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Should I wear trousers and a nice top, or an autumn dress? It’s autumn here.
I'm just here to laugh at the possible reasons you had to define the meaning of a blind date. I could read the thread and figure it out, I just find it funny that idiom has to be defined.
I would dress in a neon green thong. You might need the top though because of the sex difference between us. If I really want the date to go well I will put compliments in braille so the blind date will be able to feel the way I think.
Leading her hands to feel the fabric of my thong will probably make it a good night though 🤣😂
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Just dress casually , you really don’t know what you are walking into with a blind date and it’s better to have someone like you for who you are , if you hit it off and they ask you for a second date then you can dress a little more sexier next time around
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Depends on where you going… is it mountain climbing? Formal dinner reservation? Burger King? Church? Park? Dress for the occasion
I'd say wear some casuals. Don't go overboard. You don't know whether you'd find him interesting or not or whether he's the kind of guys who would be respectful of the fact that you don't want to have sex on the first date or anytime soon or the kind of guy who assumes the girl who's wearing something sexy is giving hints that she's ready to have sex. If I were you, I would want him to get to know me rather than only focus on how attractive I am.
Have him get to know you first. setting the hook of attachment to you specifically if the feeling is mutual is actually more likely to happen if you don't have sex the first date, as counterintuitive as that is. The more he invests in getting there with you the more likely he is to stick around because he doesn't want to throw away all that effort and time and money. If you make him wait too long though, he'll close the deal elsewhere and you're out all your time and effort and money. It's a finely tuned dance.
m @Sixgunsound I would say she should take as much time as she needs be it few days or few weeks because in the end if he's in for a long term, he'll be patient. If he leaves, she would understand that he cared more for sex than get to know more and get emotionally close.
I'm speaking from my experience, my ex was patient. He didn't walk away. So, we fell in love hard and got close eventually. Our connection got deep.
That is a longer form way of saying set the hook of attachment to you specifically first. I don't think we said anything fundamentally different
That's what I meant. Male attraction takes longer to form to a person than to a desire for action from a person. If you want him to be attracted yo you specifically not just a part of you that the next girl also has, paradoxically it is better not to have sex right away. A lot of women these days don't seem to understand that making him invest more in them makes him more likely to stick around to protect that investment, up to a point. This is something that mothers and grandmother's used to talk about with older girls on their way out I to the world, but not anymore, which is sad because in addition to the world being crazier now than it has been before, young people are getting worse advice and less of it from the adults in their lives. One of the reasons this forum is so valuable is it can help correct that communications blackout that so. e young people are in because the adults in their lives are uncomfortable or fear prosecution for telling their kids the truth.
m @Sixgunsound Ah! Sorry about confusion.
"This is something that mothers and grandmother's used to talk about with older girls on their way out I to the world, but not anymore, which is sad because in addition to the world being crazier now than it has been before, young people are getting worse advice and less of it from the adults in their lives. One of the reasons this forum is so valuable is it can help correct that communications blackout that so. e young people are in because the adults in their lives are uncomfortable or fear prosecution for telling their kids the truth."
That's so true. I couldn't agree more.
I guess first of all if he's blind it's not going to really matter because he's not going to see it but if you're blind just wear something refreshing that you like
Lol sorry
Anyway it's spring time so wear something just refreshing something that says new start new beginning happiness
I would suggest clothes!
It all really depends on where you are going to go.
You wouldn't wear a formal to a truck and tractor pull, and you probably wouldn't wear jeans to a formal event.
And age will also have something to do with it, dressing age appropriate is also a good thing.
Going for a hike, comfy shoes, sitting there looking pretty the dressy shoes would be just fine.
Probably for a motorcycle ride a dress would not be the best choice.
I'm assuming a restaurant or coffee? Day or night? It all makes a difference..
But for first blind date , assuming not too flash a place , relaxed casual , or business like attire.
Day time, simple lunch I think
Does it really matter if he is blind?
Just kidding. I always wear a dress or skirt and a cute top on dates, and wear skirts or dresses most of the time anyway.
For most situation, this would be good as it is both modest and kind of sexy and it is neither too formal nor too casual:
Wear the sort of clothes you normally wear - maybe a little extra care to make sure they are neat and clean. Don't stress over it at all - you want him to see you as you really are, to see if that is what he likes
I think autumn dress would appeal to most guy's sensibility. Don't dress like you are working in the office or going to a class, it is a date after all.
Benjamin Franklin said it best: "Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst, and you'll never be disappointed." You can always dress up or down for the SECOND date.
