I think you look like an 8/10. If it isn't too cold outside to wear were you live, or you will be inside, you are more than good enough to spend time with your boyfriend.
I believe he is your boyfriend for a reason. Just like you see something in and care for.
Personally, I believe you are a beautiful, caring human because asking for relevant feedback.
I believe you will keep blossoming as the future holds being met with your intuition.
Don't doubt it, I think anyone trying to put you down really just likes you. lol
Please do not listen to anyone who isn't in you, they are probably saying rude opinions because they like you and are in a negative aspect of their life or something (don't know why, and didn't expect that here.)
You look more than good enough to be accepted as a girlfriend, wife, you most likely have a sweet personality and are caring enough to care about making another person feel loved around you, which is nice :)
So that personality is already attractive and the dress, it was tighter, would be better. A lot of women were something under to make dresses look better if they don't compress their bodies enough.
Women also who become really fit usually start with a quick 5-minute routine to increase body firmness and toning. Really i believe you are there. Just listen to you and you only because that's who knows you better. Everyone has to be a little brave and courageous to leave negativity and doubts in the past.
Anyone who is genuinely accurate to being useful for humanity, and treating themselves well is beautiful. Not by the body, likes, or whatever someone who isn't you says.
I wrote this once, doubted if I should, saw negative/rude opinions, took it Grammarly to help you understand me better and neater, of course. And to move you away from anyone who cannot see you are a good looking woman who is only 18, like for real, and growing up with genuine care for another human being = beautiful.
Tip if someone is being negative, just space yourself from them wherever, and if they try to abuse, you make it stop there. Continue, you control your path and haters just like you and can't express beautiful things towards a heavenly being because they probably don't treat themselves positively to start with.
Remember, it starts with the " I " always.
Yourself what decision you decided to take after thinking but not dwelling on it. we don't always have the best answer to our questions (like everyone) but we certainly know what we shouldn't do.
The more you stick to a better and the faster you take action, the more at ease you will feel about where you are going and how closer you are to a definite goal.
I am learning to let negativity stay where it comes from. Fear leaves my life because they are most likely fake like... anyone that does what they shouldn't do and doesn't have the patience to try the positive alternatives. Like the beautiful ones who keep trying until god realizes they need an open the door to a more favorable environment for us and everyone.
Alright yo, take care, I never had a sister only brothers, so it hurts me to see young women be real with her intuition and only receive negative feedback. Stay pure and robust.
I'm 26-year-old Latino, in NY, and a slim guy who tries to maneuver around everything negative. I could be more built physically, but accept who I am and keep going through bad times to the better ones to reach gains. Like usually everyone who is in the same mindset.
It's not a bad dress, it's not outstanding either. Given the length, the stripes are set on too small of a scale of size. If it were a mini-dress, the stripes would be less relevant and might be ok. Yes, stripes typically make a person look wider. There's no way to escape that geometric reality, really, other than to avoid stripes. Stripes are also very revealing. With their rigid spacing, they will show off curves - good ones or less than good ones- quite plainly. Consider using a more complex geometric, a dress with some vertical interest, or some sort of "scatter print"- maybe a floral- to minimize those less than good ones. see pix All from Fashion Nova. The usual disclaimer - I get no compensation in any form for the mention.
Alternate geometric?Some vertical interest!!!Off-shoulder floral?A little more formal. Slit carries the eye upward!
@VIVANT I agree with the 4th one. The first is too crazy-kind and confusing to look at, and #4 just makes me smile, and it is 'suggestive' and 'flirty' and totally works with wonderful, soft, cuddly curves!! :) :)
Is just a few of the many styles that they have. This would allow your mid section to look slimmer. Also, some nice black high heels to give you some more height would elongate your figure (further emphasizing your curves). There's a way to create illusions with how you dress with the right accessories.
