
Is it inappropriate to wear a bikini in public away from any beach or pool?


No, it's perfectly fine unless you're in MY family! :(
But seriously there IS a double-standard, at least in my family. Like my brothers can walk around in boxers or underpants (like my youngest bro) but I have to wear a teeshirt or something - and if parts of me poke out a little, I have to wear a bra, too. It's pretty much all my mom, though. I don't think my brothers care and I don't know what my dad thinks, either way. Also, outside the family, where we live is pretty conservative and the only girls I've seen in skimpy tops or bikini tops were people who live in the city.
Hell, currently the trend is to look as much as a bratz doll (or some other fictional overlysexualized character) as much as possible. When I saw girls wearing jeans with the butt part cut out to expose their lower butt cheeks, I knew from that point on there's nothing that you CAN'T wear, lol.
Everybody wants to look like a video vixen, and hey, whatever floats your boat.
I personally don't think it's appropriate and I personally wouldn't wear it, but I most certainly wouldn't knock, judge, nor frown down on another girl if i saw her wearing it.
It isn't appropriate
A full coverage bra is bad to wear in public, but a bikini top with 25% of the coverage is fine !! Same about a bikini bottom/thongs and panties.
Oh no. It seems, the title of your question was not talking entitrly the same thing as the details. I think I only answered to the title, not the question details.
To the question details, imagine a nice average girl and an ok looking guy are sitting on a beach, both with no top. Who will the vast majority try to check out; regardless of their gender?
Besides this, there is a moral issue which only makes sense if you take guidance from your faith, if you follow it. Lets keep that out of the discussion as majority people here will diaagree with it anyway.
Thank you @inyourhead for the MHO. I hope both my points made sense to you.
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Very good example of double standard. I think it will almost always considered inappropriate for girls or people will disapprove.
Good for you, you are really strong and hopefully it will help other girls to feel better. And help them dressing as they like.
I'd say there is a limit depending on how skimpy it is. Show some sort of class or else don't be surprised when others comment about it when others comment. Its like if you got the body to wear a bikini all the time do it. But then don't get sassy when others comment. If you gonna wear it then own it. If you can't handle the heat then don't ask for the attention. Its the same logic to clout.
last time i was out, as i waited in the queue to get in a club a group of young women walked past to join the line and one of them was literally wearing nothing but a swimsuit... in that enviroment it seemed super sexy but not out of place. maybe in other enviroments it would be a bit odd though
I think it’s the same for guys and girls... it’s really just a judgement call on what’s appropriate. Looks great but in my opinion, In a lot of cases it’s not appropriate to wear a bikini just like it’s not appropriate for a guy to wear a speedo away from a beach or pool
Most bikinis are rather skimpy, so there's a bit of a difference between men and women's swimwear, as men's are more modest than women's overall. Not really a double standard, it's just women have skimpier swimsuits than men overall. No less, if a man wore a speedo in public he'd likely be called out on it for indecency.
A guy's swimsuit is basically a pair of shorts, which can be at the beach or away from the beach. A girl's bikini is meant to be work=n only at the beach; it's too revealing if worn away from the beach. What may women do is put on shorts over the bikini bottom when away from the beach.
I wouldn't say it's inappropriate, but I do find it alittle weird if I see someone (regardless of gender) in their beachwear at a location unrelated to any beach, park or other appropriate place to wear beachwear.
Like, if I'm at store in a mall, I would find it weird if I saw anyone casually wearing beachwear.
Outside it's alittle different, like I wouldn't mind if it's a hot day with the sun out.
It’s inappropriate for either gender to wear swimwear when away from a beach or pool.
Many businesses have a rule about not serving people who aren’t wearing a shirt. So men can’t walk around with only swim trunks on and get treated normally.
What is the purpose in dressing like that away from the beach or pool?
What is the purpose of wearing any clothes at all. Comfort.
There are many different purposes for dressing as we do. Comfort is only one of them.
Eh I think there a lot of factors. When it's super hot walking around in a bikini top makes sense. Certain setting make sense. I don't ever think it's like inappropriate but it just may not match the setting. I would love my girl to only wear bikinis but in some instances it wouldn't make sense
Well a bikini is for the beach or poolside so it would be extremely odd for you to wear it anywhere else. Each occasion has its own dress code. You won’t traditionally wear a bikini when you’re running errands or shopping would you? Unless it’s some sort of joke or way to garner attention.
