Do you think a beautiful woman has to be thin?

Question

As a guy, do you have such beauty standarts? And girls, what do you think about these standarts?

nolookingbackx · Accepted Answer

No, not at all.  To me, as long as a woman is not obese, which means staying healthy, she can be still very attractive. There are some places on woman's body where a little bit more fat can look very sensual and appealing. There was this absolutely stunning model, Crystall Renn, who gained popularity as a plus-sized model. Then she lost a lot of weight and looked like a typical runway model. Most people didn't like the change and said she looked much better before. When it comes to me, I've never been overweight but there was a time when I was a little bit more on the curvy side. Then I went from size medium to extra small. I must say that, even though I liked being smaller more, I've been getting more attention and compliments from men when I wore size medium. Of course, size medium is not big, but, judging by today's crazy standards, it is on the bigger side to some people. I went through some rough time and serious eating disorders. Women should definitely love themselves more and avoid this fake photoshopped world created by social media.

beautyjoyfover200 · Accepted Answer

Every women is beautiful no matter if your thin or fat. Everyone is not born the same it’s annoying that society has put in a standard making people feel like their not good enough because they don’t have a girl next door body who fucking cares!
Then we have these so called man that say thin is better, okay cool that your preference which is totally fine but don’t bash the ones that are not your type we got the hint what your ting a ling can’t handle extra meat hahaha or the one that want a thicker girls but hides them in public that’s a ick.

Also bigger women come from all different shapes and sizes, genetic, health struggles, environment etc same goes with skinny women. No one is alike remember that!

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

The vast majority of men prefer thin women - but of course, that means that there are exceptions. And this minority group is probably between 10-15%, which is a fairly good sized minority.

It's also generally true that men from poor backgrounds are far more likely to be attracted to bigger women than middle class and especially upper class men, who almost exclusively choose thin women.

Culture certainly plays a role in this, and there are areas of the world where these numbers don't apply, but overall, this is the case.

Leapfrog00 · Accepted Answer

I would rather be with a girl who is happy with herself, including her weight, than a superficial girl who is used to guys calling her hot all the time. I talked to a girl one day who was upset because this guy didn't think she was attractive. I thought she was pretty, but different people see beauty differently.

If the girl has got good self esteem, happy with herself, then yeah, I don't care about her weight. As long as she has a good personality. There aren't many of those around unfortunately.

Pinay_ako · Answer

Yes 🙌. I need to know too. This question is one of the best so far

CrimsonAngel09 · Answer

a lot of people have a twisted way of what they deem not skinny and what they call obese.

I've seen people, especially men, see a woman even two pounds over skinny she is deemed obese. Even though I'm 142 pounds at 5'0", a lot of people would call me obese, simply because I don't have a flat stomach.

Like society, everyone LOVES to pretend being a Doctor or dietician.

Skinny doesn't necessarily mean healthy, and being chubby like myself doesn't necessarily mean unhealthy. It also doesn't mean we stuff our faces constantly everyday like a Neanderthal.

She looks fine the way she is. As long as she's not like Nikocado Avocado, there's nothing to worry about.

Markm3212 · Answer

HELL NO. beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so for me i like a pretty face, dosent matter if they are large small or in-between. also beauthy is about who they are and what their personality is like. are they nice people that pay you nice compliments or do they put you down a lot. do they act in a way that nice e. g. touchy feely, like to place a hand on your arm or around the small of your back its lots of things.

just remember, they won't look like that in 10-20 years time haha

Ricky_D · Answer

No, not at all! I love thick women and thin the same but there is a limit. It’s not our fault how our how we are some times. We have some control on how we look, something’s we just can’t change though.
I got this look that startled me kind of, this woman was thick but God was she gorgeous! She was wearing spandex but nothing was out of place or hanging or flabby! We caught eyes and I wonder if mine were lit up like hers. We gave each other a nice smile but I am married so I didn’t ask for her number or anything. She sure made my day though.

I find a woman’s heart to be the most beautiful part!

ShesRad80 · Answer

not at all

socially_confused · Answer

I don't think beautiful women have to be thin. Some of the prettiest people in my life are on the heavier side, and that isn't a bad thing! Not all people can achieve the "perfect body" and we should stop making people feel like they are less than if they are a plus-sized beauty! The woman in the picture looks beautiful, happy, and healthy!!!

BCA6010 · Answer

A woman who is visibly overweight is at a significant disadvantage in terms of attractiveness to the vast majority of men, who are naturally attracted to healthy women. Even if you're a cynic about the nature of love and attraction, a healthy figure corresponds to perceived fertility.

My personal criteria is that a woman should have a proportionately feminine figure, and be neither rotund or skeletal.

