I noticed that a lot of guys prefer girls without colored hair and piercings. Just wanted to say that we are just as silly and friendly as girls without them 😊 right ladies?
Why don't guys like girls with colored hair and piercings?
Not sure if you just asked this question for validation.
However, it's patently clear that many men love girls with colored hair and piercings - check out any fetish site and it's all the rage. Fetish sites aside though, usually any guy who has tatts / piercings himself will prefer someone who is also that way inclined.
That said, if you want to know why a lot of men AREN'T into those things... it's because they denote certain qualities and attributes which don't resonate with those particular men.
Class and economic status is a big factor. While there may be certain Instagram stars or rock stars with tatts and colored hair who have money, I have never in my life met a well-educated person who comes from old money, who is emotionally well adjusted, who dresses this way. I'm not saying people who are educated and come from old money are any better than any other class of person necessarily, however a man who comes from those echelons will likely "read" a chick with blue hair and many piercings as lacking class (at least, the class that matters to him).
Another factor, as I alluded to, is related to the status of a person's emotions and character. Many women who go out of their way to dress differently do so because they have a point to prove. "Look at me, I'm so different, I'm so unique, I'm so renegade, I'm so wild". Of course this is not always the case, and I know some artists for whom this way of dressing is a genuine expression and emanation of their being. But for the most part, it's reactionary. It's a phase. It's people who often don't feel "right" emotionally (usually this is subconscious, so they will be very offended by this suggestion, but in 30 years time will agree with me). And they are donning a loud "character" through the piercings etc to indicate their specialness, and sometimes for a sense of belonging to an alternative 'tribe' (often they never felt a sense of belonging with their families). All of this is to say, if a man is emotionally stable and well regulated himself, he is unlikely to resonate with a woman who displays grooming which indicates she has a likelihood of being emotionally dysregulated. The more extreme the hair and piercings, the more likely he is to get this impression.
Its is true, people find me intimidating and judge me very fast due to my bull ring and i also love getting red extensions, and im also black so a lot of people find me intimidating yet im the most spineless human they would ever meet. Like bruv im shy and innocent af. The perks of looking intimidating is that people find it hard to interact with you, well if you're antisocial ofc
Piercings outside of earrings lead to disease risk, and are often a sign of mental illness more often than not. I've seen plenty of examples, even among one of my own sisters, of a strong correlation between navel piercing and mental instability.
Also, clown hair potentially identifies you as a part of Clown World. I've had too many negative experiences with Clown World NPCs to find one automatically attractive. Some women and unnatural hair can pull it off, without looking like total affronts to Nature and Nature's God. But they're very much the minority. Most parrot-haired freaks try to "pretty up" their hair - in a futile attempt to cover up how ugly their hearts are. But I seem to give off iconoclast energy or something. Because my mere presence causes these gals to betray their true nature - often before I even say anything!
And when that happens, something unnatural is hiding beneath their eyes. Something that hates without need for rhyme or reason. Possession in real life may not involve nuclear blue vomit or 360 head turns, like in the movies. But don't underestimate how ugly it can be.
I think colored hair is attractive, at least the first couple weeks before it gets washed out. As for piercings, I don't really have anything against how they look and can be kind of cool looking. But the problem is I'm a very tactile and erotic person and metal is not a fun feeling for me.
I remember getting a bj from a girl with a tongue bar/post thing and she was rubbing it on my cock and I didn't like it at all. I also had a lover with a belly piercing that she really liked and that was fine, but when kissing her belly it was a detraction, rather than an enhancement. Same thing with kissing lips with metal in them. To give a comparison, imagine eating a delicious meal, then imagine eating that same delicious meal with some inedible foreign objects in it like sand or a pair of earrings. I even like to take earrings off my lovers when making love, because they get in the way of nibbling her ear lobes.
But hair color, yea that's hot. I'm actually a big anime fan and someone said "they are just trying to be anime girls", but I think that's fire.
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One woman I'm interested in probably changes her color twice a year, at least. Not a lot of piercings, but that's just her... You'd never look at the "profile" and think "hair dyed in funky colors." We tend to agree on a lot of things, see things a similar way, and I'm a smidge intimidated and shy around her. But she's really cool.
I'm not really into a lot of piercings myself, but I'm cool with blue/pink/green hair personally - and small piercings, like a nose or belly button, won't freak me out. Having huge dangly loops in the ears because they're stretched, or massive face tats wouldn't be my thing generally. I tend to like the slightly punk-ish looking women, but a lot of them (around here, anyway) are way different religiously and politically speaking... and hardcore conservative or hardcore liberal, either way... just wouldn't be my thing as far as the type of women I'd want to date.
