
If fat is attractive, why do fat girls make themselves look as slim as possible in photos?


fat isn't attractive to most people. that's just some PC bullshit that totally undermines the necessity to lose weight "if" you're fat.
like i don't understand why we are so obsessed with making people feel good in their body when they're fat. obviously they shouldn't hate themselves but losing the weight should be a top priority if they don't wanna die an early death and i think feeling that being fat is kind of a negative thing is pretty appropriate and helps to motivate you to get to work and lose it.
Correct.
Perhaps because quite a few vocal gentlemen are so filled with tact that they scream "Fat" and the woman. I think it's called fatshaming. Another reason might be dysphoria. Or simply self conscious that they might desire a different size. The only reason men dont go out of their way to look slim in photos when they are not, is because they're lazy.
No it's because we aren't delusional.
Fat ain't attractive and they know it.
If someone fat and really felt that way.
They wouldn't get so triggered when someone doesn't think fat people are attractive.
Some fat people want people to say they are so they can feel better about themselves and their lack of exercise and overeating.
Correct.
You know what floors me is when you see guys, usually scrawny ones, dating fat girls. Want fat girls to go away? Stop sleeping with them. When no one wants them, they'll either lose weight, or become a nasty feminist that will never breed. Either way, no one loses.
Oh absolutely. Preach, sister.
You’re obviously not a decent person. A person is a a human being with the same feelings and thoughts just as you regardless if they look ugly or fat or anorexic. just because they are ugly or fat or anorexic , it doesn’t make them any more sub Human. So treat people with respect.
What truly makes someone with less worthy of respect is a lack of a decency in morals and behavior.
@nella965 Is it decent to lie and say I don't find you being fat disgusting? I do. I find fat people offensive. You're lazy, you eat too much, and you have no respect for yourself. If you have no respect for yourself, you have no respect for anyone else, or society in general, yet you have the audacity to complain I'm not decent?
Jog on.
What other people look like has no affect on you. What other people dress like or what kinda weird purse they want to wear has no influence on you whatsoever.
You’re just making a huge deal out of it because you’re sadistic. You enjoy bullying people and making them feel miserable. It’s not that fat people truly bothers you. You just enjoy looking for every excuse on earth to look down and bully others. Someone with a bad heart like you does the world much more harm than fat people. I can’t imagine how many more people you bully to suicide.
And also weight gain is not only due to laziness. Some people gain weight due to depression, a divorce, being raised by parents who wouldn’t feed them good healthy food, some mental health medications also cause weight gain.
You better think twice before you go on your mocking marathons again
@nella965 "What other people look like has no affect on you" is utterly false and only something people tell themselves and each other when they're very naive, but okay. Millions of people being obese increases my health care insurance costs. What are you even talking about.
@nella965 And you're basically making the correct point that losing a lot of weight is hard. Yes... it is hard. Correct. And... so what? So because something is hard, we shouldn't do it? Great.
@thatsamazing, it doesn’t better you. You’re just looking for excuses to bully. There’s no reason why someone carrying a purse you don’t like or if you don’t like the way they did their hair would bother you unless you have absolutely no job, no life , no friends so you’re bored enough to pick on them. In other words picking on them is fun to you which is why you do it.
Someone who has never harmed you doesn’t give you enough of a reason to harm them. It’s just human nature.
@nella965 Um... pointing out that extra fat on a person is 1) unhealthy and 2) unattractive (both of which is true) isn't "harming" someone.
It’s one thing to encourage people to lose weight but it’s a complete another to incite bullying , encourage mockings , turning the entire internet to be filled with hate language.
It is not your intention to help anyone , your only goal is to hate and mock. I’ve seen people be bullied to death over doing their hair differently, wearing a weird school bag, dressing oddly, being short. These aren’t legitimate reasons to bully someone.
Someone who a malicious heart whose goal is to harm others is even worse than an obese person.
@nella965 As opposed to someones who's goal it is to encourage others to be obese and unhealthy and to try to force society to accept someone that's unhealthy by choice rather than you do some exercise. Nice.
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Me being Body positive: I'm positively going to get up and run because I want to be healthy and I know I needed to lose weight.
Body positive (if people absolutely HAVE to use that term) is loving yourself but making changes to make yourself healthier.
Anyway, NO ONE wants to look fat. Anyone who says that is LYING to themselves.
You are one of the most gorgeous women, in ways not just physical, that I have the pleasure of knowing.
❤❤❤ You're the sweetest. But I still need to work on my health so I can (hopefully) live as long as I'd like to! 😘
Generally, slim is actually what is considered most attractive. Humans are naturally wired to be attracted to people who appear to be healthy. I think most people realize this.
