If fat is attractive, why do fat girls make themselves look as slim as possible in photos?

[Thatsamazing]

Because they know that being fat isn't actually attractive

Because everyone knows that being fat isn't actually attractive

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How many people were unaware that this is a rhetorical question? Show of hands.

[genericname85]

fat isn't attractive to most people. that's just some PC bullshit that totally undermines the necessity to lose weight "if" you're fat.

like i don't understand why we are so obsessed with making people feel good in their body when they're fat. obviously they shouldn't hate themselves but losing the weight should be a top priority if they don't wanna die an early death and i think feeling that being fat is kind of a negative thing is pretty appropriate and helps to motivate you to get to work and lose it.

[Thatsamazing]

Correct.

[Clayaya]

People are attracted to different things. It’s completely subjective. You just seem like you hate heavy set people.

[genericname85]

@Clayaya hope the fuck did you reach that conclusion? You must have read nothing I said.

[Connor-RK800]

Perhaps because quite a few vocal gentlemen are so filled with tact that they scream "Fat" and the woman. I think it's called fatshaming. Another reason might be dysphoria. Or simply self conscious that they might desire a different size. The only reason men dont go out of their way to look slim in photos when they are not, is because they're lazy.

[Thatsamazing]

No it's because we aren't delusional.

[NickiB]

Fat ain't attractive and they know it.

If someone fat and really felt that way.

They wouldn't get so triggered when someone doesn't think fat people are attractive.

Some fat people want people to say they are so they can feel better about themselves and their lack of exercise and overeating.

[Thatsamazing]

Correct.

[MajesticTwelve]

You know what floors me is when you see guys, usually scrawny ones, dating fat girls. Want fat girls to go away? Stop sleeping with them. When no one wants them, they'll either lose weight, or become a nasty feminist that will never breed. Either way, no one loses.

[Thatsamazing]

Oh absolutely. Preach, sister.

[nella965]

You’re obviously not a decent person. A person is a a human being with the same feelings and thoughts just as you regardless if they look ugly or fat or anorexic. just because they are ugly or fat or anorexic , it doesn’t make them any more sub Human. So treat people with respect.

What truly makes someone with less worthy of respect is a lack of a decency in morals and behavior.

[MajesticTwelve]

@nella965 Is it decent to lie and say I don't find you being fat disgusting? I do. I find fat people offensive. You're lazy, you eat too much, and you have no respect for yourself. If you have no respect for yourself, you have no respect for anyone else, or society in general, yet you have the audacity to complain I'm not decent?
Jog on.

[nella965]

What other people look like has no affect on you. What other people dress like or what kinda weird purse they want to wear has no influence on you whatsoever.

You’re just making a huge deal out of it because you’re sadistic. You enjoy bullying people and making them feel miserable. It’s not that fat people truly bothers you. You just enjoy looking for every excuse on earth to look down and bully others. Someone with a bad heart like you does the world much more harm than fat people. I can’t imagine how many more people you bully to suicide.

And also weight gain is not only due to laziness. Some people gain weight due to depression, a divorce, being raised by parents who wouldn’t feed them good healthy food, some mental health medications also cause weight gain.
You better think twice before you go on your mocking marathons again

[Thatsamazing]

@nella965 "What other people look like has no affect on you" is utterly false and only something people tell themselves and each other when they're very naive, but okay. Millions of people being obese increases my health care insurance costs. What are you even talking about.

[Thatsamazing]

@nella965 And you're basically making the correct point that losing a lot of weight is hard. Yes... it is hard. Correct. And... so what? So because something is hard, we shouldn't do it? Great.

[nella965]

@thatsamazing, it doesn’t better you. You’re just looking for excuses to bully. There’s no reason why someone carrying a purse you don’t like or if you don’t like the way they did their hair would bother you unless you have absolutely no job, no life , no friends so you’re bored enough to pick on them. In other words picking on them is fun to you which is why you do it.

Someone who has never harmed you doesn’t give you enough of a reason to harm them. It’s just human nature.

[Thatsamazing]

@nella965 Um... pointing out that extra fat on a person is 1) unhealthy and 2) unattractive (both of which is true) isn't "harming" someone.

[nella965]

It’s one thing to encourage people to lose weight but it’s a complete another to incite bullying , encourage mockings , turning the entire internet to be filled with hate language.

