Do you think a beautiful woman has to be thin?

[hamlet]

As a guy, do you have such beauty standarts? And girls, what do you think about these standarts?

[nolookingbackx]

No, not at all. To me, as long as a woman is not obese, which means staying healthy, she can be still very attractive. There are some places on woman's body where a little bit more fat can look very sensual and appealing. There was this absolutely stunning model, Crystall Renn, who gained popularity as a plus-sized model. Then she lost a lot of weight and looked like a typical runway model. Most people didn't like the change and said she looked much better before. When it comes to me, I've never been overweight but there was a time when I was a little bit more on the curvy side. Then I went from size medium to extra small. I must say that, even though I liked being smaller more, I've been getting more attention and compliments from men when I wore size medium. Of course, size medium is not big, but, judging by today's crazy standards, it is on the bigger side to some people. I went through some rough time and serious eating disorders. Women should definitely love themselves more and avoid this fake photoshopped world created by social media.

[beautyjoyfover200]

Every women is beautiful no matter if your thin or fat. Everyone is not born the same it’s annoying that society has put in a standard making people feel like their not good enough because they don’t have a girl next door body who fucking cares!
Then we have these so called man that say thin is better, okay cool that your preference which is totally fine but don’t bash the ones that are not your type we got the hint what your ting a ling can’t handle extra meat hahaha or the one that want a thicker girls but hides them in public that’s a ick.


Also bigger women come from all different shapes and sizes, genetic, health struggles, environment etc same goes with skinny women. No one is alike remember that!

[MrOracle]

The vast majority of men prefer thin women - but of course, that means that there are exceptions. And this minority group is probably between 10-15%, which is a fairly good sized minority.

It's also generally true that men from poor backgrounds are far more likely to be attracted to bigger women than middle class and especially upper class men, who almost exclusively choose thin women.

Culture certainly plays a role in this, and there are areas of the world where these numbers don't apply, but overall, this is the case.

[hsshannah96]

Depends what you deem as skinny to “your standards”. For many women it may be unrealistic

[MrOracle]

@hsshannah96 I said "thin", not "skinny." And I think we all know what "thin" means, and we know when someone isn't thin.

Also, this isn't about me - I was making a generalization, one that's been backed up with multiple surveys in different countries.

[hsshannah96]

Sure ok.

[Leapfrog00]

I would rather be with a girl who is happy with herself, including her weight, than a superficial girl who is used to guys calling her hot all the time. I talked to a girl one day who was upset because this guy didn't think she was attractive. I thought she was pretty, but different people see beauty differently.

If the girl has got good self esteem, happy with herself, then yeah, I don't care about her weight. As long as she has a good personality. There aren't many of those around unfortunately.

[Pinay_ako]

Yes 🙌. I need to know too. This question is one of the best so far

[CrimsonAngel09]

a lot of people have a twisted way of what they deem not skinny and what they call obese.

I've seen people, especially men, see a woman even two pounds over skinny she is deemed obese. Even though I'm 142 pounds at 5'0", a lot of people would call me obese, simply because I don't have a flat stomach.

Like society, everyone LOVES to pretend being a Doctor or dietician.

Skinny doesn't necessarily mean healthy, and being chubby like myself doesn't necessarily mean unhealthy. It also doesn't mean we stuff our faces constantly everyday like a Neanderthal.

She looks fine the way she is. As long as she's not like Nikocado Avocado, there's nothing to worry about.

[Markm3212]

HELL NO. beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so for me i like a pretty face, dosent matter if they are large small or in-between. also beauthy is about who they are and what their personality is like. are they nice people that pay you nice compliments or do they put you down a lot. do they act in a way that nice e. g. touchy feely, like to place a hand on your arm or around the small of your back its lots of things.

just remember, they won't look like that in 10-20 years time haha

[Ricky_D]

No, not at all! I love thick women and thin the same but there is a limit. It’s not our fault how our how we are some times. We have some control on how we look, something’s we just can’t change though.
I got this look that startled me kind of, this woman was thick but God was she gorgeous! She was wearing spandex but nothing was out of place or hanging or flabby! We caught eyes and I wonder if mine were lit up like hers. We gave each other a nice smile but I am married so I didn’t ask for her number or anything. She sure made my day though.

I find a woman’s heart to be the most beautiful part!

[ShesRad80]

not at all

[Bklynbadboy12]

I love that and there're all beautiful

[BoopBoopBeep]

What percentage of men do you think would find these women beautiful?