Though there are people who like overweight people, I think it's a pretty marginal amount and it's more like a fetish than an actual standard.
Agreed, except that unfortunately, it has become pretty standard because so many people, especially so many females, are fat. My *entire office* is full of fat females of various ages, for example. Of the twenty or so that are here, only two or three are normal, slim-ish weight. When so much of the population is fat, due to laziness and poor eating and an overall sedentary lifestyle, the available pool of normal-sized girls is much much smaller.
That's true, too.
I get confused with the term thick. Here in uk thick means stupid not fat. It's funny hearing lard arses say they're thick.
Yeah.
Ok she is ugly and needs to lose weight and get rid of the fake nails
But.. To answer ur question it is stupid as hell if they want to look slim then they need to get off there lazy ass and start losing weight.
Losing weight isn't a cup of cake
@anuragk033 No one's suggesting that it's easy. The good things in life often aren't.
Umm no.
I was just curious. because of everything that been going on and.. I just don't get it why black people and white people can't get along.
And yes i agree I am ugly that why I want to die but I can't physically die because my boyfriend won't let me.
I've heard I'm ugly , fat , retarded , no good , no one loves me , no one wants me , and much much more from my mom , cousins , grandparents , step dad..
But no I was just curious.
That all sorry if I didn't make it clear I have a hard time trying to make people understand what I ask.
How about both of you chill since it's not that serious.
Duh i am
Fat is attractive only in older times like medieval times when fat people is attractive because they're rich enough to eat nutritious foods. Nowadays the beauty standard has shifted. Fat people is seen as lazy even they're not. Nowadays fat is ugly and no humans on this earth that want to look ugly
I don't know, I think women who do this are maybe confused. I mean, it can be confusing I think, considering that everybody seems to have a different perception of where being fat starts. Let alone how diverse men's preferences regarding women's body tyoes are. Some like skinny, some like average, some like bigger, some even like fat. And some don't even care that much.
But I agree that anyone who tries to make themselves look slimmer, so so because they want to look better.
Exactly.
They’re told they can’t look good when they’re just around the wrong kind of people online or offline; the kind of people who could possibly just tell these girls they don’t look good because they’re heavier, just for fun.
These negative people are often undereducated on the topic of such heavier girls possibly being metabolically healthy despite being on the fatter side. They could just be storing their excess fat everywhere besides deeper in their belly as the harder/unhealthy/not jiggling visceral fat. As long as it’s not stored there as much, a fat girl can have very few/no bad effects from it.
Fat is not attractive. It has always been ugly and always will be. Some men are desperate and will fuck anything with a hole but it doesn’t mean a fat bitch is attractive to look at.
Why do skinny girls get plastic surgically implanted in their asses and chests to make themselves look fatter?
Because they-- the skinny girls who do that-- are idiots.
From my personal experience, I have encountered really beautiful plus-size girls and Lord knows, I do love plus-size/thick/chubby girls. But because, in our society that we live in is very superficial and judgmental on body shapes. They feel very discourage about their body and they can see that men aren't attractive to it. Si, they try to hide it or Photoshop it. In which, they aren't wrong. For example, in the Nightclub I was, I want to make my move on plus-size girl but a guy I met there on the Nightclub tried to stop me from approach her because of body shape calling her fat and that I could find much better than her. I was SHOCK 🤯 (tbh) I didn't expect that kind of attitude. But it seemed they aren't completely wrong about fat being less appealing.
Gross.
Gross? In what way... I'm confused?
Reread what you wrote. That's what way.
I did.. What did I write that makes think I'm gross?
Wrote*
I didn't say you were gross; I said what you wrote was gross. The mindset is gross.
"I have encountered really beautiful plus-size (and by that, you mean fat) girls" no you haven't, because they don't exist. "I do love plus-size/thick/chubby girls" gross.
What are you confused about.
Okay, I see what you mean. And dude, with all do respect, I seriously have met some beautiful plus-size girls because they do exist. And there's nothing wrong in loving girls with a bit more weight albeit there must be a limit on that weight. Ofc, I will not consider an obese girl attractive (not to be fat shamer or a judgmental a****** just being honest) but if a girl is truly overweight in which her own legs can't support her then surely that's not attractive. So, dude they are 2 kinds of 'a bit more weight' girls (in my opinion): 1. There is the appealing kind, in which they are very plus-size, thick and even (borderline) chubby, depending on their body structure. And 2. is the overweight, obese, ssbbw, bbw (debatable) etc. in this category, there's no need for me to explain myself. In this category is where girls are very very less attractive due to their own fat and with high probability of medical issues. Again, I'm just voicing my opinion and being honest. So, dude trust me they are as I said before, some truly gorgeous plus-size girls but if you have a different preference, I understand 😊. Each person has it's own. I respect that!