It is not your intention to help anyone , your only goal is to hate and mock. I’ve seen people be bullied to death over doing their hair differently, wearing a weird school bag, dressing oddly, being short. These aren’t legitimate reasons to bully someone.

Someone who a malicious heart whose goal is to harm others is even worse than an obese person.

[MajesticTwelve]

@nella965 As opposed to someones who's goal it is to encourage others to be obese and unhealthy and to try to force society to accept someone that's unhealthy by choice rather than you do some exercise. Nice.

[nella965]

I think it’s pretty obvious which individuals actually want to encourage people to be healthy and which ones are just using it as an excuse to bully and harm others. If it is your goal to help people, you don’t bully them to depression suicide.

[SydneySentinel]

Me being Body positive: I'm positively going to get up and run because I want to be healthy and I know I needed to lose weight.
Body positive (if people absolutely HAVE to use that term) is loving yourself but making changes to make yourself healthier.
Anyway, NO ONE wants to look fat. Anyone who says that is LYING to themselves.

[loveslongnails]

You are one of the most gorgeous women, in ways not just physical, that I have the pleasure of knowing.

[SydneySentinel]

❤❤❤ You're the sweetest. But I still need to work on my health so I can (hopefully) live as long as I'd like to! 😘

[Anonymous]

Generally, slim is actually what is considered most attractive. Humans are naturally wired to be attracted to people who appear to be healthy. I think most people realize this.

Though there are people who like overweight people, I think it's a pretty marginal amount and it's more like a fetish than an actual standard.

[Thatsamazing]

Agreed, except that unfortunately, it has become pretty standard because so many people, especially so many females, are fat. My *entire office* is full of fat females of various ages, for example. Of the twenty or so that are here, only two or three are normal, slim-ish weight. When so much of the population is fat, due to laziness and poor eating and an overall sedentary lifestyle, the available pool of normal-sized girls is much much smaller.

[Opinion Owner]

That's true, too.

[purplepoppy]

I get confused with the term thick. Here in uk thick means stupid not fat. It's funny hearing lard arses say they're thick.

[Thatsamazing]

Yeah.

[Countrywildmangirl]

Ok she is ugly and needs to lose weight and get rid of the fake nails
But.. To answer ur question it is stupid as hell if they want to look slim then they need to get off there lazy ass and start losing weight.

[anuragk033]

Losing weight isn't a cup of cake

[Ametria]

Your ass is ugly and you can't talk cause your ass look bigger the her so how tf can you talk? Countrywildmangirl

[Thatsamazing]

@anuragk033 No one's suggesting that it's easy. The good things in life often aren't.

[Countrywildmangirl]

@Ametria
Really u don't know what I even look like and for your fucking information my ass is smaller then hers
It probably the way i took my picture with my dog that made u think that
Why do black people always have to be so mean?

[Ametria]

Lmao why do white people always play victim when they the one who started the shit in the first place? Now I'm mean because I told you your ugly because you called someone else who didn't do shit to you ugly lmao girl bye 😂

[Countrywildmangirl]

Umm no.
I was just curious. because of everything that been going on and.. I just don't get it why black people and white people can't get along.
And yes i agree I am ugly that why I want to die but I can't physically die because my boyfriend won't let me.
I've heard I'm ugly , fat , retarded , no good , no one loves me , no one wants me , and much much more from my mom , cousins , grandparents , step dad..
But no I was just curious.
That all sorry if I didn't make it clear I have a hard time trying to make people understand what I ask.

[Thatsamazing]

How about both of you chill since it's not that serious.

[Countrywildmangirl]

Duh i am

[DarthMeow]

Fat is attractive only in older times like medieval times when fat people is attractive because they're rich enough to eat nutritious foods. Nowadays the beauty standard has shifted. Fat people is seen as lazy even they're not. Nowadays fat is ugly and no humans on this earth that want to look ugly

[Pamina]

I don't know, I think women who do this are maybe confused. I mean, it can be confusing I think, considering that everybody seems to have a different perception of where being fat starts. Let alone how diverse men's preferences regarding women's body tyoes are. Some like skinny, some like average, some like bigger, some even like fat. And some don't even care that much.
But I agree that anyone who tries to make themselves look slimmer, so so because they want to look better.

[Thatsamazing]

Exactly.

[Anonymous]

They’re told they can’t look good when they’re just around the wrong kind of people online or offline; the kind of people who could possibly just tell these girls they don’t look good because they’re heavier, just for fun.