I would focus more on comfort, which also means your style meter is in the green. Tbh, your date won’t care that much. My wife puts on pants and tee for Lowe’s and she looks like a fashion model.
But being confident and comfortable with yourself with go 10x over than trying to impress him with clothes. Because we just don’t know….
Dress for the occasion, as others have said. If you are going to a ball game or some sporting activity, go with pants. to suit the activity. If it's to a dinner, concert, doll up a bit and wear that nice dress.
Wear whatever you want. Who knows he could be blind you never met him LMAO!
But really. Wear what suits you. If he’s into you then he is and if he isn't. It’s not meant to be
Wear something comfortable... trousers and a nice top are perfect.
I've only had one blind date. She wore jeans and a polo shirt, looked fantastic. We went out for pizza and ended up back at her place.
Treat it like any other date. Dress for yourself, not for them.
u You don't get a second chance to make a good first impression! Wear a dress.
Something like this
It depends on where you're going but something you are comfortable with and maybe a little sexy.
Either is fine. I see so few women in dresses these days that any woman in one catches my attention.
Dress like you normally would for that location but wear something that is a bit bright so your date can easily locate you.
Dark glasses and a little stick so you can feel your way around since you’re blind and cannot see
Something like this will be very nice and sexy without being over the top.
Always wear a blindfold! What did I win?
keep it simple.
😝😘 I know right!
@midnightmoon05 Can't hurt and it's more fun...;)
Sometime cute, elegant and not too revealing. A little bit of makeup and a really nice perfume.
So personally, I’d do something casual as you don’t know where you will go unless you know that in advance. I’d go for a nice pair of jeans and a flannel, unless it’s hot outside then jean shorts and a nice tank top or shirt.
Like that. Very pretty 🥰😊
Depends what you're looking for. Fun? Dress provocatively & show of your assets; Family / Marriage? Embrace your femininity, let your hair down & wear a dress. Laugh at anything he says & touch his hand lightly when you do.
Close your eyes and pick one.
easy peasy. Have fun
Close your eyes and pick one, don’t make a fuzz. He won’t see what your wearing anyways
easy peasy. Have fun 🤩
k…I am just playing with you.
don’t make a big deal. Just dress nice, presentable and comfortable.
You should wear whatever makes you feel comfortable and confident 🙂
u close your eyes and pick anything you grab first...
Fitted Graphic tee and skinny jeans with converse
It’s simple, wear anything you want because your date is blind & they can’t see it anyway.
trousers if the color is your mood at the time. if not match mood then the dress.
Something simple that says "I am not yours yet."
I would say it depends on where you're going. Make the decision between the trousers and cute top or autumn dressed depending on where you're meeting him
Wear the dress unless you just don't like wearing dresses.
The dress. Most men prefer women to be feminine and you might like your blind date.
Hi, would it be a little dressy but casual. It’s helpful if you know where you’re going. But if not, and you are driving, bring heels and bring flats.
Wear something that makes you feel comfortable and confident. You should show off yourself and not pretend to be someone else, even if you might want to avoid sweatpants.
Trousers? You could sport a skirt or jeans with a t-shirt. It's someone you've never met before, so what you're wearing isn't the biggest issue.
Blind date...
White cane and a golden retriever...
Sorry. I'm in a strange mood.
Go with the dress and give them something to think about!
I imagine the same way you would for any other first date. You never know how lucky you might get.
Like you would for a regular date you are going on. It’s only blind because you don’t know who the other person is. Not like you can’t see each other.
Why would it matter?
If your date is blind he can't see you.
I always like to wear something sort of cute and flirty. So a dress or skirt usually
Keep it simple. Dress for the activity, but maybe not try too hard
Yes tight fitting pants with cropped top without bra on with belly chain.
Well if he’s blind than it shouldn’t matter how you dress lol jk
Lol if you’re referring to me about a blind date I know what it means. It was a joke
I guess if he is blind just something comfortable
A nice casual outfit would be great. For blind date
Wear what you like that best fits the venue.
Dress how you would for a normal date. Fancy-casual
Where are you going? Dress for the location. Classically. LBD is a possible option.
What are you doing on the date?
Going out for lunch
Go with the dress.
It's autumn... in America?
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Yes, exactly. It says you are in the states on your profile
Does it? How do I change it?
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Thanks 😊
Go with the dress
Be yourself but bear in mind its a date so look good as well.
I would go with a 'cute' look. Something fun but neither overly sexy or formal.
If he’s blind then it dies then matter how you look
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If he’s blind, then it does not matter how you look **
If he’s blind then I don’t think it really matters!
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