Ps. Also, I was confused on your initial comment. Because you weren't specific on what you were gross about. That's all
Because they are ashamed of their size. It's stupid and makes no sense. However, slim girls do the same thing to make themselves look thicker. Just be happy with yourself or make changes if you aren't.
Fat women can be attractive, in my opinion, to a point. I don't mean like a Tess Holliday. There is such a thing as being too big or too thin, because some women or so insecure they starve themselves and that is equally unattractive.
It's due to media outlets always saying how much they lost, family/friends saying they can lose a few pounds, and most guys going after the skinny girls. When all you do is getting knocked down because of your weight, day in and day out. With no one trying to reinforce your actually beautiful (without trying to get in their pants). They eventually are succumbed to society expectations.
I would say insecurity. Attractive or not, if they need to find their 'best' side for pictures, then they don't find themselves attractive enough or not at all. They need to lose it. Nothing a camera angle can't hide
Because the media likes to brainwash people that only stick thin models are beautiful. When in reality , there are guys who much prefer thicker or chubbier women. Some men even like fat women. Trust me I’ve seen it. There is no universal ideal of the best body type. We all like different things like we all like different foods.
... No.
I mean, yes, there are guys who prefer fat females. Those guys are morons.
"slim bony ones" my God. Seek therapy.
They know it isn't attractive, and they want to make themselves feel better.
Eating more healthily and exercising hard would actually make them feel better.
Would be, if they actually did it.
Good, I wish them luck.
I grew up with a family that has like “eating anxiety” it’s not necessarily easy for them. My father worries me the most (my parents are both obese)
@Sweetnessxoxo No one said it was easy. The good things in life often aren't.
It’s not hard for me it’s just people with eating disorders or food anxiety it’s nearly impossible they try and it is always temporary
@Sweetnessxoxo Yes, it takes patience and dedication and changing your overall lifestyle. Yes, that's hard. But again, the good things in life (like staying healthy) often are.
Fat can only be spun as attractive if you're a woman... fat men are considered trash, especially by fat women
Yep. Hypocrisy at its finest.
No fat is not attractive. It's because fat isn't attractive.
Correct.
Because they know that if they had an identical twin sister standing next to them who was not 30 or 40 pounds overweight, and that were the ONLY difference in your appearance, the vast majority of guys would chose the sister.
She is over weight but most likely if she lost weight she'd still be curvy. It's her body type. The she's ugly comments were really unnecessary. She's clearly attractive just heavy. Everyone wants to feel good in a photo. For some it might be camouflaging weight, for some maybe blemishes or splotchiness on their skin, maybe wrinkles like in my age group. It's just what humans do.
It was a rhetorical question. "It's her body type" is utter bullshit. No one's natural body type is "fat." That isn't realistic. It's a cover up for errant behavior and unhealthy eating.
It isn't always just over eating or poor eating. Some people have real medical conditions. I'm not saying that is the majority because clearly it isn't but I know as my hormones dropped my weight went up. I get called thin all the time even from doctors but I'm not thin I just have a normal weight within the weight range for my height. I weigh 120. When I ate sugar and sodas I weighed 130 when I was around 48. She clearly would still have curves if she lost weight. And people don't have the same shape or bone structure so that isn't BS.
... Literally all females have "curves," unless they're literally (not figuratively) starving to death. Which is essentially no one that we're talking about. "She's clearly attractive just heavy" does not exist.
You're a fucking hypocrite. When I come here to shit on SJWs. leftists and liberals you will attack me no matter what facts, statistics and proof I put forward. You defend the most lamebrain retard of feminists but then you come here with a fake profile pic to degrade women who in reality are beautiful but to you are somehow disgusting and not attractive because they have a few pounds on them? Loser.
@ronaldo75 No one here is a hypocrite. You're wrong; I'm right. "facts, statistics and proof I put forward" uhh... maybe you should reread the things you write, champ.
a slight bit of extra weight can be attractive. depending on how the woman carries it on her body.
but being obese is often not attractive and can lead to many health issues.
... No, it doesn't matter how she "carries" it.
sometimes a plus size girls looks good. just depends on where the weight is carried on her body. can still be otherwise healthy also.
... No, they don't. "can still be otherwise healthy also" No, it can't. You saying that it can makes it no more true, just by you saying it, any more than saying that drinking mercury will cure cancer. Get your head out of your ass.
Cause fat is NOT really attractive. Those who say so, are either delusional, or hypocrites.
