Guys, would you rather date a beautiful girl with very short hair or just an average girl with very long hair? Also, should I cut off mine?

[Jemini_Crocket]

I've always been tempted to just yolo it but I'm so scared I'm going to regret cutting off my hair. I love both short and long hair but long hair is tough for maintenance and tbh, I don't really receive any compliments on it (maybe because it's so light)...

I'm just really wondering how would it feel to have a light head lol
I'm asking two questions in one poll I know but just comment whether I should cut off my hair or leave it alone.

Yes, the hair in the second pic is mine.

Beautiful with very short hair (just an idea of how short I'd like to go)

An average girl with very long hair

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I may have worded the question strangely, sorry about that.

I know guys say they mostly prefer long hair but I'm not sure whether this is for everyone...

[ohshee]

I want to date a girl that is beautiful on the inside that's all that matters to me if you're beautiful on the inside then you have it all going for you and no matter what the outside of you looks like it's going to be good so I would have to say that's up to you you know your hair will grow out at the same time you want your life to be normal and the way that it is right now so it's a hard decision personally I would love to look into your eyes just to see who you really are and see if you could handle even cutting off your head or how long you're going to be disappointed or even happy as a matter of fact but if I got to look into your eyes I could have a better answer for you

[bamesjond0069]

I've known a few girls who cut their hair like that. Every single one regretted it. Lots of crying. Maybe you dont notice men liking your hair but you will notice being treated way less desirable by men when you cut it. Dont do it.

Personally i had to dump a girl who did it once because she looked like a boy to me and i refused to have sex with her unless she bought a wig. Then she dated a new guy (one of my friends i set them up) and he wouldn't have sex with her either unless the lights were out. She cried so much.

One of my other friends she cut her hair and immediately bought a wig because of instant regret and got stuck wearing wigs now for a long time because her hair doesn't grow fast.

Dont do it. It is also not good for your mental health. Its often a coping mechanism for girls but its not one you should give into.

[Dove12]

In my opinion what accounts for a large part of a girls beauty is her hair. And the main reason I believe you aren’t getting many comments on your hair is because many guys are to worried to give girls complements anymore. But in all honesty your hair is amazingly beautiful. I have never seen a girl with hair as light as your and wave. I believe you should keep it long. But if you want to experiment then I suggest you cut it in increments at first. That way you can try out different lengths very quickly with out needing to wait for your hair to grow back. But I have to tell you very few guys actually find hair that’s as short as the one in the first picture attractive. So the shortest that would still be attractive to majority of guys is about shoulder length. Again you have really amazing hair and trust me guys notice.

[Jemini_Crocket]

Thank you very much ♥ I'm always happy whenever someone compliments it because it is not the easiest to care for. Sometimes I feel like everyone just dislikes it because I kind of stopped hearing any nice things about it, people just stare (if they don't know me).

[Dove12]

Aww I’m sorry. But it really is stunning and like I said most people just don’t feel comfortable saying what they think.

[Wraith_Cemetery]

Average girl with long hair.

No amount of beauty would make me like someone with a pixie cut. Girls will always say it's cute and that if you have a specific face shape you can pull it off. For me, that is not the case. I ALWAYS like the before pictures of women who cut their hair super short. It's never an improvement.

The shortest I like is a wavy bob like they had in the 1920's. That style actually looks really nice.

[Anonymous]

Looks like it's naturally curly too. I've given this answer before but it's relevant,
In high school my best friends girlfriend, (a pretty girl) had hair down past her butt. Everyone thought it looked great, at one point she was talking about cutting it short, my friend talked her out of it, well after hi School everyone went their separate ways, I went to the 5 year reunion and my (still best) friend and I nearly fell out of our seats his ex girlfriend came in with her long hair gone , it was then just below her shoulders and was a 100 percent different , and very attractive look for her. I would never have believed it would make her look better then she already did. I hoped this was a little help anyway , good luck

[DarkWinterNights]

Long blonde or white hair like yours in the picture is extremely attractive to me. If it really is a matter of comfort do what you think is best, but I would suggest at least cutting it to shoulder length first.

[Jemini_Crocket]

I'm glad someone else likes it :) Many people and even my friends think it's too fake looking but I like how it's different.

[TheMajesticKing777]

From what I've seen, very little amount of girls have the face to pull off the short hair look, personally I don't think you should cut your hair short, it won't be a bad idea to shorten it to a certain length just to make it easier to wash but short short like that can give off the wrong vibes sometimes.

[TheBootyChest]

What do you think about chopping a little off each week or each month? Until you get the feel of it and if it's too much it's not going to take you 6 months (?) to grow it back to a comfortable size.

[Jemini_Crocket]

I cut off more the last time I needed a trim and at first I was like "yeah freedom" but then it got me like "holy shit it's too short" xD But it was only the aftershock I guess.

[TheBootyChest]

So after a few days you felt better about it?

[Jemini_Crocket]

Nn, I thought it would be the case but at first I was happy about it, then I got a bit sad over it :D

[TheBootyChest]

Gotcha now.

Is the short hair pic you selected the hair you are hoping for?

