I already do a few of these, but all the other tips are great! I hang out with his friends often and chat with them, I know some of his interests, I show my personality a lot more now, not just because of my crush, but I've just known great people who've helped me out of my shell. I really appreciate this!
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Bullshit tips I ever read. I've done all that. he said he liked me but he friend zoned me? And still he's chasing me? I really done get it whats in his mind. Seriously If he's in front of me I would kick his balls. He made me wasted my time.
I’m sorry about that but I disagree with being cute being the only thing required. I’ve went through some really awkward phases physically... I still found these things helpful. I didn’t do them all at once but I don't know it worked for me.
Wonder why, what? I’d do lots for a guy, especially as I was raised with traditional values in relationships. However, thats not what this is about. I do my all for that person when I’m in a committed relationship. I wouldn’t just advise anyone to give, give, give unless its completely certain that their love interest wants to be with them. These tips (more psychological than anything)!@ were to hopefully help others get their love interest to want to purse a relationship with them.
Well, having reasons they SHOULD would be way more productive. What you have is the brain-fat of a navel-gazer. Your total focus is on YOURSELF!! Narcissism simply isn't a desirable trait.
Well I’m not narcissistic at all nor have I ever been called that before. I’m not in any way self oriented, I put others before me way more than I should, always have. Looks wise? It took a while for me to blossom into the way I am so I’m very humble. The point is, I’m the farthest thing from that. But this is the Internet so I can’t expect anyone to know much about me on it.
I formulated these tips from my personal experience because that’s the only perspective I can give. I’m not a relationship coach, and I can’t write something generalized on this specific topic, because rather it’ll work varies depending on many circumstances. I’m 19 so I don’t have many years of personal experience in dating or attraction. I can only give this advice from the perspective of a teen girl (which by the comments it seems like most girls and young women like the tips, or at least some of these things worked for them).
There would be no point of me typing this if I didn’t have intentions to help others. I’ve never in life had a problem with guys (or even just friends) thinking I have bad personality qualities, except maybe shyness. Definitely not narcissism though. Looks wise I grew into myself. So I don’t really have an issue attracting good guys at all. My issue ends up being them not wanting to abstinent with me in the relationship, as everyone is expected to be okay with hooking up on a big college campus. So yeah, I don’t need these tips at all anymore. However, because I did in high school mainly, I still thought I’d share them Incase they end up being beneficial to more than just myself and my peers.
I respect your opinion on the MyTake as you’re entitled to feel whatever you want, but we have very different outlooks on this.
Yes, we surely do. And in contrast to you, I have an entire lifetime of experience and expertise in relationships, sex, and marriage. Enough to write a book. So while you claim to know nothing, here you are spewing your bullshit. Why don't you listen and read more and talk less? You just show how ignorant and self-absorbed you are.
1.) I didn’t claim to know nothing 2.) vanity is a sin, one of which I don’t have nor want have any part of 3.) I’m not going to be rude back because I wasn’t raised to talk crap to people three times my age. So have a great day 😊👋
I actually have respect elders and sure you may have a lot of wisdom from your experience but that doesn’t take away me having good intentions with these tips 🤷♀️.
And your outlook is naive. You simply cannot negotiate attraction. And that's a fact. You're a typical 19yo that thinks they already know everything - here you are trying to tell everybody what they SHOULD do. FAIL. Have fun on GAG.
@brosneye57 Wow a bit agressive don't you think? She didn't tell anyone they had to do that. These are tips to try if you like someone. If I liked a guy I would do many things for him and hope that he would extend the kindness. That how I got my relationship so it works for me.
Sorry? 😂 Do you even know what you're talking about or are you just spouting useless crap because you're too close minded and cynical to listen to other perspectives. Do you have to try to prove your a man by insulting people?
@Lynzerilee the quickest way to turn off a girl is too be too aggressive, borderine needy. I have seen it happen over and over and over again when I was younger. The aloof guy who occasionally throws girls a few bones is more attractive because he is mysterious. Women get turned on by mystery and challenge.
I'm a girl and I don't. Many other mature ones don't. You can't tell me that attracts me when it doesn't. But it's your freedom to act however you see fits, hopefully those girls would fall for you!