[ShesRad80]

@BoopBoopBeep im a straight woman so i can't answer for them as an entire group i can only answer for the ones i know

[Bklynbadboy12]

@BoopBoopBeep Was that question for me or her

[ShesRad80]

@Bklynbadboy12 👍👍👍

[BoopBoopBeep]

@Bklynbadboy12 heck... either? both? dealer's choice ;)

[ShesRad80]

@Bklynbadboy12 lol i wasn't sure so i answered 🤷‍♀️

[BoopBoopBeep]

@shesrad80
Okay, of the ones you know, do you think many of them would find these women attractive?

[ShesRad80]

@BoopBoopBeep --my initial answer was covering the ones i know so yes more then you would think, because i see who they date. everyone has a type or a preference. its not my place to judge anyone over that in life or someone else's looks. again i can only answer for the guys i know as friends, you know.
beauty is in the eye of the beholder

[BoopBoopBeep]

@shesrad80 Interesting, that. All my married friends' wives are far more attractive than A. G. From the little I can tell from your photo, so, considerably, are you. Just because "that's who a man dates" doesn't mean he finds them attractive, it means that's who he can get.

[ShesRad80]

@BoopBoopBeep the two friends in particular that come to mind are married to bigger woman and crazy about them, i have witnessed it and its cute, everyone deserves love.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@shesrad80
Very interesting. Thank you for sharing your experience.

[ShesRad80]

@BoopBoopBeep 👍👍💕

[Sirenboobzilla]

You ever notice that some people can't fathom that other people have different tastes?

[ShesRad80]

@Sirenboobzilla 100 percent agree 👍💕💕

[socially_confused]

I don't think beautiful women have to be thin. Some of the prettiest people in my life are on the heavier side, and that isn't a bad thing! Not all people can achieve the "perfect body" and we should stop making people feel like they are less than if they are a plus-sized beauty! The woman in the picture looks beautiful, happy, and healthy!!!

[BCA6010]

A woman who is visibly overweight is at a significant disadvantage in terms of attractiveness to the vast majority of men, who are naturally attracted to healthy women. Even if you're a cynic about the nature of love and attraction, a healthy figure corresponds to perceived fertility.

My personal criteria is that a woman should have a proportionately feminine figure, and be neither rotund or skeletal.

[Wraith_Cemetery]

No, they just need to dress well. A chubby/overweight girl that dresses in a feminine and classy way will look a billion times better than a skinny girl who dresses like trash.

These women look amazing despite being on the curvier side

[nolookingbackx]

Second girl looks amazing 🥰 I wear similar things.

[Wraith_Cemetery]

@nolookingbackx Love it!

[Apulu_Imback]

It's all about being healthy. Being confident with an obvious obese body and calling it thick and curvy isn't attractive. Being chubby is fine but intentional obesity without any work of genes or disease shouldn't be attractive in any way! It's unhealthy and speaks ill about a person. Being unhealthily skinny is the same too. Of course it's understandable in case of ED or genetics.

[CrimsonAngel09]

You're 14 years old. Stop pretending to be a Doctor kid.

[crmoore]

Did she express any faulty perspectives?

Young people (as a whole) don't have the greatest track record when it comes to assertions, but you seem to imply that due to her age, her medical/anatomical perspective isn't, or can't be, valid.

So, are we judging her for her age, or are we judging her what was specifically said? And if what was specifically said is valid, what use is there to attempt to discredit her based on her age?

[Apulu_Imback]

@CrimsonAngel09 okay, but my age stops my rights to have my opinion? Are your emotions that overwhelming that you can't handle some brutal honesty which contradicts your own opinion? I'm sorry if you can't, must be really bad to be this intolerant. I'm sorry, my opinion might be wrong in your perspective, so you could have kindly stated what's wrong with my statement and how I can make my perspective better. But you decided to not respect me because of my age and you all call it disrespect when young people reply back to you all. Shouldn't it work both the ways? You respect my opinion and I respect your opinion? And we both correct each other without hurting any sentiments if we feel like it's wrong?

[Apulu_Imback]

@crmoore thanks for having my back!

[crmoore]

No problem, lol

[AaronKrieger]

Nah, that has to do with facial structure, hairstyle, clothing, and stuff specifically like that. I do think it is harder to be as attractive once you are overweight at least facially, but it doesn't automatically make women who are overweight/obese not beautiful. There's more to it than just that.

[serious]

Has to be?