Your face and torso look incredible. I don’t think I’ve ever seen so much Dominican in your face, you look so beautiful 🌺
I think you have great curves but this dress doesn’t suit them.
it’s not your body there are just some styles, not made for every body. I can’t wear skinny jeans with a crop top Bc I look like a line Backer 😂😛😁😐😕🤷♀️😎
IM ONLY SAYING THIS BC YOU FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE. If you wanted to you could def rock it with Confidence..
you sure are pretty Jay.. it’s your personality too. You’re hit and sweet it’s a great convo Bc it makes your hotness not obnoxious 🤓💜💜
Ok I broke down. I voted A Bc I believe no matter what you will look hot. But I also think you may be uncomfortable Bc it’s more hot Less sweat and I don't know if he’ll be able to calm. He’ll be acting crazy all night. I don’t mean he’ll do anything but he’ll be on fire 🔥😂😂
it is nice to see everyone on here being honest, but supportive and positive and not trying to tear someone down because of their own insecurities or jealousy or just simply being haters. unfortunately this is not always the case and very often comments sections are just full of disgusting individuals with disgusting worthless opinions trying to tear someone with no motivation to do so. just crappy people with no reason to be crappy so this is nice to see both sexes giving this beautiful young lady constructive criticism and honest input on ho0w she might improve it so she feels more comfortable in it... im relatively new to the platform so I just found it refreshing to see this and it makes me much more fond of the platform and the people who seem to be active on it.. and it is so nice to be able to honestly ask a question that would be so uncomfortable to ask in a traditional social setting where you might only get one or two ir maximum 3 responses if you are really lucky but those opinions are likely to be heavily biased and influenced by any number of things like where you are, who is going to hear what each responder is saying, and what is one responder going to say if they are worried that they might upset their SO who could be nearby and so many other factors that will impact someones response. when on here you have open and honest responses potentially from a limitless pool of demographic, cultures, genders, for the most part unafraid of being judged or chastised for their particular response... im really excited about the possibilities for this app and hope that it catches fire and continue to grow its numbers and fine tune things. hopefully the general vibe will remain, if you are building each other up and looking to improve one another and help each other n just have a good time with out tearing down others.. I wish it was a bit more convenient for someone to say u know what I like this persons POV or they seem interesting and I would like to speak with them on a more intimate level and be able to do that more seamlessly whether or not you a certain level of points or experience or however they are determining someones eligibility to communicate in private... oh well maybe later
Ok, so he probably doesn't care too much, and will probably think you look great in a lot of things, and appreciate the effort.
From my own point of view, it's not the most flattering, in my opinion. I think solid color might work for you.
Horizontal stripes rarely work in general because it subtly fools people into making them look shorter and wider than they are. It's sort of an optical illusion.
If you don't feel comfortable in it, then don't wear it. The dress isn't a gift from him, is it? then you don't have to wear it. See, friends and family (and partners) that you love, you gotta wear something (if you don't like it) at least once. Those are the rules. ;) Otherwise, you're free and clear to not wear it.
If you're that uncomfortable, pick something else that makes you feel more confident. You can show of the body if you like (at least a little), you don't have to do sweatshirts and jeans... but the trick is to find something that works for you and makes you feel confident and is appropriate for where you're going and accentuates the positives while downplaying stuff you might not like.
Good thing you changed your mind. It is a little too tight and you see every line - panty or other - that you have. It's not really flattering to you. I wouldn't wear anything like it either as my bod probably looks the same. That's why I don't wear anything tight so I can hide my weight.
@sweetnessxoxo... you ain't fat... you's thiccc there's a difference and yes, @VIVANT is beautiful... if she wasn't a married woman, i'd be hittin that up... BUT... that picture is pretty great of Daniella i've never seen a dog like that in person
I think you look pretty fine, in that, but maybe something else would make him just stop, and WOW!!! Many think that vertical lines are more slimming, so if you not comfortable with your body (really? WOW!!) maybe you would be more confident in vertical stripes, and lighter colors? A lighter color dress with your hair, and eyes would just make you the eye-catching lady, out and about! Make him jealous! And definitely a smile!! You have a really beautiful face and a smile would just ROCK!!
You have a very small waist so that's a plus. I think you would look better with smthng tight on your upper body and a tad looser down. That way it can accentuate your curves without showing the little chubb you have if you want me to be honest. I read you said you looked like a 40 year old. You don't, but you are a bit chubby. A few pounds lower and I think you would look curvy with your small waist and wide hips. Good base for a killer figure.
Yes because I was super active ever since I was a kid. I used to compete in swimming and such. If you want my advice, you're still very young and you can really stick to a healthy habit. The key is to eat regularly and healthy. People who skip breakfast or dinner are killing their metabolism. I usually every 3h. Also exercising boosts your metabolism. No need for anthng extreme even. You can pick whatever activity you like and do it regularly. You can go for walks for instance every day for 30mins. So basically the key isn't to make a drastic change but to make small differences and turn them into habits. Like putting less sugar in your coffee for example, substituting chocolate with honey from time to time. Just don't stress about it, you need to eventually enjoy your new lifestyle for it to last. Keep in mind that you already look great but you just want to be more awesome!