All that being said, I will do my best to get to know a woman before deciding if I think there could be something there. Having "robins egg blue" hair would not deter me.
Because, maybe not in your case, but 9 times out of 10, crazy colored hair, and multiple piercings usually means crazy psycho bitch and feminist, both of which I will not associate with..
Again not every one, you're possibly not like that, but just about every single one I have met is like that.
Crazy hair colors have long been associated with immature attention-whores (as well as sometimes literal whores), so that's been a niche market for a long time. It also almost never looks good because it requires too much work to maintain. Most professional work places that don't directly deal with hair and beauty products will also make employees cover it or switch to a natural tone, so the automatic assumption by men is that a woman with a weird color in her hair is that she's not particularly ambitious, either. In more recent years, pink and purple hair especially has gained affiliation with the most radical (and often sexually deviant) members of the feminist movement, so most guys won't even bother approaching.
Simple: Because those who often have these things are often the very ones who have issues (self-harm, depression, mental instability, feminism etc.). Any man with a good head on his shoulders would not want anything to do with this. And the only ones who have issues with this happen to be the very women who feel spoken to and fit the categories I've previously mentioned. They go on about shaming these men and call them "misogynists" or what not, while the reality is, they themselves are projecting their own misandry onto these men for simply speaking their minds.
It's a symptom of women who believe life revolves around them and who have no respect for men's preferences. That same woman expects men to jump through 100 hoops to please her. Feminist is another name for this egotistical type. Men with a backbone don't go for that. We also don't go for women who are fat/out of shape and claiming (for example) that it's somebody else's fault or that a magic fat virus was given to her when she was an olympic athlete so now she needs men to accept & praise her "beauty" with no questions asked.
@SmokinAces2000 I said it's a symptom. A symptom isn't proof. It's a flag, indication, warning sign. To drill down even more... it's considered part of "freedom" to do whatever you wish. Being non conformist and such. The ultimate freedom would be for the world to revolve around yourself. Then there's no point to following any rules/social customs or valuing the opinion of a man for example. You can just make it up as you go or follow those who make it up as they go.
@SmokinAces2000 Dated: past tense. Let me guess, they dumped you. They probably were also flirting with other dudes and/or cheating on you while you thought they gave a crap about you. Happens all the time. When you really understand them, it's easier to spot.
Well actually the girl i’m dating now has piercings 😂 and yea some of my exes dumped me I dumped some of them that’s life but I never caught them or suspected them of flirting with other dudes 😂 it’s clear that you are just trying to find something wrong to fit your narrative
Guys have their own preferences. Each guy is unique. Some will love it, some won’t. Why does a guy like any type of woman? Because that is what he likes.
All that said, some people view lots of tattoos or piercings or radical hair colors to be a bit extreme and they like more of a conservative / average / mainstream look. Other guys think it’s super hot and they like the edginess of it.
Just be your authentic self, rock it, enjoy the guys that do like it, and don’t worry about the ones that don’t.
Just in terms of aesthetics, I think they distract me from the natural features of the girl. I have the same allergy to personalities into the kinky and role-playing. There's like a barrier to me to understand how the girl genuinely is.
That said, I'm cool with a middle ground. I think streaks look cool, for example. I can see the girl's natural hair and also her aesthetic sensibility at the same time.
As a non binary bio boy who is attracted to style heavily being in the beauty industry this is completely not true for me.
It shows to me someone has some depth and fun and is confident to be different and not basic.
I find it highly attractive in the way some people may like muscles or an eye color. Its really attractive and eye catching you prolly intimidate them if anything, they may assume the stereotype that u are like that cuz ur a rebel who can't be tamed or come from a broken home.
I'm personally fond of both, tats are awesome too. Nothing has really bothered me like that in the past, i never got to see my ex wife's real hair color. Two of my past girlfriends had facial piercings. Another had 00 gauges.
It was always her choice, i still loved her. Plus she changed it every couple of months. We would do some interesting photo shoots to commemorate every color.
Aww that sounds so nice. Never met a guy who openly wanted to take photos with their girl. Every picture I have are alone lol no guy I've dated wanted to take pictures together. Felt like they didn't want to show they were with me. 🤷♀️
Sounds like some unsecure guys, if I'm with someone they are who i want to be with, damn the consequences. My wife hates going places with me, says she doesn't want to make me look bad. I take her out and make the world revolve around her.
Wtf? What kind of guys did you date? I can't wait to take pictures with my girlfriend and i kissing. I've never heard of a guy not wanting to take pictures with their girlfriend, unless he's a cheating piece of shit, that is...