Well subjectively speaking to me yes, a beautiful and a gorgeous woman has to be lean and toned. She may or may not have abs but a fit and toned body is a must for me to find the woman beautiful.

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder so for me the definition of beautiful is different and I am a very visual person so yes.

[Red-Blaze]

As someone thin, I will say for sure no
I can say I meet a few man that had more intrest with my more thic friends and even some more obese one on the visual side of things
This is when healthy
Beside that meetva good amount of woman il call stuning and are not thin

So abslotly not

[ohsheeT]

The first thing that came to my mind is is a rooster a chicken

It's a rooster on the outside
But it's a chicken on the inside

True beauty to me comes from the inside it comes from your heart your mind your soul your spirit if you care if you give if you love if you smile if you're happy if you're smart if you're confident

It has nothing to do with what you look like on the outside it's how you act it's who you become it's who you want to be

[Siri137]

"Thin" in relation to what? No, definitely not. What is generally seen as being attractive by most people is someone who is neither too large nor too skinny, a healthy weight, and that will vary from person to person. One can usually tell when someone is either too heavy or skeletal.

[Alli39]

Fun fact, being skinny was not always sought after in western culture! Being "healthy" in historic Europe sometimes meant being what we now sometimes consider overweight because it indicated access to a regular food supply (and therefore wealth/varied diet/etc). Being bony or thin was a sign of poverty, as was tanned skin.

[molonski2]

Yes , I certainly think so , it shows a level of respect for self , few like fatties with no self control and horrendous diets , people should be well informed these days , there is no excuse for being fat.

Thin is not thin , its being the correct weight throughout your life.

[Dela_99]

You talk about being “well informed” yet you are not. Obesity is a medical condition & you can develop it through multiple ways even disordered eating.

[molonski2]

@Dela_99 No its certainly NOT..
And thats a massive problem the spreading of such utter utter bs , I've worked with plenty of people who have had to face up to their horrendous lifestyles , over consumption of process sugar and carbohydrate. Follow ( and live by ) , someone like Dr Sten Edberk ( Holistic , very qualified specialist ) and stop presenting this ludicrous argument that will in time - KILL either yourself for others close to you.
Get processed carbohydrate completely out of your life , and use intermittent fasting with exercise and a quality tool , for complete holistic , lifestyle. Its not a diet.

Plus all the other quite obvious meassures - ZERO processed sugars , Cakes , fast food -NEVER , learn how to read labels , and learn how to face up to responsibility , be it you or others. The rest of your life starts today , set small , and large goals , focus , including sleep patterns.
This is probably the biggest problem in the Western world today.
Fat is NEVER good , Fat is NEVER pretty , Fat is NEVER acceptable.

[Dela_99]

Get educated and come back to me even over consumption is a mental problem similar to binge eating a lot of people find comfort in food and use it for emotional reasons

[molonski2]

@Dela_99 NO its not !
And you are making excuses for yourself , and that's why this is such a big problem in the West. Face yourself , understand your shortcomings , follow the correct doctor , and for gods sake keep your mouth shut ( from unwanted food ) and get moving !
Follow ONLY Dr Sten Edberg , holistic doctor , but more important admit it to yourself.

[mstbooblover]

I'm not convinced that the notion of beauty can be described according a particular standard or definition, but sure is that when I see a beautiful woman, I just notice and appreciate her beauty, and she can have nearly any shape. It's rather a complete set of different elements in a particular balance that makes radiate a woman's beauty.

So, no, a beautiful woman has not to be thin.

[Mansearching]

No not at all. There's fat and there thick. As in Ashley Graham. And others in those pics.

Fat is when vehicles lean to there side when they are in it. If they have to have a motorized cart in stores. Unless a medical condition like on crutches. But that's a given. Girl in pic not fat. Id say thick or just big.

[Jacq_attack]

No, not at all for me. I'm of thinner build myself but I find some women who are medium /large build absolutely irresistible! That being said I don't mean outright obese...

[Anonymous]

Thin ≠ slim. Fat ≠ fit. The middle ground is the Goldilocks zone.

I don't go by modern beauty standards, I go by what's attractive to me. In my case, Im looking for an equal; that doesn't mean they need as slim a waist as me (28 inch), but its got to be narrower than her hips. In terms of weight, she'd need to be within 10kg of my own (±60kg).

I work out; she doesn't need to necessarily [if fit and healthy], but lower body exercise would be ideal in my opinion.