How much a height decrease surgery will cost?

[Anonymous]

NOTE: I know some people got tired,of my posts about height,so if you don't have to say something about my question ,please leave and don't bother. I'm really in pain...just answer my question,about the surgery.

I cannot stand it anymore...today I met with someone via web in order to give him a record he requested...i had a bad feeling,that he must be a shortie,and I was true. When I met him he was about 3 or 4 inches shorter than me. I got angry first,and I was rude at him (I didn't say anything about his height of course) but I was like, "here's the record,it's 30 euros" with kinda angry voice. He gave me the money,and I said "ok bye!" and turned away...after leaving I was bubbling "you f*king jerk...why? why you had to be shorter than me?" and when I was on my way for my home I saw some other shorties too,and I was really sad,and this time I even cried,when I returned to my home. I can't take it anymore. I'm gonna take my chances and go through a height decrease surgery,once I have the money.

So the only thing I'd like to know how much will it cost? I can bear physical pain...but emotional pain cannot be compared with physical...it hurts you like hell!

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[Stacyzee]

I really think you may have body dymorphia disorder . I think you should reach out and speak with a professional about what you are going through. Altering your appearance will not change the diseases state. You will never be contented with your height, even if you are the size of an ant. Understand that you need to reach out and this is all in your mind.

[Stacyzee]

*dysmorphic

[Asker]

Someone else told me that too,about body dysmorphic disorder. But hey,i don't have any desire to commit suicide...hope dies last you know. But the things that worried me a little is that in wikipedia it's mentioned that people with BDD often check themselves in reflective surfaces...i do that too,when I'm out I check myself into car mirrors,or glasses. Also I groom myself oftenly ike plucking my eyebrows or shaving my body,etc.

[Asker]

In fact,half of the "Compulsive Behaviors" strangely apply to me too.,even the fact that I wear baggy clothes in order to look shorter in the eye. So you think that even if I was a real midget like 4 feet,i'd still think that I'm a giant?

[Stacyzee]

Well not all people with bdd have desire to commit suicide. I really think you have it, and should try to see a professional to find out if indeed this is what is going on. Then he/she can help you from there. I hope you get better.

[Asker]

But what about my fetish with taller & bigger women with smaller men? This messes things up...so I don't think that I suffer from BDD.

[Stacyzee]

Well that is separate and maybe the only time you feel secure with yourself. That could be one of the ways you are "self medicating". I cannot make a diagnosis I can only speculate. The only real way to know is to see a doctor and tell them everything.

[Asker]

anyway thank you for your answer,you are really kind compared to others. I'll set you as the best answer

[Stacyzee]

Thanks :)

[Asker]

pah I pissed of once again. I tried to be cool with shorter men,by not looking at them,but once I saw this,i couldn't get a grip to myself.when I was walking by a cafe I saw a short guy around 5'4" talking with a girl around 5'8" at inside...i get really angry,and I spit down in the street instantly,and changed my way,in order to not see this scary sight. damn it! I'll sell my soul to the devil to be 5'3"! I'd be really handsome and cool!

[Asker]

Jeez,i wish I had a job to smack down smaller guys,where I could be paid for it. Like a bouncer or something.

[Stacyzee]

oh my :o . did you try taking the advice I gave you?

[Asker]

about bdd? I don't know...actually I got disappointed after learning the cost of bone decrease surgery,plus that there are plenty of doctors who will refuse to do it...and I've got a bad feeling that I will only shrink once I get old. But even if I accept this,i cannot accept that someone else is that short. Totally unfair! And I want to punish these type of guys,so I can feel relieved! Sometimes I really wish I was a 7' giant,just in order to crush them like ants.

[Stacyzee]

No, don't think like that that's bad. You should work on finding out what diagnosis you have and hopefully they will be able to give you medications and remedies that will help in your thought process. There's really nothing wrong with your height.

[Asker]

with my height ok...but with THEIR height? It's annoying! If almost everyone was taller than me by an inch,i'd not give a damn about it! these guys just destroy it!

[peace-love-couture]

How tall are you exactly?

but rotflmao

your pain is giving me the giggles

[Asker]

i said below because I measure myself every day. I'm between the range of 5'7"-5'8". though I managed to drop from 5'7" a few times,i assume,but that was after staying awake for many hours.