These negative people are often undereducated on the topic of such heavier girls possibly being metabolically healthy despite being on the fatter side. They could just be storing their excess fat everywhere besides deeper in their belly as the harder/unhealthy/not jiggling visceral fat. As long as it’s not stored there as much, a fat girl can have very few/no bad effects from it.

[Sarahr123]

Fat is not attractive. It has always been ugly and always will be. Some men are desperate and will fuck anything with a hole but it doesn’t mean a fat bitch is attractive to look at.

[HikerDude]

Why do skinny girls get plastic surgically implanted in their asses and chests to make themselves look fatter?

[Thatsamazing]

Because they-- the skinny girls who do that-- are idiots.

[HikerDude]

nah that's not it

[OnitheWanderer]

From my personal experience, I have encountered really beautiful plus-size girls and Lord knows, I do love plus-size/thick/chubby girls. But because, in our society that we live in is very superficial and judgmental on body shapes. They feel very discourage about their body and they can see that men aren't attractive to it. Si, they try to hide it or Photoshop it. In which, they aren't wrong. For example, in the Nightclub I was, I want to make my move on plus-size girl but a guy I met there on the Nightclub tried to stop me from approach her because of body shape calling her fat and that I could find much better than her. I was SHOCK 🤯 (tbh) I didn't expect that kind of attitude. But it seemed they aren't completely wrong about fat being less appealing.

[Thatsamazing]

Gross.

[OnitheWanderer]

Gross? In what way... I'm confused?

[Thatsamazing]

Reread what you wrote. That's what way.

[OnitheWanderer]

I did.. What did I write that makes think I'm gross?

[OnitheWanderer]

Wrote*

[Thatsamazing]

I didn't say you were gross; I said what you wrote was gross. The mindset is gross.
"I have encountered really beautiful plus-size (and by that, you mean fat) girls" no you haven't, because they don't exist. "I do love plus-size/thick/chubby girls" gross.

What are you confused about.

[OnitheWanderer]

Okay, I see what you mean. And dude, with all do respect, I seriously have met some beautiful plus-size girls because they do exist. And there's nothing wrong in loving girls with a bit more weight albeit there must be a limit on that weight. Ofc, I will not consider an obese girl attractive (not to be fat shamer or a judgmental a****** just being honest) but if a girl is truly overweight in which her own legs can't support her then surely that's not attractive. So, dude they are 2 kinds of 'a bit more weight' girls (in my opinion): 1. There is the appealing kind, in which they are very plus-size, thick and even (borderline) chubby, depending on their body structure. And 2. is the overweight, obese, ssbbw, bbw (debatable) etc. in this category, there's no need for me to explain myself. In this category is where girls are very very less attractive due to their own fat and with high probability of medical issues. Again, I'm just voicing my opinion and being honest. So, dude trust me they are as I said before, some truly gorgeous plus-size girls but if you have a different preference, I understand 😊. Each person has it's own. I respect that!
Ps. Also, I was confused on your initial comment. Because you weren't specific on what you were gross about. That's all

[Ripper_E]

Because they are ashamed of their size. It's stupid and makes no sense. However, slim girls do the same thing to make themselves look thicker. Just be happy with yourself or make changes if you aren't.
Fat women can be attractive, in my opinion, to a point. I don't mean like a Tess Holliday. There is such a thing as being too big or too thin, because some women or so insecure they starve themselves and that is equally unattractive.

[Black-a-knese]

It's due to media outlets always saying how much they lost, family/friends saying they can lose a few pounds, and most guys going after the skinny girls. When all you do is getting knocked down because of your weight, day in and day out. With no one trying to reinforce your actually beautiful (without trying to get in their pants). They eventually are succumbed to society expectations.

[5_AM_Oracle]

I would say insecurity. Attractive or not, if they need to find their 'best' side for pictures, then they don't find themselves attractive enough or not at all. They need to lose it. Nothing a camera angle can't hide

[nella965]

Because the media likes to brainwash people that only stick thin models are beautiful. When in reality , there are guys who much prefer thicker or chubbier women. Some men even like fat women. Trust me I’ve seen it. There is no universal ideal of the best body type. We all like different things like we all like different foods.

[OnitheWanderer]

Well said, milady! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 #Facts

[Thatsamazing]

... No.

[Thatsamazing]

I mean, yes, there are guys who prefer fat females. Those guys are morons.