@Lynzerilee what women say they want and what they really want are rarely the same thing. Reason being is women are emotional creatures and can be fickle.
Now that is a generalization. The girl I’m dating right now is NOT like this, thank God. But I had to go through hell on earth when it came to dating because I’m a “nice” guy. Nobody taught me the game growing up and I got trampled underfoot because of it.
Don't listen, these are some of the most retarded dating tips I've heard. This further proves that one should NEVER take dating advice from someone without a Y chromosome
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I already do a few of these, but all the other tips are great! I hang out with his friends often and chat with them, I know some of his interests, I show my personality a lot more now, not just because of my crush, but I've just known great people who've helped me out of my shell. I really appreciate this!
Bullshit tips I ever read. I've done all that. he said he liked me but he friend zoned me? And still he's chasing me? I really done get it whats in his mind. Seriously If he's in front of me I would kick his balls. He made me wasted my time.
Sorry to hear that, but that’s your personal experience sooo... I’ve had the happen before as well with a guy, but had success with all others.
You’re entitled to feel anything is bullshit i still don’t think it is 🤷♀️.
Unfortunately, people these days just meet on dating applications, so it's hard to apply these tips in the first place.
You just have to be their type. If you are, they'll come to you or at least let you get close enough.
Excellent advice
Thank you 😊
I do like these i already used some before seeing this post
Delete all of this, And just put ''be hot''.
Solved.
Step 1: be attractive
Step 2: dont be unattractive
Step 3:profit
Thank me later
I literally simply wasn’t perfect terry enough for my crush. All you have to do is be cute, I failed step one
I’m sorry about that but I disagree with being cute being the only thing required. I’ve went through some really awkward phases physically... I still found these things helpful. I didn’t do them all at once but I don't know it worked for me.
And not even ONE thing about what you'll DO for a guy. Absolutely nothing. And you wonder why. WOW!!
Wonder why, what? I’d do lots for a guy, especially as I was raised with traditional values in relationships. However, thats not what this is about. I do my all for that person when I’m in a committed relationship. I wouldn’t just advise anyone to give, give, give unless its completely certain that their love interest wants to be with them. These tips (more psychological than anything)!@ were to hopefully help others get their love interest to want to purse a relationship with them.
Well, having reasons they SHOULD would be way more productive. What you have is the brain-fat of a navel-gazer. Your total focus is on YOURSELF!! Narcissism simply isn't a desirable trait.
*... brain-fart...
Not 'fat'.
Diarrhea of the mouth and constipation of the brain. Typical.
Well I’m not narcissistic at all nor have I ever been called that before. I’m not in any way self oriented, I put others before me way more than I should, always have. Looks wise? It took a while for me to blossom into the way I am so I’m very humble. The point is, I’m the farthest thing from that. But this is the Internet so I can’t expect anyone to know much about me on it.
I formulated these tips from my personal experience because that’s the only perspective I can give. I’m not a relationship coach, and I can’t write something generalized on this specific topic, because rather it’ll work varies depending on many circumstances. I’m 19 so I don’t have many years of personal experience in dating or attraction. I can only give this advice from the perspective of a teen girl (which by the comments it seems like most girls and young women like the tips, or at least some of these things worked for them).
There would be no point of me typing this if I didn’t have intentions to help others. I’ve never in life had a problem with guys (or even just friends) thinking I have bad personality qualities, except maybe shyness. Definitely not narcissism though. Looks wise I grew into myself. So I don’t really have an issue attracting good guys at all. My issue ends up being them not wanting to abstinent with me in the relationship, as everyone is expected to be okay with hooking up on a big college campus. So yeah, I don’t need these tips at all anymore. However, because I did in high school mainly, I still thought I’d share them Incase they end up being beneficial to more than just myself and my peers.
I respect your opinion on the MyTake as you’re entitled to feel whatever you want, but we have very different outlooks on this.
Yes, we surely do.
And in contrast to you, I have an entire lifetime of experience and expertise in relationships, sex, and marriage. Enough to write a book.
