Emilia Clarke is shamed for them for example despite being so beautiful, she seriously looks amazing, her body too. For me she's pretty much a perfect body&beauty example. I saw a lot of hate, nasty comments and skinny girls making fun of her, especially her sligthly flabby arms. (and yet she was voted as one of the sexiest women alive)
♦ That made me wonder if guys agree with this and also consider it very unattractive, a dealbreaker even? She has really short limbs, I don't have them as short but have similar arms to hers.
♦ Would you prefer toned arms? an example
They do not bother me, they're fine
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I can't find the right pictures but Hillary Duff also has them.
That slight fatness in the upper part of the arms is common. I've notice in my daily life a lot of woman in average weights have it.
Besides, I remember a spaniard actress who reported in social media the exaggerated and unnecessary photoshop a magazine did. They changed too much her body. This includes her arms. They changed her arms to a pretty unrealistic shape. Here the photoshop:
In addition I find Emilia Clarke so beautiful in general. She's not too skinny, not too fat. However, that's just a personal point of view. I understand some people might prefer other body shapes, face types and so.
I think she's gorgeous and she actually has a extremely similar body to mine and I have similar insecurities of what your talking about and seeing women like her being represented and in powered in the media positivity makes me happy and more comfortable because in the past I've always just seen skinny skin figured women on my TV and wasn't sure were I fitted in and just believed I was fat because I was a tall, skinny model type.
if a woman has a great personality I couldn't care less if she has flabby or skinny arms, scars or freckles or anything else which they would view as a flaw... each thing makes us all unique and every thing tells a story of who we are... so as long as the personality is great why should small things matter
I don't think her arms are flabby at all! I do prefer toned arms but hers are totally fine. I don't think I was ever bothered by her arms. Her personality overshadows any physical "flaws" if she even has any. She's so full of life, it makes you want to be friends with her. 😄
Obviously we prefer toned arms, if like there was somehow magically two copies of the exact same girl, and one of them has perfectly toned arms and on the other, she has slightly flabby arms, obviously we're going to pick the copy of her with toned arms. Duh. But since that scenario doesn't exist since magic doesn't exist, usually we are willing to overlook some slight flab on the arms. I stress the word "slight."
Also the problem here @Jemini_Crocket is that you chose a girl (Emilia Clarke) who doesn't actually have flabby arms... I mean I guess they are like BARELY flabby. If you had picked a better example of a less attractive girl, then I bet the responses you're getting from guys would be different than the comments you're getting here.
I chose Emilia because as I said above, she's a perfect beauty example for me. She shares the same height and I also mentined that my arms are like hers. That's why. https://pbs.twimg.com/media/CqpR97XW8AAxEN6.jpg hers are slightly flabby and that's what I am talking about = "slightly"
Yeah I guess; no it's not ideal. The guys saying they don't care are saying that because you provided an example of Emilia Clarke, like I said, who is pretty much universally considered attractive. If for example you just made a different post and said "which of these two girls is more attractive?" and both of them were average-ish girls but decent looking and in the pics, one of them had obvious arm flab and the other one didn't, and had toned arms, I bet you'd find far different results from what you're getting here. Just saying.
For me it is ideal. I don't like the slim bony look. If I would have wanted to use a different girl, I would have done it. She's a good example of slight flab on her arms and that's all I wanted to show as an example. I couldn't find better pictures anyway. I could have used Hillary Duff, she also has them, but then it would be someone else saying that if it wouldn't be her, people would mind the flab.
I can see why someone would call them "flabby", but I find them sorta cute in a way. Although, I might be biased, because this is Emilia Clarke we're talking about.
Reading questions like these are red flags. Do women believe that men care about such small things? Instead of focusing on small imperfections like these maybe work on something that could actually need work. I don’t mean to offend anyone but this is the reason why I delete the app and only come back to it when I need to ask a question of my own. Thanks for reading all this 😴.
Like I don't shave my armpit hair and my boyfriend doesn't give a fuck at all but the dude I talked to before him literally told me to shave or he wouldn't talk to me. Not flab but it's very similar
Precisely how Ms. Turtletesticles (😂) said. Guys are different, many guys here voted and said that they don't care but I know enough of guys who consider every little fat part on a woman as a problem unless it's the boobs or butt.
Physical attractiveness is subjective. Different people have different taste. I didn't know who Emilia Clarke was as I don't care for celebrity life. While she wasn't ugly, I can't say I found her super attractive either. A little flab on the arm isn't a deal breaker, but they are certainly more attractive without it in my eyes.
Dang that's fucked up. She is a beauty, definitely. She isn't even over weight or fat, and overweight isn't a bad thing anyway. Flabby arms? Stupidest thing I've ever heard of being a dealbreaker, well it's up there. Skinny, flabby, whatever there's really no normal other than what she is. But I get how some people get so bothered by things that other people have to drag on about so much
seriously its just super overthinking for her, i dont think looks are much to worry about (especially those parts which you can't alter, so why even try?)
just happy with what you have, because once you start tinkering then it would lead to something disastarous...
Because she plays in game of thrones she is famous, this doesn't mean she is one of the most sexist women alive, it means she is enough famous to be noticed, those nominations are kind of subjective But I agree, she is a beauty and she is so sweet on interviews and she is charming, I love the way she is Her arms are just arms, okey arms, notary big deal
I don't mind slightly soft, "flabby" arms if that's what you wanna call them, I never knew this was a problem? I thought that's how women were supposed to be? lol I don't know what is going on with this whole trend of "girls need to have everything toned and be muscular" but it's gross. I like it when women are soft, supple and kind of "flabby" or "chunky" as they call it for lack of a better word. That's how women are supposed to be, they're not supposed to be muscular
"I thought that's how women were supposed to be?" What on Earth does that mean? They're "supposed to be" flabby or fat? Um... 1) no and 2) fuck that. What an excuse! "Derp it's not MY fault I'm out of shape; I'm female so it's okay." Wow.
Really don't care either way. I mean everyone has some kind of imperfection about them that they can't help. I honestly don't see guys caring too much about slightly flabby arms really.
You can't expect everyone having firm toned body without working out or doing exercises. It's normal and there shouldn't be anything wrong about it , it doesn't bother me at all
Her arms look normal, and she has a beautiful body. The people that insult her for her arms are probably just looking for some kind of reason to do so, because they're jealous or something. I'm sure you don't have anything to worry about either.
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