[nella965]

I have actually encountered many many guys who prefer thick girls over slim bony ones. Ask most guys And they will tell you that they prefer a softer woman.

[Thatsamazing]

"slim bony ones" my God. Seek therapy.

[Clayaya]

Truth

[StarGayle]

They know it isn't attractive, and they want to make themselves feel better.

[Thatsamazing]

Eating more healthily and exercising hard would actually make them feel better.

[StarGayle]

exactly. It's a win win

[Thatsamazing]

Would be, if they actually did it.

[StarGayle]

Some do. I have some family members who are trying to shed the weight

[Thatsamazing]

Good, I wish them luck.

[StarGayle]

thanks 😊

[Sweetnessxoxo]

I grew up with a family that has like “eating anxiety” it’s not necessarily easy for them. My father worries me the most (my parents are both obese)

[StarGayle]

sorry to here that

[Thatsamazing]

@Sweetnessxoxo No one said it was easy. The good things in life often aren't.

[Sweetnessxoxo]

It’s not hard for me it’s just people with eating disorders or food anxiety it’s nearly impossible they try and it is always temporary

[Thatsamazing]

@Sweetnessxoxo Yes, it takes patience and dedication and changing your overall lifestyle. Yes, that's hard. But again, the good things in life (like staying healthy) often are.

[Anonymous]

Fat can only be spun as attractive if you're a woman... fat men are considered trash, especially by fat women

[Thatsamazing]

Yep. Hypocrisy at its finest.

[OfDeath]

No fat is not attractive. It's because fat isn't attractive.

[Thatsamazing]

Correct.

[loveslongnails]

Because they know that if they had an identical twin sister standing next to them who was not 30 or 40 pounds overweight, and that were the ONLY difference in your appearance, the vast majority of guys would chose the sister.

[sejla]

She is over weight but most likely if she lost weight she'd still be curvy. It's her body type. The she's ugly comments were really unnecessary. She's clearly attractive just heavy. Everyone wants to feel good in a photo. For some it might be camouflaging weight, for some maybe blemishes or splotchiness on their skin, maybe wrinkles like in my age group. It's just what humans do.

[Thatsamazing]

It was a rhetorical question. "It's her body type" is utter bullshit. No one's natural body type is "fat." That isn't realistic. It's a cover up for errant behavior and unhealthy eating.

[sejla]

It isn't always just over eating or poor eating. Some people have real medical conditions. I'm not saying that is the majority because clearly it isn't but I know as my hormones dropped my weight went up. I get called thin all the time even from doctors but I'm not thin I just have a normal weight within the weight range for my height. I weigh 120. When I ate sugar and sodas I weighed 130 when I was around 48. She clearly would still have curves if she lost weight. And people don't have the same shape or bone structure so that isn't BS.

[Thatsamazing]

... Literally all females have "curves," unless they're literally (not figuratively) starving to death. Which is essentially no one that we're talking about. "She's clearly attractive just heavy" does not exist.

[sejla]

Nope I didn't have curves in my early 20s or very minimal ones. I weighed 95 pounds naturally.

[ronaldo75]

You're a fucking hypocrite. When I come here to shit on SJWs. leftists and liberals you will attack me no matter what facts, statistics and proof I put forward. You defend the most lamebrain retard of feminists but then you come here with a fake profile pic to degrade women who in reality are beautiful but to you are somehow disgusting and not attractive because they have a few pounds on them? Loser.

[Thatsamazing]

@ronaldo75 No one here is a hypocrite. You're wrong; I'm right. "facts, statistics and proof I put forward" uhh... maybe you should reread the things you write, champ.

[ronaldo75]

"You're wrong; I'm right. " - Post a picture of yourself so all the ladies can judge you.

[Thatsamazing]

@sejla Yes, you did have curves even at 95 pounds, unless you had AA tits and someone used a scalpel to surgically remove your ass and your calves and your shoulders.

[Reaperbot666]

a slight bit of extra weight can be attractive. depending on how the woman carries it on her body.

but being obese is often not attractive and can lead to many health issues.

[Thatsamazing]

... No, it doesn't matter how she "carries" it.

[Reaperbot666]

sometimes a plus size girls looks good. just depends on where the weight is carried on her body. can still be otherwise healthy also.

[Thatsamazing]

... No, they don't. "can still be otherwise healthy also" No, it can't. You saying that it can makes it no more true, just by you saying it, any more than saying that drinking mercury will cure cancer. Get your head out of your ass.