Put Yourself in the Shoes of an Unattractive Man (Page 2)
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man i just gonna tell you one thing: attracting and making out with girls is sometimes really overrated when i was in high school girls used to flirt and ask me out quite a few times, and believe me it wasn't nearly as pleasant as you make it out to be (having a girl smelling like nail polish and glitter wrapping herself around you isn't heaven) i know i'm just preaching to the choir but just work on yourself and try to be the best you can be, unless you life goal is to be a player you're not missing much...
I met my first boyfriend online. Tbh I thought he was cute in the single pic he used, but just ok in the latter pics that he showed me, but in person he was rather unattractive and made me regret that I agreed to go on a date with him. But you know what, after the first ten or so minutes I got over it and had the best date ever. I think that's what people mean when they say you should give an unattractive woman a chance.
That isn't entirely what I meant. What I meant was that unattractive people have to date other unattractive people (and see each other as attractive) in order to be in a relationship or else you'll be alone forever. I'm not attracted to unattractive people, just like attractive people aren't attracted to attractive people.
It's silly to assume unattractive people find each other super hot and the standard beauties just meh, but as I'm saying an unattractive girl could become physically more attractive once you get to know her and start seeing her through rose colored glasses.
This is pathetic. I'm far from being the best looking guy, and I'm 5'4". I've still managed to date quite a few women and settle down with an attractive one. It really is about your personality and mindset. You have a loser mindset.
You mean very
@Florancerose404
I mean beautiful
I dont think you as ugly as you're saying you are
You admit ugly men don’t want ugly women, but say women don’t understand?
So you think your desire for hot chicks somehow makes you special? Buck up, boyo! We ALL crave attention and sex with hot people. Very few get them. It’s just life.
No I’m saying it’s much worse for unattractive men. We get ridiculed for it and end up dying alone.
Life is hard. It just is. Instead of feeling rage and isolation, realize that so many in the world struggle with feelings of inadequacy and depression. I sincerely suggest seeing a therapist. Nothing but your own mind can control your suffering. I say this sympathetically, as someone who has battled intense self hatred for years. Your mind is yours to own.
I literally have cut my arms with razor blades from feeling unworthy of love... so don’t follow up by negating that I just don’t get it. I do. It’s your mind causing the suffering.
But have you dated someone before? Have you ever had a person of the opposite sex say that you’re attractive? I’ve never had that and that is my issue here.
You could have those things and still feel worthless. Marilyn Monroe was considered one of those most attractive humans in history and she committed suicide.
It’s very difficult to feel worthless when you have a girlfriend who is attracted to you and you find attractive as well
That’s just not true. Tons of suicides, overdoses, etc show otherwise. Depression just hooks on to whatever you feel insecure about.
I said that it’s difficult, not impossible
678 are probably true be confident I'm skinny to the bone and the least photogenic person you know and I'm part of the 'nerds' but m8 I'm doing fine it's not automa But just improve yourself and the women will notice but you are at a disadvantage admiably
Well you can't blame a woman if she finds you unattractive too, just like you won't date a girl you consider unattractive. .
just remember the example you gave about the unattractive girl, it will make you understand things better!
You know people can be attractive even if they are not particularly pretty. TBH, most of the guys I find myself attracted to are pretty strange and out there. They just have great personalities, and as a human being, I value the fact that I can look past someone's outer appearance. Personality first, looks are just a plus.
Unfortunately, there are not a lot of people like me out there. Which is probably why I will be alone forever (I'm not very pretty lol).
Dude, after reading your take, I was like: I feel you bro, I'm no George Clooney either (massive undertatement).
But after reading your reaction on some of the girls opinions here I'd have to agree with them. Stop being so goddamn negative!
At least there are multiple paths to get girls, even in you're ugly.
You can have confidence or a wicked personality or be rich and get girls. Pick one and go do it!
Just make money. That's all that matters if you want a girl. Look at Tom Leykis. He is a 1 and his girls are 9-10.
You're genes aren't meant to move on to future generations if you're ugly. You can make a positive in this world by doing noble things or buy love through money power or fame
This is very shallow. But you know what could make you more attractive? stop whining about it.
It won’t make me more physically attractive. Physical attractiveness is everything
Luckily you're not attractive then. Less girls will be willing to be with a dick like you.
Why are you so hostile? I don’t understand. You obviously had it made in life by being attractive.
Only thing I take issue with is that you said it's easy for attractive dudes to get girls-- no, it's really not. It's easy for girls to get guys; it's not easy for guys to get girls. Not unless they're famous and rich.
I've heard those arguments so many times I can't even count it.
It seems that people don't understand, even when you explain it. In the end, no matter how much you try, they'll just consider you're a whiny little bitch and leave.
Well the sentence where you said that the guys who get girls easily will never understand how it's like to struggle to get a woman. Well that touched my heart
Wish you luck Bruh!
Hope you get someone soon😊❤️
I've heard of some attractive guys saying that girls ignore em and don't hit on them too so being unattractive doesn't make you anymore prone to not getting a girl
It does definitely. If those attractive guys even did half of the approaches I've done then they would be far more successful.
@TheUglyMan nah, if they're awkward it didn't work out
Attractive guys has natural confidence
@TheUglyMan lol no they don't
lol they do. Women love them which gives them the confidence
i win
Being unattractive is one of the biggest disadvantages you can have in life, yet so many people try to undersell it's importance.
Imagine this then. Being good looking (I think I am) but not attractive (in the sense that still no one is interested in you romantically and never has) :'(
These are the hypocritical statements people who have never experienced loneliness.
I don't know what to say , maybe you need to have a lot of money. Unattractive sports athletes get women all the time.