Personally, I dont think the dress flatters your gorgeous body. I would try maybe a different one. GURL, YOU GOTTA OWN IT. love your body, no one else will except you. I can relate to you bc I struggled with body image, but I learned that your the only one who can love your body. if you don't like certain things, try to work out and sculpt it to your liking, but even then you'll still be unhappy. its so much easier to just love yourself. all I see is a beautiful, younge, girl who is rocking that dress. it may not flatter your body super well, but that's the dresses fault, its not showing off your best features.
your face is fine if not georgeous…. your hair etc... the dress definitely no... I don't think it's your body I think it's the dress... it's obtrusive... i'm sure you'll look better in something else... maybe a little more clingy to you... maybe something that shows more skin or is just plain sexier... but there's nothing wrong with your face at all and you don't have make up on.
Put on a smile girl, you know, majority of people are pretty much self conscious, they fear judgement. You're not alone, in addition, you shouldn't put yourself down more, appearance doesn't matter that much. In the future when everyone's all old and wrinkly, no one cares xD
First of all, you look absolutely gorgeous in those pics. But I don't care for the dress, and that's mostly I think because of the horizontal stripes. I DO think you have an appealing and attractive figure and would look great in a form-fitting dress with maybe a shorter hemline. (I don't mean super short though.)
what are you going to do with all that junk inside that trunk? XD in my opinion if you wanna wear a dress like that you should be working out / running more. Yeah Ima get boatloads of hate for this but hey if you take my advice you'll be happier with yourself. No amount of mental gymnastics is gunna make this insecurity go away.
The dress has sideways stripes so it makes you look bigger than you are.
so a lot of these people are gunna compliment you and whatnot, yada yada, you know you want to be better so ignore them and just be who you wanna be, no more excuses!
Lmao somebody literally called me a whale but I deleted it trust me these were not all compliments and then a girl kindly told me to lose weight and that’s okay
hmm yeah all the guys are gunna say whatever they think will get em in ur pants lol but the chicks r actually being pretty honest, damn, g@g is one unique place
Beautiful woman. However, I am not a huge fan of the stripes. Like it is ok, but I feel like you can kick it up a notch. With your skin tone, I suggest a more vivid/sophisticated dress. Or should I say, a busier looking dress. I think you'd look in yellow, violet purple, or maybe even a nice cream white dress. Something along those lines. But I don't know. You do you. 🙃
I'm glad you changed your mind. Nothing wrong with the dress or your body for that matter but it does make you look a lot older. You're 18 dress accordingly there will be time for a housewife dress later.
Your face and hair is great. Just keep in mind that your boyfriend might like whatever you wear. I think you should know his likes and dislikes. He may not share the same opinion as others. If you feel less confident about your body, I think you should work out. I like it.
In my country, women wear a dress called "Saree", it's pretty famous in our country. I don't know if it will work on you, but I think you should check it. Maybe it'll suit you if you select a black coloured one or any bright coloured ones.
please women understand that EVERY PHOTO YOU ARE GOING TO SEE OF KIM OR ANYONE ELSE LIKE THAT is severely photo shopped and that is on top of the thousands of dollars in surgeries and it is nasty. if you look at Kim k photos without photo shop after her ass implant it is disgusting and disproportionate... when Rayjay made the video with her she was looking good but she is not that same woman she was then I promise you that
I read through some of these comments and just wanted to say, please don't take that "whale" comment to heart! Sounds like someone was jealous or bitter and taking out their anger on you. You're not even close to a whale and have a nice figure!
You said the comment calling you a whale came from a girl? If so, it's either a case of jealousy or trolling. Unfortunately, there are quite a few women in the world who are in constant competition with other women and always feel the need to tear them down. Nobody who doesn't have some sort of deep rooted insecurity would tell you you looked like a whale in the dress, they'd just say they don't think it flatters you. Also, people on the Internet (especially if they're allowed to be anonymous) love to say outrageous things for a reaction and attention without having to face the consequences they'd have to if it were in person or their identity were known. I bet it was an anonymous answer, too, wasn't it?
Yeah I would start there... thing is I realized since I first answered, you have long legs relative to your body a small waist and curvy his, so actually this style is made for you. The problem might be the underwear. 🤔 😊
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