I think it is fine. the human body is not dirty. When i go to the beach and tons of women are in bikini's, its not like everyone loses their mind and starts a big rapefest or something. Everyone pretty much continues acting totally normal. I think prudes should be deported. On the contrary, if your overweight (curvy) please don't. That's like an old man wearing a speedo, just don't
What’s the point as women already have the advantage as they are beautiful. Unless, Clothiers wants to manipulate the Masses via “Women’s Right” for business.
All they are after is your money 💴 💵 ‼️
Don’t be a sucker…
No not at all... its never inappropriate to wear anything tbh... girls should also be given same choices as men
Pretty sure most shops don’t like having dudes coming in without shirts. I’d think it’d be a little odd for anyone to be wearing swimming suits nowhere near a pool or the ocean but I wouldn’t have a hissy fit, you do you.
I had a neighbor who was a nurse and the other neighbor had a medical emergency with her heart, the nurse had a 2 piece bikini on and went over across the yard to give her medical attention so what would make a difference is how I see it?
If it is really hot, I'm sure it's fine.
Personally if people are walking up the high street, as a preference I'd prefer not seeing that much of their skin (male or female)... but that's a me problem
Would be OK with that since I sometimes go to the grocery store just with surfer shorts... not even shoes
But I can tell you from experience, shop workers don't like no shoes...
I find it's appropriate to wear what the majority of people are wearing in any given situation. Having said that, it's your body to wear whatever you're comfortable in.
Probably not the best idea. Probably would call your judgement into question, about what is appropriate to wear in various circumstances.
I don't think it's inappropriate but depends on where you go. Tbh don't think the guys running around topless and just in shorts or briefs is more accepted than a girl in a bikini
Not at a strip club or a car wash but otherwise yeah ya might stand out a bit. Especially this time of year.
Wear it anywhere you want to go, fuck other people's opinion
I think it depends on the type of bikini. Some bikinis can look very revealing
I tend to wear an over flow wrap, my husband never goes into a shopping area with out wearing a shirt
I see no problem here. Wear what makes you happy 😁😉
It didn't used to be. I'm not sure what the climate on that is, now.
I certainly wouldn't complain, but don't expect me to be productive for the rest of the day with that image "in my head".
I don't know but I'm sure a guy in a speedo would be judged in much the same way but as I said I don't know
I would disagree with the idea it's fine for men to wear a swim suit say downtown or to dinner. It is immature and i would count him as such. Same for any women.
Honestly its all clothes at the end of the day. And we call ourselves civilized but we are still having this debate lol
Honestly I agree, if its a bikini she should be able to wear it anywhere. But she at least needs to wear a t-shirt to go into establishments that require clothes same as a guy would.
I don't think it's inappropriate. If you're comfortable to for it
I reckon a lot of people think it would be but technically it isn't, Unless you are breaking the law.
It's not "inappropriate" unless it's against the company policy. Some places have certain rules, you must follow
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In downtown I think the bikini top is fine but with a wrap, skirt or shorts on the bottom over the bikini bottoms.
The top with shorts is okay, depending on the location. Like if you are near a beach then it should be fine.
No it's a common thing in Southern Cali to go to a store or coffee shop in a bikini, since we are near the beach anyways.
for me, if a guy just wears his underwears, i would stay away from him, same goes for the girl
It is not inappropriate, I think it is perfectly fine.
A guy in a speedo? Everywhere?
Woman, have some self awareness.
I guess because it’s like walking around in your underwear even though it’s swimwear
In New York you can walk around topless and nobody can say anything because it’s legal here I never see any woman take advantage of that law even at the beach
I don't think so. Such clothing is only for the pool and beach.
It is ok to wear it where ever a girl wants set late at night
I’m a guy and I don’t want the same standards.
We men don’t have bodies like women.
That’s why they can walk anywhere with almost any clothing.
We men also look sexier with more clothes on.
Why not, I wore a two piece bikini set to Mall Of America.
Didn't make it to far. The mall cops thrown my ass out
You can think think that all you want, but it's not gonna change the fact that you're Not a guy!
I don't see why you would wear a bikini away from the beach but I can't say that it's inappropriate.
I completely support women choosing to wear as little clothing as they wish.
Dealers choice. That’s why I don’t shop at Walmart.
Not at all. In fact it looks comfortable on you, maybe not on me…
The images you use on your questions and answers never gets old lmaooo.
I have never heard of it being inappropriate
If you feel like it, go for it. Just accept that people will stare.
Depends where, in a city no but if u live near a beach sure
Depends on where you live. In coastal cities, people are generally more understanding about this.
My girlfriend and her don't mind to wear around Neighbourhood as well as resort shopping centre.
No we should be able to wear them when we want.
Yes it is, unless you are in your own home, or back yard-or tanning.
Nope if you have the tits feel free to bounce them.
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