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    • And if it's some slightly above average girl which has them?

    • I would look many things before, starting for those two things which make you really beautiful... hair and mind

  • To me slightly flabby arms I definitely not a deal-breaker I actually like that I'm not into bony girls I like a woman to have a little bit of meat on her that's just my opinion I don't know how everybody else feels

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  • I don't mind slightly soft, "flabby" arms if that's what you wanna call them, I never knew this was a problem? I thought that's how women were supposed to be? lol
    I don't know what is going on with this whole trend of "girls need to have everything toned and be muscular" but it's gross. I like it when women are soft, supple and kind of "flabby" or "chunky" as they call it for lack of a better word. That's how women are supposed to be, they're not supposed to be muscular

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    • "I thought that's how women were supposed to be?" What on Earth does that mean? They're "supposed to be" flabby or fat? Um... 1) no and 2) fuck that. What an excuse! "Derp it's not MY fault I'm out of shape; I'm female so it's okay." Wow.

    • I like them I think they're fine

  • You can't expect everyone having firm toned body without working out or doing exercises. It's normal and there shouldn't be anything wrong about it , it doesn't bother me at all

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  • Yet another thing that girls seemingly give two shits about but no guy ever notices

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  • Unless it flaps in the wind I probably wouldn't notice.

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  • 1) Don't really care.
    2) If you ship me Emilia Clarke in a container right now, I promise I won't throw her out of my bed because she has flabby arms.

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  • Why not consider that these skinny girls are just jealous of Emelia Clarke?

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    • That's highly possible but their discussion made me wonder how do guys see it, if they took a notice of it and how important it is for them.

  • Her arms look normal, and she has a beautiful body. The people that insult her for her arms are probably just looking for some kind of reason to do so, because they're jealous or something. I'm sure you don't have anything to worry about either.

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  • That area is like the little bit of fat beneath chin almost impossible to deal with and nearly everyone has them - It would be a bit churlish to be judgmental about it

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What Girls Said 20

  • Thoes people are hysterical and too critical. Probably really jealous too. Men like an overall package, they dont need perfection.

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  • Because she plays in game of thrones she is famous, this doesn't mean she is one of the most sexist women alive, it means she is enough famous to be noticed, those nominations are kind of subjective
    But I agree, she is a beauty and she is so sweet on interviews and she is charming, I love the way she is
    Her arms are just arms, okey arms, notary big deal

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  • Lol if a man actually thinks slightly flabby arms are a deal breaker he's probably a fucking loser and doesn't deserve a woman period

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  • I think if it is like on these pictures, that it is cute and feminine. I myself have very lean sculpted arms, sometimes I think they look like a 12 year old boy’s arms lol.

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  • I'm not trying to be mean but I honestly feel sorry for white guys.. they are stuck with these white girls who are fixated on superficiality and being stick thin. this is seriously a mental issue. get help

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    • ha ha LOL - it's not easy being a white guy (JK)

    • I mean really. my friend and her friends are super high maintenance and want a guy like the one from 50 shades of grey. you know the rich guy who whips the crap out of the girl instead of a hard working guy

    • Nuts. My wife is European and they don’t have the same hang ups. She would break that dudes face with a hammer

  • I have never heard of her having had 'flappy'/'flabby' arms... but I don't think anyone who matters cares.

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  • She looks hot as hell. Haters gonna hate and at least she has boobs and butt unlike those haters she has.

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    • I agree and I love women that are a little chunk I don't want a girl that's like 5 foot 6 + 98 lb

  • I prefer more toned arms on myself than hers, but I don't think it's a dealbreaker for guys. Many girls with her arms have no trouble getting boyfriends.

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  • Emilia is gorgeous but I do find flabby arms off putting, mainly because I have them too. They aren't a deal breaker though.

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  • Everyone prefers toner everything but she does look stunning.

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  • I dont have this problem but I guess they are alright.

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  • I dont think she's attractive but surely, untoned arms should not be a problem.

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  • Is this a thing people aactually are hating on about Emilia Clarke?

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  • Oh my God who the hell cares😐
    I’m so tired of the vanity!

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  • What? They're normal and I adore Emila Clarke lol

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  • I hope not.

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  • Those look normal to me...

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  • I dont mind it

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  • They’re fine

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  • I don't think so

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