Don't waste your energy trying to get validation from that crowd, your looks are actually a great way to filter out bigots and the like. So keep getting rejected and scuffed at, those are people you'd never want in your life anyway. Just don't fall into the trap of trying to please everyone, you've found your identity, don't go water it down and ruin it for the sake of other people's intolerance.
I find people on here don't like it because most guys on here are misogynistic assholes. And the women have ingrained internal misogy. Can't handle women who are stronger and can handle more pain than them 😂
I think you are using some form of wishful thinking, if you think that is why guy don't like it.
I personally think it looks nice and hot when done right. Some guys hate it and it can look "cheap" when it's overdone. A lot of the time these types of women can come off as too slutty. Mostly an assumption on mens part, before getting to know her but it is what it is.
@K-I-S-S that is your personal opinion on how someone looks, it is subjective.
It is not all guys it’s assumptions on by some men.
In general girl is not slutty because of what she wears or how she looks, it’s how the guy looking at perceives her. I know for a fact different cultures have different views on say how much skin can be shown etc, too much and instantly they will say slut, however that exact same girl in a different culture is fine. These are your opinions and yes some other people will hold them, it’s not a global thing of Everyone says this.
(of an argument or reaction) directed against a person rather than the position they are maintaining. "an ad hominem response"
Your original post is a clear example of an ad hominem. Labeling most guys here as "misogynistic assholes" is a clear example of you attacking them as a person rather than what they said. While some did leave "asshole" remarks, others actually did a good job answering the question accurately. But sweetie, we get that you yourself are triggered at the opinions, so you instantly went into the defensive and label them something bad just to perserve your self-esteem.
And me mentioning that you're triggered and projecting is in no way an ad hominem attack, but rather an acknowledgement of your behavior. So of course I "applied an ad hominem incorrectly", because there was not one, to begin with. "He thinks he is so smart", a yes another classic battlecry of someone who cannot produce a valid counter-argument. If you're going to "make fun" of someone's intellect, make sure that the person doesn't produce more intellectual responses than you do.
In any way, I'm happy to have taught you what an ad hominem is considering you clearly didn't know what it was.
Yeah because I definitely attacked a person. I'm basing this opinion off what I have seen men on here say so it's not an ad hominem 😊it's an opinion based on personal experience.
It's an attack on people. Equivalent when I say the women on G@G are all sluts and manhating feminazis and then sugarcoating it with "it's my personal experience". Doesn't change the fact it is still an attack on them rather than what their opinions and/or statements. My educated guess is that you projected your triggeredness and perhaps even a spark of misandry onto the men on G@G for simply sharing an opinion about the matters of piercings and colored hair. Which you clearly didn't like. But oh well, to each their own.
Funny, literally same applies to you calling most men here misogynists. So I suggest you start by proving your statement first as you came with it first. I'm simply applying your own logic.
Same rule applies for them. The only thing is, you're the one who demands "proof" while they don't. This is why you don't take things on the internet seriously. You should always take things with a grain of salt. The difference between you and them is that they answer the question through their experience while you use your "experience" to talk about them (who aren't part of the question) because they expressed an opinion that clearly angered you. If what people here say hurt you (don't try to deny it, love), then it's best to take a break from G@G. I actually highly recommend it. I was on a vacation for two weeks with my girl and it was wonderful being away from this website for the time I was
I never demanded proof. Just said that I could pretty easily go searching through questions on here and probably pretty easily find quite a lot of misogynistic comments. Also no, many people here are saying things the same way I am and you have no issues with men saying they don't like colored hair and piercings because they associate it with mental illness, feminists and crazy people. I'm stating my opinion and in my opinion people who dislike people who wear their hair like mine have been incredibly misogynistic to me. I'm not angry at all. Not even slightly pissed.
You claimed that most men here are misogynists and when asked for proof after you asked for proof when I used your own strategy, you backed off by saying it is your "experience". The reason why I have no issues them associating piercings and dyed hair with mental illness, feminists and crazy people is because they often indeed happen to fit those stereotypes since more often than not they DO happen to have mental health issues (needing therapy or even taking anti-depressants, but also claim to be feminists). While claiming "most" men on G@G to be misogynists is quite a bold claim as ("most") men of G@G do not claim to be misogynists.
By the way love, just because someone dislikes your hair, doesn't necessarily make them a "misogynist". You either don't even know the proper meaning or you're just misusing words for the sake of your own cope. Sounds like someone is indeed pissed
Except I didn't ask for proof... You must have misread.
More often than not people who dislike people with piercings and colored hair are misogynists. Why can you say that but I can't say this? You're the one getting angry not me.