[peace-love-couture]

See, this would make sense if you were 5'5

now I just think you're trolling

[Asker]

Trolling? NO NO NO! Welcome to the world...there are mnany kind of people,that you would never imagine that they exist!

[xzinax2]

link I'm sure it would be about the same as adding height

[Asker]

thanks a lot! though it doesn't say how much does it cost

[xzinax2]

there are doctors at the bottom,contact them

[Asker]

ok,thanks anyway!

[Asker]

I asked him,and he said he does bone decrease surgery,but the cost is very expensive...it starts from 20k dollars...sh*t,it will take years to collect all those money,unless I win the lottery...damn it! :-(

[xzinax2]

well you don't expect someone to take on the liability of breaking your bones without getting paid a lot do you? not even the mob does that

[Asker]

i didn't understand you...but,i wish I had the money to do it,let some time recover,and get rid off this thing,once and for all!

[Asker]

uhhh he asked me how tall am i? what shall I say to him? I'm not seriously tall and he laugh his ass of I guess...do you have any idea?

[xzinax2]

he'll have to see you at some point anyway,no point in lying.

[Asker]

yeah but...what should I say? If I was 7',then I'd have a point,because I'd be REALLY tall...but now? What shall I say to him? "I'd like to be shorter beause I like being dwarved by women,and don't feel jealous with shorter guys?" For me it's a serious matter,but I don't think anyone else thinks the same way.

[xzinax2]

if he refuses-tell him you'll do the same as transgender people-you're not comfortable in your body,and you're willing to seek therapy before the procedure

[Asker]

may I add you as a friend? I'd like to send a message to you,but I can't

[xzinax2]

okay,but I'll remove you later,i don't add friends here

[Asker]

ok then

[Asker]

I knew it...he wouldn't agree. "Ok. But as you are going to do it with a doctor, you should tell him as I personally disagree to do any non necessary surgery ! It is not something that you just pay and do ! ". That's what he said. :-(

[xzinax2]

well that's that then. it's for the better anyway,your problem is psychological

[Asker]

Well it's just how my mind works...body can change,but your mind cannot change. The only thing that I wanted is just a body that will get along with my mind. I feel comfortable when I'm around with taller people,and I'm always kind and happy when I'm with them. When I'm around with shorter people I feel depressed,angry and sad...for example when I'm inside a place where lot of people hang around,i'll always go and srand next ot the tall guy.

[Asker]

And of course I'd like to add that I'm not gay,and I don't see him in a sexual way! I just feel more comfortable next to him!

[xzinax2]

minds can change,that's why you need to stick with therapy

[Asker]

no never,never,NEVER. I had enough,with this therapy thing. I'm not dumb to accept what this stupid nature gave me. We are humans not f*cking animals! We are smarter!

[xzinax2]

well,humans are mammals-thus,animals. and mammals come in different sizes-it doesn't make one mammal more worthy than the other. therapy is very beneficial,you don't have to do it-but it's your only chance at happiness

[Asker]

Humans = animals? That's very offensive. We're not the same with the bunch of other animals...for God's sake! Humans are above animals. Though I knew it that you would consider that because you are a vegan,and I guess you love animals. Personaly I hate them!

[xzinax2]

it's not a matter of veganism-it's just a fact,humans are mammals and mammals are animals,there's nothing offensive about it.

[Asker]

today I discovered something that I guess it will help me somehow. I tried to imagine myself,with the same mind,but being a really big man like 6'4" and 250 pounds,full of muscle. Of course I'd have no chance to be smaller than a woman,and i;ll be much bigger even than the average male. But I guess I'll be to passionete with gymnastics,making muscles,and things like that,that I'd not have any time to think about women.

[xzinax2]

well,that's not really dealing with your problems-but as long as you're not ruining your health

[Asker]

i guess the problem is,that I'm thinking about women and my body shape too much. If I was thinking about something that has nothing to do,with bodies and women,like writing a book,or draw paintings,i guess I could ignore both women and my body,because my mind would be stuck with other activities. So,probably the point is,that if you want to forget something,then you must have your mind stuck to something else...