So while you claim to know nothing, here you are spewing your bullshit. Why don't you listen and read more and talk less? You just show how ignorant and self-absorbed you are.
1.) I didn’t claim to know nothing 2.) vanity is a sin, one of which I don’t have nor want have any part of 3.) I’m not going to be rude back because I wasn’t raised to talk crap to people three times my age. So have a great day 😊👋
I actually have respect elders and sure you may have a lot of wisdom from your experience but that doesn’t take away me having good intentions with these tips 🤷♀️.
So no I’m not going to be rude back but as I said before, our outlooks are different.
And your outlook is naive. You simply cannot negotiate attraction. And that's a fact.
You're a typical 19yo that thinks they already know everything - here you are trying to tell everybody what they SHOULD do. FAIL.
Have fun on GAG.
@brosneye57 Wow a bit agressive don't you think? She didn't tell anyone they had to do that. These are tips to try if you like someone.
If I liked a guy I would do many things for him and hope that he would extend the kindness. That how I got my relationship so it works for me.
@SophieLaGirafe - Yes, we understand facts and reality can be difficult for you. It's okay.
Sorry? 😂 Do you even know what you're talking about or are you just spouting useless crap because you're too close minded and cynical to listen to other perspectives. Do you have to try to prove your a man by insulting people?
@SophieLaGirafe - Sooo fucking whiny. OP is a loser.
Lol I love how I’m a loser because I made tips that you don’t agree with haha that’s hilarious 😂.
You are hilarious. Clueless too. Oh well, ya can't fix stupid.
Here you are 19 years old and already think you know everything. Typical. FAIL
Show some interest and then ignore. That seems to be the best way to handle women initially. They like to keep guessing in the early stages.
It doesn't, unless she's an immature girl. In this case, I would just ignore them forever for playing that game, if i"m assertive enough.
@Lynzerilee the quickest way to turn off a girl is too be too aggressive, borderine needy. I have seen it happen over and over and over again when I was younger. The aloof guy who occasionally throws girls a few bones is more attractive because he is mysterious. Women get turned on by mystery and challenge.
I'm a girl and I don't. Many other mature ones don't. You can't tell me that attracts me when it doesn't. But it's your freedom to act however you see fits, hopefully those girls would fall for you!
Why would a guy be all lovey dovey to me through text and get excited to see me, then never make a sign? ↗ You might have an answer.
@Lynzerilee what women say they want and what they really want are rarely the same thing. Reason being is women are emotional creatures and can be fickle.
Now that is a generalization. The girl I’m dating right now is NOT like this, thank God. But I had to go through hell on earth when it came to dating because I’m a “nice” guy. Nobody taught me the game growing up and I got trampled underfoot because of it.
It is the best way to handle immature women who are probably not good picks anyway, and will probably turn your life to hell.
If she plays hard to get, then we can play hard to get back at them also. Making them feeling more curious what's on our mind.
@Mikey_Ramone life is too short for that. Instead spend that time in looking for somebody real.
@Lynzerilee 3 out of 4 women are like this.
Now do I say to continually play hard to get after you start dating? No, of course not. But women want challenge.
Other than getting (noticed), which is all one can do. The other 10 are irrelevant if they aren't attracted or interested.
Amazing tips!!! Hope it will help
Thank you 😊
Psychologically implant yourself in their working memory.
But I'm old fashion 😂
Step one tell the truth that your a friendly enough person even if slitely cracked
Here's 1 tip you can get your crush to like you,... you need to be her type.
Sounds like simping to me! Nice starter but it'll just boils down to the first one. Do they like you or not.
Don't listen, these are some of the most retarded dating tips I've heard. This further proves that one should NEVER take dating advice from someone without a Y chromosome
You again. Very mature of comment 😘. It totally makes sense that only men can give advice on crushes... noted.
Yes, only hunters can give advice on how to hunt, not the animals they're trying to hunt. Make sense now?
Sexist lol
@Babygirl_S a very common illogical thing people pull when they can't make an argument, no surprise.
These work for me
If only it were that easy to overcome 10,000,000 years of evolution.
1-talk to him
i can't i am too shy and so he is xD