Option C: Because society has brainwashed them into feeling guilty for their natural body shape. Be proud of who you are and embrace your natural Goddess given beauty.
You can decry “body shaming” all you want. You might not be beautiful but you don’t have to be ugly. Fat = lack of willpower
Could just be a choice you know.
Because some people judge them and break their heart if they stay real. So better fake it.
Better fake it.
I don’t think a chubby woman ever feels pretty sometimes women that are at a healthy weight don’t feel pretty either because they feel fat or not good enough. In my opinion i think skinny is still the standard either that or just fit
That's truly the sad truth in our society. In which is wrong sometimes.
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Of course those women know they aren't attractive. Women who care about their appearance eat like hummingbirds because look is their biggest asset.
Just voted to see results, but I think the reason isn't that fat isn't attractive but rather they wanna look slim thicc
Yeah, fat isn't attractive. This if for both genders. Only attractive to a minority. Either way the only way for fat to be attractive for women is it hits the right proportions, or if it isn't too much fat slightly overweight.
Because women know that being fat is not appropriate. Nobody wants to be fat despite if they claim they love their body.
Because it's a lie. Fat girls are gross, they like to pretend they can still have good features. Like how would you know if they're covered with fat?
That girl isn't fat. Everyone wants to project their best image on camera. Those individuals that don't,... well, they just don’t give a fuck.
I wish I could make myself look slim. I don't even try lol
Why not.
Because it isn't the fat itself thats attractive, its how its held. Those women aren't trying to make themselves look thin as much as they are trying to make themselves proportionally aesthetic.
They're definitely trying to make themselves look as thin as possible, and it's because deep down, they know that being fat isn't attractive. It was a rhetorical question.
Because being thin is generally more attractive.
Short of being anorexic, it's always more attractive.
The same reason skinny woman sometimes make themselves look bigger in photos some want to look different.
Fat women are indeed attractive in their own way but the society fails to accept that and that hurts them and they also start thinking that they are not attractive.. hence they try to appear slim in pics..
... No, they aren't, and the "but muh society" talking point is utter bullshit. "Society" does not exist as its own entity. Society is made of a massive conglomeration of millions of individuals-- individuals who don't think fat is attractive. Humans are animals. People don't want fat because *it's not what people/animals inherently want.* Not because "society" makes anyone do anything or think any sort of way.
Cause beauty is subjective and beauty is in the eye of the beholder. They are some guys like bigger girls there women who like bigger guy.
Well... no, it's really not subjective. The overwhelming majority of the human species finds similar aesthetic features attractive and unattractive. Numerous sociological studies conducted on the nature of human attraction have proven and confirmed this. So yes, technically, it's "in the eye of the beholder," and the overwhelming majority of beholders all think very similar things.
@Thatsamazing maybe because those women simply don't care about appealing to most men? maybe they're happily married, engaged, or in a relationship to a guy who prefers them that way? either way, some people have diseases or poor metabolisms, and looking like a model may not be their top priority. some people have had mental illness or eating disorders and may have put their life at risk and now they realize that being 10 pounds overweight does not mean they should starve themselves. i don't think it is good to be severely overweight, but for people who are 5-10 lbs overweight, maybe they just don't give a crap? because they've experienced scary shit in their life, had a close encounter with death trying to achieve the perfection that guys like you are seeking, and realize now that their life and health is more important than pleasing a guy. and honestly, why do you care so much? you keep asking questions about overweight women. what's it to you? if you're into model-thin women, go get yourself one and don't worry about the rest of the world.
@DianaWest Lol sure sis. You're funny. Good work out there.
Who said fat is attractive? 😹
Morons say so frequently. Have you never been on the Internet? Or talked to a large percentage of other females? It's sad.
Met a guy back when I was working at a resort. He was completely into fat chicks. Kept talking about them the entire time I had to deal with them. Trust me there are people out there who find fat attractive.
Why do you care so much about how much girls weigh? Seems like you post about it quite frequently
Here, this may help you out: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ad_hominem
What is this obsession you have with overweight people? You obviously have a thing for fatties. Quit spamming with this bullshit.
You mean, why do I have a working brain? You should instead ask why yours apparently. doesn't work.
@Thotkiana Not bitter or miserable. But anyway.
@Thotkiana lol, i literally just wrote something along those lines. buddy needs to get the perfect girlfriend he seeks and stop worrying about fat women.
I agree. Life is much more enjoyable when you stop focusing on things that supposedly bother you. He clearly hasn't gotten the hint yet.
The person in this picture has healthy proportions. I like her body type. Does this person look fat to you? I prefer my women with a bit of meat personally.