[xzinax2]

yes,but ideally,you would accept your body at any size

[Asker]

another thing that I remember is,that when I was fat I'd like to be taller and I claimed that I was 5'10"...hahahaha. now that I'm thin I want to be shorter. I guess that weight plays a major role to height too

[Asker]

Hahahahah,guess what I did today...i was out a little while ago,just to pay an account,and one of the clerks was a male,and even under the average female height,he was something like 5'3",and he was thin too. Even the female clerks were equal or even some inches taller than him. Today I was looking very savage,because I had been cut during shaving,and my scars were visible,plus that my eyes were "wilder" because of lack of sleep. (continue to the next post)

[Asker]

So I decided to scare him! I came in,and instantly came towards him,looking at him down,with a cold glare,and saying with a deep voice "i want to pay this" and he responded "sure,go to this clerk up there"..and I responded "thanks" very coldly. Hahaha I was just like Triple H,when he was threatening his opponet,in WWE. I'm sure that the guy almost pooped up his pants! (continue to the next post)

[Asker]

So I decided to not pissed off again with these bastards,but instead bully or scare them,once I have the chance. I won't allow these scums again to destroy my mood! Hahahaha,after doing this,i was walking with a big smile upon my face! Hope I'll do it so again,when I have the chance!

[Longshot]

Are you out of your mind or just a troll? There is no way anyone could be this stupid.

[Anonymous]

Why would you be mad at someone for being shorter than you?

[Asker]

it's a long story...if you search my questions,then you'll understand. God's a little unfair don't ya think?

[Opinion Owner]

That's usually what short guys say...

[Asker]

For me it works the other way round...though I'm only a little under the average,i feel like a f*cking 7' giant.

[Opinion Owner]

Don't get surgery. It's a gross overreaction to a non-issue.

[Asker]

I measure myself constantly (once a day) and I happen to be between 5'7"-5'8",but when I walk on the road,i think that I'm a giant...sh*t!

[Opinion Owner]

You're not. You need mental help, not physical help.

[Asker]

Sorry but I cannot let any regular guy,to be over 1-2 iches shorter than me it pisses me off! I WON'T accept it. Except if he is a dwarf which a real disease,and because of that I respect them...the others who are just short,without having any disease...NO! They don't deserve any respect! I only respect people who are taller than me...that's my code!

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, you REALLY need mental help.

Take it easy.

[Asker]

Hahaha you think I haven't been to a therapist? I've already been twice,and they just said to embrace my height...i tried to embrace it,but it doesn't work!

[Asker]

the thing that annoys me a lot though is,that if someone is short and he wants to be taller is considered "normal",and if someone who is tall or even average,and he wants to be shorter is consdered a "weirdo" , a "psycho" or "crazy" and all of those kind of "beatiful" things. Racistic isn't it?

[naguala]

lol, I do not understand... people generally wanna be taller and you wanna be short?

[Asker]

Read my answers in this question,and you will understand.

[selfishstars]

You should consider seeing a therapist.

[Asker]

look what I said below...it won't help,i've already done it twice

[Anonymous]

You're going to be way more miserable after the surgery

[Asker]

Why? How more miserable can I be,than I am now? After all as I said,i can withstand physical pain,but not emotional pain! The surgery will be painful only physically,i guess.

[Opinion Owner]

And the fact that you can't do any physical movements well ever again for your whole life

[Asker]

i think you are wrong...of course you cannot do extreme things like sports,but you can walk at least...no?

[Opinion Owner]

Good chance of it being painful all of the time

[Asker]

Ok,i want to ask an expert about this...could you please recomend me someone?

[Anonymous]

What in the actual f*** are you talking about?

[beastman88]

lol I know right

[peace-love-couture]

LOL

that's what I thought

[Anonymous]

This is crazy. Why would anyone wanna be shorter?

[Opinion Owner]

Do you still wanna be short asker?

[Asker]

fuck this question is very old

[Opinion Owner]

Saving up cash for height decrease surgery?

[Asker]

READ UPDATE

[blackkid2]

$8.

[Asker]

Are you kidding me? It's a kind of plastic surgery,and plastic surgeries cost a lot. I f you don't knowk,then do you know any medical site,where can I ask about this?

[blackkid2]

Now THAT'S something I can do: What country so I can find a quote?

[Asker]

I'm from Greece

[blackkid2]

I did actually look. I did not find anyone doing the surgery in that country. Sorry!

[blackkid2]

I'm sure they do it but I don't know where and that firm isn't in English; I'm not Greek so I can't say speak for all the firms and clinics in Greece.

[Anonymous]

This is the funniest thing I've ever read. LMAO!!