Click "Show More" for your mentions
Most Helpful Opinion(mho) Rate.
Learn more
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!
Topics (22) All
Girl's Behavior 
Guy's Behavior 
Flirting 
Dating 
Relationships 
Fashion & Beauty 
Health & Fitness 
Marriage & Weddings 
Shopping & Gifts 
Technology & Internet 
Break Up & Divorce 
Education & Career 
Entertainment & Arts 
Family & Friends 
Food & Beverage 
Hobbies & Leisure 
Other 
Religion & Spirituality 
Society & Politics 
Sports 
Travel 
Trending & News
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
51Opinion
This is so true.
Some of my best friend-girls are all beautiful, model like.
They are so nice, I wonder why they don't get hit on all the time.
I remember I was on the bus from college, and sat next to a hottie all the guys wanted to talk to. I talked to her and she was so cool we ended up being good friends.
Good take man!!!
Real man talk!!
You sir, are an awesome dude for finally figuring this out! Its good to know that not all guys are dumb enough to not have realised this. I agreed with every single word you said.
Chapeau bas.
If I have to think about asking for her number then it's not worth it, it's supposed to happen naturally. Do you think about asking for a guy's number? No you just exchange numbers and go about your business. Most of the time I get a girls number at a bar/club it's been completely natural. No intimidation or fear at all. If you're scared it's probably not the girl for you.
Lucky you
That's a rather big "SHOULD." There my man. Hence my question...
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2069158-questions-about-rbf-resting-bitch-face
I must admit I wouldn't dare approach such a girl , not sure this article would change that , but i will keenly follow this one to see if any overweight guy can explain that he did. Hats off to anyone who has done. also keen to hear if any Girls who put a lot of effort into their appearance do not have the same prerequisite from men. ( I mean happy with averegly presented men as opposed to badly presented men)
I don't have anything against a guy who is of average attractiveness or even a little weird looking. However being overweight is not average or healthy, so I wouldn't allow that. But he doesn't need to look like Channing Tatum as long as he takes care of himself, dresses well, and presents himself in the best way he can.
@Idonthaveausername a perfectly acceptable opinion , but in your opinion is it acceptable for an overweight man not to show interest in the way the question suggests on the basis that such girls are out of his league? Some say no way it shows low self esteem. I wouldn't call it a marker of low self esteem , I just think someone who goes to great lengths to appear beautiful and to keep fit has a reasonable expectation of their partner doing the same. Am I wrong?
Somewhat true. But there's a difference between a genuinely hot girl and one who puts the effort into it, but is really a plain girl underneath. These types of hot girls will expect different things from each other. The level -uppers are trying to level up to attract a guy who is better looking, richer, or has better status than her while the genuinely hot girls could really care less a good chunk of the time.
No, there's no way an overweight slob with greasy hair, dirty fingernails, and a terrible case of BO is ever going to get a hot girl, but an average Joe who cleans up well and has confidence has the same shot as the hot guy across the bar from her. If neither of them ask her out, neither of them get her.
This all sounds too much like fantasy. We all know in real world, hot girls are all b****es. At least attractive American girls. Average guys should know that they will never be lucky enough to do all the things they want to do with a hot girl, unless they are rich, then maybe.
Pretty much true.
This is what women have been saying for forever, but most guys just believe what they want to believe.
Gives them an excuse to never approach and to subsequently complain about their miserable, dateless lives...
In all fairness, I've been approaching every kind of woman in my life, and prettier ones (in most cases, not saying this is an absolute truth) have very lower touch and regard in rejecting than lesser pretty ones, and honestly I have a fair number of dates with women who are not considered "beautyful", while just a couple with those who are considered so.
Awe someone is sad that no one ever approaches them :(
Want a cookie?
I'm not intimidated by hot girls. I'm just intimidated by the ones I specifically have a crush on.
And I build them up in my mind the instant I feel attraction to them. Before I can even walk over to them it happens. So I've learned to accept being alone. It's really not that bad.
