A nice mix of both is what I'd desire.
I look at it this way. People can be a 1 to 10 in looks and a 1 to 10 in personality. I want someone who's at least a 13 overall like at least a 4 in looks and a 9 in personality, but preferably not an Amber Heard type who's a 9 in looks and a 0 in personality.
Also, I'd say bikini model girl here has a decent/alright body (and even on Instagram, I've seen way better from everyday women), but I wouldn't say she's exactly beautiful or anything.
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If we talk about for long term then definitely beauty of heart matter a lot and most. But if you want short time relationship then beauty of body matter a lot cuz beauty of body mostly attracted sex. And i want my partner more beauty by heart.
At my school there was an obese lawyer who had never been single for longer than 6 weeks cause she was the epitome of virtue and compassion and always had a ton of guys chasing after her, she dated one of the hottest guys in the entire fellowship and her current husband is equally good looking, she wore nice clothes and had a gorgeous face but still weighed around 200 pounds and she always had guys chasing after her.
That is not the case for me, sorry.
I have to find someone physically attractive for me to be romantically interested in them. Anyone who says looks don’t matter is clearly lying. I’m not implying that personality doesn’t. I’d rather date a guy who’s a 6 and has a great personality than a guy who’s a 9 and has a trashy personality. Looks attract me, personality makes me stay.
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It matters but I don't like for super models or perfection.
, people I find attractive, some others don't... and people some other find attractive I don't... so usually there is someone for everybody...
Why do you think unattractive people keep reproducing and are alive still? Because this is subjective.. someone else finds them good enough. @mcheetahwhile I'm currently single. I'll typically say that so long as the women I am with at the time. is all natural from top of her head to soles of her feet while enjoying how she looks in a full body mirror from all angles and is generally healthy. then I'm more likely to find her physically attractive so long as we also have a good mental, emotional and sexual connection. because I like a wide verity of female body types, heights, colors and ethnic backgrounds.
no i do not think that and i think everyone who claims that, is either full of shit or coping with their own unattractiveness for whatever reason (disease accidents or just being fat).
i agree that it matters less as you grow old with your partner. but saying it doesn't matter is utter nonsense.The beauty of body does matter. Love is mind love and also body love. To caress huge tits and juicy butts can engender more love. If I love someone,I surely wanna feel her body.
No, you definitely need to have beauty of the body.. good news is, for women, it’s super subjective of men. Men love all kinds of bodies. Women would be surprised to know a lot of time, it is more so the personality that throws us off more than the body. Could have A cup boobs and a flat ass, and still crush dick.. but if your attitude is horrible, you know…
That sounds like an oversimplification of a more complex issue. There are plenty of aesthetically-pleasing people that I wouldn't want to know or be around. Likewise, the opposite holds true for some that are less aesthetically-pleasing. In the end, if someone doesn't have a good heart, mind, and personality, I will lose interest regardless of how she looks.
Beauty of the heart matters most.
Health of the body matters more than the beauty of it.If your theory were true - then fashion and cosmetic industry is done :D
There is definitely value in the beauty of the body. The heart and mind are both simply much, much more important.
No, beauty may only be skin deep but ugliness goes all the way down.
there needs to be a balance between all when attracted to someone
Um no I’m not attracted to the girl on the bottom picture Beauty is what gets your foot in the door the rest is everything else
Yes, 100%.
Wasn't prepared for that pic, lol.Heat and mind is the most important to stay. Beauty is what should of Origionally brought you together
I think that beauty of the body is much more physical than beauty of the mind and soul when connecting physially with any girl
There has to be beauty of the body combined with beauty of the inner body.
Both matter but the second one matters more
Matter for what exactly? They both matter.
No.. . Both matter a lot
For some it is, but for most it's both
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