There is this guy with a great sense of humor who I really like. He's not that good looking but really sociable and has lots of friends.
I'm the opposite, I am pretty but have very few friends(short history: I left my home state for college, went through mild depression and am now recovering). Even thought my current social life doesn't show it, I'm actually quite easygoing and used to have many guy friends back home because of my 'guy' sense of humor(in that I can laugh at the kind of stuff that girls might find 'immature' etc).
SO HOW DO I ATTRACT HIM?
And more questions:
1. Is a girl having few friends a turn off for someone who is so popular himself?
2. Is my 'guy' sense of humor a turn off because of the opposites attract thing? Should I be more girlie and 'proper'?
Most Helpful Guy
Be witty and fun yourself. Don't take life too serious. And one thing I see from your post, stop thinking you are better than him. You've already played him down and boosted yourself above him. He's a friendly guy most likely. He sees people equally, and likes to have fun. You're not in his mindset thinking you are superior. He'll never go for you if you have that attitude (you're too pretentious). Prepared jokes and old humor come off as lame to funny people. Natural wit, and playfulness is where its at. It shows you're intelligent, flexible, and fun.0