No she doesn't, that's literally the point of the post, she is attempting to make herself look slim by photographing herself from a slight side angle while wearing a dress that literally covers her entire body. She "looks fat to me" because she IS fat. And by "meat," you mean fat.
I think fat girls are attractiveas long as their vagina still looks like vagina, and their belly doesn't hang down lower than their crotch lol, and I think they know that they're attractive, they are just self-conscious.
... No.
Apparently this guy☝️ likes belly's that hang lower than crotches, and vaginas that don't look like vaginas lol.
Apparently you're a moron.
I'm a moron for telling the truth? All you're doing is criticizing what I'm saying, and not actually giving an opinion yourself. so basically you're wasting my time and IDGAF what you think since you have no opinions.
It's my opinion, and you're telling me I'm wrong for having it. You're a douche
Yes, correct. Your opinion is wrong. I'm glad to have cleared that up for you.
So basically you're trolling me. Have a good day troll.
No one is trolling you.
All you're doing is telling me how wrong I am, and not elaborating on anything. That's literally the definition trolling. Please leave me alone.
Sure it is champ.
'They' don't do it... it's the cameras that try to cheat.
So the choices are either validate my illogical thinking or validate my illogical thinking.
Im assuming because their self conscious. In my opinion. Everybody is beautiful the way they are. Every body type is beautiful. There isn't one thats "Less attractive" or "More attractive". Regardless of what your body looks like, Your beautiful. And you should show the world what you were gifted with :)
"Every body type is beautiful."
... No.
Being fat can be attractive to some people, if she thinks she isn't attractive then she is insecure
Yes... and "some people" may think cancer is okay. Those people are idiots. The fact that "some people" think a thing, no matter what it is, doesn't make the thing legitimate or correct.
@Ice_knight You apparently have deluded yourself over time into believing the mouth-breathing, knuckle-dragging unintellectual bullshit of "opinions can't be wrong," or whatever. They can be wrong, and you end up looking like an idiot if you think otherwise.
Again, what people are attracted to is fact and not an opinion.
I also bet you find yourself to be right all the time. You also probably think you are an absolute genius, when in fact you are just a huge jerkwad.
The girl in that pic is thick and kinda hot to be honest. Now, that's assuming she's not sucking in her stomach and playing tricks with the camera angles.
... No.
Literally all females have "curves." She isn't "curvy." That doesn't fucking mean anything. She's overweight. This is very simple.
Idunno bruh but i’d unwrap that and let the rolls unfurl
because they try to look slimmer, thicc is attractive fat isn't
Because fat is not attractive.
Fat is not attractive.
Correct.
Even thin women try to look thinner than they are.
Right.
Fat can be attractive just as every slim girls aren't attractive.
... No.
You know, it's really a bad habit that you have giving your opinion all the time like it's a truth and never trying to just read/listen.
I told you "no" because what you wrote was incorrect. Had it been correct, or somewhere in between, I wouldn't have written "no." I don't know what you're confused about.
Fat isn't attractive and never will be. This is why I'm working on my weight to be healthy and confident. :)
@ronaldo75 She is nowhere near fat! She looks proportioned very well. :)
She's not "thick." She's overweight, and is hiding it by photographing herself from a slight side angle while wearing a dress that literally covers her whole body. Good luck on your weight loss journey.
So yet again, someone (you) has made the false dichotomy of the extremes-- as in, either a girl is a "real gurl" with "meat on 'er bones," or she is a literal skeleton. This is possibly the stupidest false dichotomy ever introduced into the dating world. 
^ This girl, and all girls like her, is hot as fuck, and is neither fat, or a "bag of bones." Literally what are you even talking about.
@Thatsamazing lol and you think using a fake profile picture doesn't say anything? At least show yourself dude. That girl is pretty too, but you dont need to put down other people to make yourself feel better.
Everyone has preferences, not all guys like the same type of girl. It's like saying everyone loves muffins, some people prefer cupcakes.
... Sigh. You had something relevant to say, at first. Now you've devolved into stupidity and ass chatter.
Here you go, assuming you can read it: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ad_hominem
Oh my God. You've entered the realm now of entertainment, like a clown or a freak show. Please, continue. What else do you have for us?
Thick means overweight. She looks about 5-10 pounds over weight, and I think she's sexy. Now if she were 20-30 pounds overweight she'd be medically considered obese and that's nasty.
because fat isn't attractive
What’s the purpose of this question?
To make a point.
Not really. If it is, then reality is hateful. People can either hate reality, or they can try to change in order to better themselves. It's whatever.
We all have preferences
Loaded question
She looks nice
Its ok u loog great
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