Wraith_Cemetery · Answer

No, they just need to dress well. A chubby/overweight girl that dresses in a feminine and classy way will look a billion times better than a skinny girl who dresses like trash.

These women look amazing despite being on the curvier side

Do you think a beautiful woman has to be thin?

Apulu_Imback · Answer

It's all about being healthy. Being confident with an obvious obese body and calling it thick and curvy isn't attractive. Being chubby is fine but intentional obesity without any work of genes or disease shouldn't be attractive in any way! It's unhealthy and speaks ill about a person. Being unhealthily skinny is the same too. Of course it's understandable in case of ED or genetics.

AaronKrieger · Answer

Nah, that has to do with facial structure, hairstyle, clothing, and stuff specifically like that. I do think it is harder to be as attractive once you are overweight at least facially, but it doesn't automatically make women who are overweight/obese not beautiful. There's more to it than just that.

serious · Answer

Has to be?

Well subjectively speaking to me yes, a beautiful and a gorgeous woman has to be lean and toned. She may or may not have abs but a fit and toned body is a must for me to find the woman beautiful.

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder so for me the definition of beautiful is different and I am a very visual person so yes.

Red-Blaze · Answer

As someone thin, I will say for sure no
I can say I meet a few man that had more intrest with my more thic friends and even some more obese one on the visual side of things
This is when healthy
Beside that meetva good amount of woman il call stuning and are not thin

So abslotly not

ohsheeT · Answer

The first thing that came to my mind is is a rooster a chicken

It's a rooster on the outside
But it's a chicken on the inside

True beauty to me comes from the inside it comes from your heart your mind your soul your spirit if you care if you give if you love if you smile if you're happy if you're smart if you're confident

It has nothing to do with what you look like on the outside it's how you act it's who you become it's who you want to be

Siri137 · Answer

"Thin" in relation to what? No, definitely not. What is generally seen as being attractive by most people is someone who is neither too large nor too skinny, a healthy weight, and that will vary from person to person. One can usually tell when someone is either too heavy or skeletal.

Alli39 · Answer

Fun fact, being skinny was not always sought after in western culture! Being "healthy" in historic Europe sometimes meant being what we now sometimes consider overweight because it indicated access to a regular food supply (and therefore wealth/varied diet/etc). Being bony or thin was a sign of poverty, as was tanned skin.

molonski2 · Answer

Yes , I certainly think so , it shows a level of respect for self , few like fatties with no self control and horrendous diets , people should be well informed these days , there is no excuse for being fat.

Thin is not thin , its being the correct weight throughout your life.

mstbooblover · Answer

I'm not convinced that the notion of beauty can be described according a particular standard or definition, but sure is that when I see a beautiful woman, I just notice and appreciate her beauty, and she can have nearly any shape. It's rather a complete set of different elements in a particular balance that makes radiate a woman's beauty.

So, no, a beautiful woman has not to be thin.

Mansearching · Answer

No not at all. There's fat and there thick. As in Ashley Graham. And others in those pics.

Fat is when vehicles lean to there side when they are in it. If they have to have a motorized cart in stores. Unless a medical condition like on crutches. But that's a given. Girl in pic not fat. Id say thick or just big.

Jacq_attack · Answer

No, not at all for me. I'm of thinner build myself but I find some women who are medium /large build absolutely irresistible! That being said I don't mean outright obese...

Anonymous · Answer

Thin ≠ slim. Fat ≠ fit. The middle ground is the Goldilocks zone.

I don't go by modern beauty standards, I go by what's attractive to me. In my case, Im looking for an equal; that doesn't mean they need as slim a waist as me (28 inch), but its got to be narrower than her hips. In terms of weight, she'd need to be within 10kg of my own (±60kg).

I work out; she doesn't need to necessarily [if fit and healthy], but lower body exercise would be ideal in my opinion.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

I don't think people have to be thin to be beautiful. As long as they're at a healthy weight that shouldn't be an issue. I'm very skinny but I'm not at a healthy weight at all. But I'm eating healthy and working my way up to one.

msc545 · Answer

She doesn't have to be exactly thin, but being overweight or obese is really not acceptable to me. I don't look like that and I make it a point to stay healthy and fit, and I desire the same in women that I have relationships with. A BMI of 30 or below is very desirable.

Stoner710 · Answer

Some what thin yes when we think of the most beautiful women throughout history the person most people think of is Marilyn Monroe she wasn’t untra skinny but that’s what we think is the standard beautiful women.

hsshannah96 · Answer

Guys will try to say no, but the answer is yes from them  the second I gain weight my face shape changes and guys HATE that and I have had these conversations with them on here about that

Thatpearl26 · Answer

I think if they look like a literal ball then they most likely are ugly. From the overweight people I’ve seen and met. They really aren’t attractive to the masses. Maybe a few might think they are pretty but overall not so much.