Asking someone if they have evidence is an indirect way of asking for proof. Let's not play with semantics. Don't think you can fool anyone here.
Do YOU have evidence that most people who dislike dyed hair are misogynists? And no, your own "experience" isn't valid evidence and neither is it measurable. You're the one who started talking about evidence, not me. And as you're now manipulation tactics to make me look like the "crazy" one after you've realized you dug your own hole.
Yeah girl, I agree, men who are the most vocal about what they don’t like women to do with they’re own bodies, like they should get a say, are usually misogynistic.
@Subarugirl that “serial killer” was a misogynist himself. Or should I say a misogynist on steroids yet according to the people who knew him he was never vocal about women, he instead spoke about women like a sweet little quire boy
@Subarugirl well according to your logic any man who’s vocal about their preference in women is a misogynist. So I gave you an example of a person who was a super misogynist that proofs your logic wrong and low standard itself. That’s all
@Smashingdoozy judging by the all the horse shit you have previously said you should not be throwing rocks at the neighbors if you live in a glass house. What she said has no correlation either, sounds like the only reason why she jumped on your opinion was to kiss your ass and empathize on how butthurt the two of you are
Sweetie show me where I said those exact words? You'll find anything to bitch about even if it's not true. All I see is weh weh women support women weh weh woe is me weh weh weh stupid irrelevant analogy weh go cry a river somewhere else.
Also she's actually implying that you're obviously not that into women. All you do is complain about them so go fuck a man if men are so much better 😜 no judgement here
I mean I don't know if the gays would even take him. We in the LGBT community aren't fond of the type. He could just live as an outcast. Never finding love 🤷🏻♀️
@Subarugirl yeah neither do escorts, strippers and masseuse that I pay the happy ending to. but yeah fleshlights are good when you need a plan B or have no other choice.
@Smashingdoozy good point, I think I rather be with freemasons over the lgbtq community any day. and do you think I actually give a fuck about that fairy tale horseshit myth called "love"
That’s why often times you see the real losers who believe in that horseshit crying the actual river why men like have the time of our lives seeking sex workers that perform better than any of you and will obviously leave once the transaction is over
tbh I have totally opposite experiences. I don't die my whole head because I have dark hair and would have bleach multiple times to get a light base shade. I don't want to go bald lol
but I have at least 10 steaks of bright red and I get wayyyy more attention from men and women. I think working colors with your natural complexion is an important trick. I also don't choose rings/studs/diamonds that are to huge for my face lol
Don't let that deter you. Not all men are for things creative and imaginative. I have a lot of piercings and my hair has seen many colours over the years. But there are particular guys who don't mind it. Others tend to associate it with certain stereotypes. Either way, live your best life. Continue to rock that colour.
If you view it as creativity, realize there are right and wrong ways to be creative.
Red streaks a few in silky black hair is creative and attractive. Frying your follicles in chemicals until you look like Pennywise's girlfriend post-shooting up something concocted by Walter White, is also creative... but also a terrible idea.
Some guys have different preferences. So it is ok when guys have physical preferences but it is not ok to bodyshame you. Do not mind gag incels who get banned on reddit/youtube. So they are here since they are not banned yet. It is so ridiculous and stupid how some people bodyshame you but the same people whine when they get bodyshamed for their height. If you dont want to be bodyshamed for being a short guy, do not bodyshame women like her. It is ok if you as a guy do not prefere women with colored hair etc but just dont bodyshame because only immature people do that
Ok stupid retard. Go whine somewherelse, idiot. Do not complain when you get shamed for being a manlet or for not being manly enough, stupid moron. I just say people can have preferences, idiot. Go fucking read what I wrote, piece of shit. i insult you because you insulted me. Anyway facts dont care about your shitty feelings.
Says the one who attack me like an kid. You are 36 and behave like a kid. You are the only old hag. Look at your age. You are almost 40, boomer. Let me alone grandpa.
Because piercings are repulsive self mutilations, which, combined with weird hair, scream mental illness and are signs that the female has had the full university Feminist/Marxist mind fuck. Why would any sane man want a female who has mutilated her face and is flying the flag of both Feminism and mental illness? No quality man would want any part of that.
Viewing your photos, I think you are a pretty woman with a pretty smile. Would I think you were prettier without the pink hair and piercings, YES. As a man, if a woman has her hair dyed pink, purple, blue, a non-traditional hair color, I presume the woman is going through some drama in her life, which I don't want to deal with in the long term.
Me? Because it distracts from her natural beauty. Light brown dyed to a honey colored, no I don't mind that.
Though unnatural color or excessive piercings, and I start to question what is she trying to cover up? Why does she not feel comfortable with her natural appearance.