*claps* this makes a lot of sense, nice take!
I do understand where guys are coming from though, ~some~ girls can be pretty brutal with rejection, but like you said, it's not the end of the world.
One comment. She's not a bitch if she rejected you. She's a bitch if she did it in an angry nasty way.
I'm just hoping this is the reason guys never approach me.
Ahaha sorry that's not the reason for sure
@singlebee That was savage...
@oihyijaune considering that his user name "singlebee" I wouldn't value his opinion that much😂😂
@singlebee that's just rude! She is gorgeous!
https://ci.memecdn.com/87/1819087.jpg
Ouchville
@tyber1 yup he does👍🏻😂
Lol I just saw all of these you guys are too funny 😂
Also, thanks @mstorm ❤️
@girl1710. I wouldn't listen to singlebee, he isn't even attractive lmfao. You are attractive don't listen to that asshole Geico caveman lookin bitch, he's rude and needs to realize he isn't all that, not even close lol.
@Ferretman21 don't worry I'm not offended! I was actually making fun of myself too 😆
You should have more confidence then.
its hard to tell, but you seem cute to me.
@Phoebstar7 you wouldn't value my opinion but you do take my internet username seriously? That's strange Lol
@MStorm yes she is cute... I never said she is ugly
@singlebee I wasn't being serious... bruh chill
@singlebee then i''m really wondering what you meant by your reply😂
@MStorm I was just fucking with her lol
@singlebee My bad. Thought you were just being an asshole, it pissed me off. A lot of girls are insecure already, and a lot of people on gag are just plain rude. I apologize, you're not by any means an unattractive person, I thought you were just full of it.
Sorry Singlebee.
@Ferretman21 don't worry I got really thick skin to get offended by anyone online lol...
@Girly1710 I would date you all day if i would've gave me the chance to because you look so fine girl !
I thought about writing this take but you've done it for me, thanks👊👍
Why people are so hung up over rejection is beyond me, they're not ALL going to reject you.
Omfg 👏🏾 You deserve everything for this article lol this was spot on. Thank you SO much for writing this.
Well I don't see an army of stunning women going around single. Correct me if I'm wrong. I'm sure they could get the average joe easily if they wanted to.
You're spot on with this!
It is astounding, how many very attractive women don't get approached often. Most have way more stalkers and long-distance admirers, than suitors that approach them!
Hot girls don't intimidate me at all. I've dated a wide variety of women from very attractive to not so attractive. In the end what matters is if we click or not.
Nice take. Its very true and its all I seem to get. . . guys just admiring me from a distance.
May I please then turn the question on its head , and ask if you would consider a moderately overweight guy who was clean and presentable that came on to you and asked you out? ( wish someone had done Tv interviews to this effect !)
@Primemutton
I used to go after almost any girl, didn't matter how hot she was, but I was told off by a few too many and wasn't treated well. While I'm usually a bit shy and awkward when approaching I don't really feel I deserved the treatment I got. More than likely it was my awkwardness, but still.
@Primemutton yes I would go on a date with him, I don't mind moderately overweight as im chubby myself. I normally do give any guy who asks me out a chance if he's genuine about it.
@red324 given how bad all the men seem to be on here at approaching women I'm a bit surprised that there are many women with boyfriends or husbands at all
@Primemutton well maybe they needed to be taken by the hand and the women had to take the lead. There are men that are reluctant to take any action at all. They just think they can stand and stare at women and they'll come running to them. I refuse to take them. by the hand because I had to learn the hard way and grow the confidence to start approaching men I liked.
It's a shame hot women don't make more of an effort to approach guys. I just can't be arsed with all the hassle. Let women start putting in the work too.
It all comes down to looks still. Woman want something hot!
I'm not intimidated. I just flirt with any girl I find attractive 😛 Maybe it can get me somewhere.
Thanks, now everybody knows and I can't take advantage of this anymore.