[clampfan101]

Very difficult choice, as I find long hair on its own extremely attractive. However the face is the most important part of physical beauty, so I suppose A. It would take awhile to accept, though. lol (I don’t dislike short hair, I just really really really love long hair.)

[Lliam]

I'm not even a fan of super long hair. Mid length is fine but waist-length would be my absolute max.
I actually think short styles can be super attractive. They can be designed to frame the face flatteringly. They lend uniqueness and character.
I actually like that first style you posted. It's super cute.

And I agree with you, I can't imagine caring for Rapunzel hair. What's the point, to satisfy some guy's fetish?

[Guanfei]

Esthetically, long hair all the way.
Yours are incredible. But at the end of the day it's your own hair, the choice is yours.
What I know is most girls who cut their hair regret it at some point.

[Jemini_Crocket]

Thank you very much. I think I'm going to keep it for now because hair loss can always happen and then I would really have to go short. :D

[Guanfei]

Let's hope you won't have to endure that before long. Losing such hair would be really a shame.

[Lionman95]

I´d rather date the "average" looking girl because the beautiful one would probably leave the moment she gets the chance. It doesn´t matter how long her hair is, I´m a rather average looking myself so I´m not going for the beauties out there.

[mark000h]

Definitely don't cut your hair, please. If that's your picture in your avatar, you have very pretty hair and most guys like long hair. It's so feminine.

[mark000h]

What I mean is you shouldn't cut it short, you can trim it to just below shoulder length or so and it would be shorter but still pretty.

[TheSpaceGnome]

What do you eat to grow your hair that long?
Also I dunno, I prefer long hair and a cute face.

[Jemini_Crocket]

I eat the worst possible meals :D But I try to compensate every sweet and spicy food with something healthy and juicy.

[TheSpaceGnome]

worst possible eh? lol can't be that bad if your growth rate is that fast.

[Jemini_Crocket]

Junk food and sweets are the worst :D And I'm a sucker for sweets.

[Staximus]

If your profile picture is you, then you are better looking than the short haired girl. Don't call yourself average.

[Jemini_Crocket]

It is me and thank you for the compliment but here (where I live) I can see that so many guys prefer that type over me (the light type).

[Staximus]

Well they are dummies

[jshm2]

Don't be daft, kiddo.

You want to rock your style, not pretend and adopt one.

Maybe wear better clothes, adopt a personality and learn some charm and social skills etc. Your hair is likely not the reason for your lack of action.

[MCheetah]

I prefer longer hair. It's a more feminine trait. Short hair on girls just makes them look more masculine/butch.

[HaveNoName]

I just find short hair a big put off no matter how pretty the woman is. She needs to have something out of the ordinary gorgeous AND FEMIMINE about the rest of her.

[Mossberg500]

That's kind of an oxymoron. Long hair is a big part of a woman's beauty. I've rarely seen a woman that can pull off short hair.

Although, Rose Namajunas (UFC fighter) was hot even after she shaved it off buzz cut style. She's such a cute girl. But I still preferred her with hair.

[DarkWinterNights]

Yeah any attractive woman with short hair would look better with long hair…

[Shy_Steve]

I usually like Girls with Average hair, But there are plenty of Girls I have found attractive with Short hair, But their usually the ones that have had short hair most of their life so I don't usually find Girls attractive that suddenly decide to cut it.
It's like if you like a Guy and he he suddenly gets a big Tattoo or a Piercing.

[dolemite89]

i’m a sucker for longer hair it looks so feminine, keep yours the way it is. a very small percent of women can look cute with short hair still but 100% of the time i’ve always thought she’d look even prettier if her hair was longer.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

An average girl with very long hair

[Кураж]

I wouldn't date a woman with short hair, regardless of how attractive her face is otherwise.

[slatyb]

Long, short, both can be beautiful as long as it's styled and maintained.

[TheUniqueOne96]

Beautiful with very short hair (just an idea of how short I'd like to go).

If she's more attractive to me, then that'll do, although long hair is ideal.

[Anonymous]

Your hair looks pretty. It would be a shame to cut it.

[DaveJord]

Nothing is more feminine than at least shoulder length to small of back hair. Anything longer than waist length can be excessive

[IMuser]

Just cut your hair. They will grow back and then you can decide what you like?

[Jemini_Crocket]

It can cause breakdowns for girls :D I've had long hair since... always actually. I could regret it greatly. It does take years to grow to this length :/

[IMuser]

You are 22. What do you have to lose? Compliments from people who think girls with short hair are ugly?

What you have to gain: a new experience and maybe a chance to donate your hair to cancer patients so that they can "feel beautiful".

What do you choose?

[Anonymous]

If it was short like in the picture below then ill pick attractive girl short hair. This is the shortest women should cut their hair. Anymore then this and it starts looking masculine

[Anonymous]

I much prefer longer hair. I find short hair like that very unfeminine and off putting.

[GlassTop]

I hate short hair. You automatically lose hotness the shorter your hair is, so you’d be about the same rating as the average girl just for having short hair.

[Justerino]

Short hair is good!