Choose what's right for you. I know very well that I could dress differently to be seen universally more attractive, but I choose not to because I don't want to seem attractive to the average person, because I'm not the average person myself.
Appear the way YOU want to appear and you'll attract the right type of people.
Then you wouldn't care about your appearance. I don't mean only sexual attraction. But the way you dress communicates what kind of person you are and that has an effect what kind of people want to talk to you.
There’s real peace to be had when you can figure out how to be comfortable in your own skin. (sans makeup, special clothing, specific looks) Figure out how to be just you and let the confidence build. I think in the long run, high self-esteem and confidence are far more attractive and lasting qualities. That being said, if wearing makeup everyday, and spending a lot of time on your appearance gives you high self-esteem and confidence, roll with it. But remember, nature will take its course, and no amount of makeup and clothing will compensate for that in the end. Better to learn to love your natural self now. 💚
I aspens 10-15 m. to get ready in the morning. can’t bother with makes and stuff… then at night takes more time to clear off… I like being natural and had good outlook in life so looks younger. I feel good for my average look.
Whatever effort feels enough for you, zero effort is fine as long as you're ok with that. It's perfectly fine not to care about your appearance, everyone values different things. It's fine to be wealthy and dress like a homeless person if you want to, doesn't make you any less of a person ☺️
as for your question... you should put way more effort on NOT caring about your appearance this much, it sounds like is becoming unhealthy for your mindset...
that's why I said freckles are gorgeous, as in anybody's
and the rest on my point still stands
if you feel damned at whatever decision you make on your appearance, and this is probably coming from others comments or attitudes towards you well... that is just not healthy if it's bothering you this much
Well. It’s a stock photo. I don’t know you, it’s different for everyone, not only for everyone doing it but everyone looking at it. For the picture. The girl on the left just needs to let her hair down and she’s just as hot as the girl on the right, If not hotter.
Honestly I wish more women went without a fuck load of makeup. Every human is imperfect and we all have jaded edges. Own them and stop more or less painting your face to look "better." Also stop with the crazy plastic surgery.
Only on date night... otherwise, I say a female should wear make-up only when they want to, for sure not a requirement. But then again, I find a woman to be insanely hot with or without make-up.
Then its your husband who should answer this question. Have you asked him? Would be better OK with receiving productive criticism. But if he is smart, He would ask you to ask other people other than himself.