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Beauty is in face for me like architecture of the skull and way she communicates her little peciluar movements her eyes her smile.

Chubby gal is fine but not fully obese.

Thin girls scare me they look like the mantis 😱

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I’m the short term, it’s possible to be very over weight and still attractive, but in the long term, your body shape will fall apart and you will lose your skin tightness and attractive curves.

_SillyShoes_ · Answer

That girl is literally me... I don't think I need to be thin, but I think it would be easier for me in some ways if I was...

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

Not at all. Ashley Graham is one of the most beautiful women I've ever seen and she's not a thin woman. Hell, I sometimes wish I'd looked like her

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Nope. I don’t think skinny girls are attractive at all. I like a little softness and padding to hold onto. I find the body type in the first picture much more appealing.

jshm2 · Answer

No. But someone who empties a fridge in one fucking sitting isn't going to be "beautiful" in anyone's book, but an American heart surgeons.

BasedBaeBecca · Answer

Not at all. All shapes and sizes are beautiful. Even when someone doesn't look like a model, having a kind heart makes them the most beautiful in the room.

strateguy632 · Answer

firstly weight is a HEALTH issue, so very important to consult doctors , if too much how to change eating habits. secondly if a pretty got fat i feel she lost it.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Of course not. Most of the most beautiful women in the world are far from thin.

kylee2437 · Answer

No, however being fit suppresses dying of natural causes at earlier ages

nastyb · Answer

i get called beautiful all the time but im not a skinny girl. I still have boys crushing on me. its ultimately your face that determines if you are hot or not.

humanearth · Answer

No my wife I actually have a thing for bigger ladies. No skinny girl for me, but I am a walking tooth pick

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

She doesn't have to be thin, I actually prefer athletic women. I'm not into fat though, so certainly not this example.

AnusNdaPainus · Answer

Health is beautiful. Living to retirement age beautiful. Fully Functional organs are beautiful. Bones that aren’t vulnerable to fractures are beautiful.

CaptainOverthink · Answer

No, she does not have to be thin.  But there is also a difference between being thin and being wobbly.  Points to health.

RingOfFire · Answer

It's not about "beauty standards," it's about what features you are naturally attracted to and what features you are not attracted to. And for me thin is attractive and not thin is not attractive.

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

Girls would love if the answer was no. Fantasy land

Billlewis · Answer

No, I think for a woman to be truly attractive, she should weigh a minimum of 150-160 pounds or more.

devilish-cutie · Answer

im thin fit and i want thin fit guy, but if he is average its not a dealbreaker but if he is fat that would probably be a no

DannyUk2017 · Answer

There is a saying... The bigger the curves, the sweeter the Prize, so No, love, attraction, chemistry, doesn't has to be thin...🌹🌹🌹

inhua · Answer

yeah just like an attractive man needs to be over 6 feet tall or at least have a face looking like Zac Efron

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Nope. There's a lot to be said for a pretty face. And personality covers a lot of things. Someone who is affable and funny and confident in themselves can be as sexy as any stick thin model

Anonymous · Answer

Yes to me anyway a nice body is a big part of being beautiful not necessarily skinny but a flat stomach and no flabby arms at least. I do agree though that this varies by opinion I think everyone is beautiful to someone out there.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Most women who I consider to be attractive are not necessarily "thin" but they are not clearly overweight.

Sonorous · Answer

Depends on their goal. If it's not about prolonging their life & looking even more objectively attractive, then they don't have to do anything.

madhatters4 · Answer

no i do not. in fact i generally don't find rail thin people as attractive as people with some meat on them

bannacookies · Answer

Depends on everyone's taste in a person I guess. I think slimmer looks more attractive usually, but that is not always the case for me. Sometimes I think the opposite. Just depends no the girl and how she carries her body I think.

AlexEfron · Answer

I don't know if there are any such standards. I don't think being lean is a criteria to be pretty. Obesity sure does make you look unattractive, but lean, healthy, chubby, curvy all types of figure can look very very attractive.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

for me beauty lies in the girls face, if she got a cute face with an amazing smile I consider her beautiful usually no matter her body. Though there is a limit to it, like if she is morbidly obese (like unable to fit in a plane seat)

sheikalana · Answer

They have to look and actually be healthy not necessarily thin.

Jazzy54 · Answer

No. Unfortunately, this is how many women develop eating disorders. They think they have to be a certain weight in order to be considered pretty.

Boomchakalaca · Answer

No bc there would b no variety. Plus, it might give unattractive men a chance

Anemone978 · Answer

No, but at the end of the day most men want you to be thin..

gayesblog · Answer

No, not at all. It may be a cliché, but a woman should be/act just as she feels beautiful and happy.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

No, everyone has a preference. And sometimes that preference isn't skinny people.

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