Why Guys Can't Get a Girl Anymore (Page 4)

[elite665]

I agree with all this but also think it most likely for most of these men revokes around them being nervous and over analyzing things to the point it turns the girls off.
I was single 2 months ago and finally got my shit together and wow what do u know the first girl I asked out after I calmed down I got case closed

[MuffinBoi]

Sounds a bit harsh m8. There's nothing wrong about splitting a bill.

Yeah sure, Mainsplaining and 'Being Weak' are bad in of themselves obviously but I don't really see how technology would be detrimental to getting girls. There are things like online dating that require technology.

Otherwise a pretty good take. Quite liked the last point too

[roland77]

? Why feminists 3.0 are a major problem in today's times. Must be the title I guess? So far I can date women, first Online then real world. Yes, call me a wimp and I ignore/block you or both. I dated an African and at first date we kissed both at lips already. But sadly her religion (some African Christian) came between us. Now I date another lady from Kenya and we are doing pretty fine.

So "Why guys can't a girl anymore" is not true with me. :-)

[MannySimms]

No. Sorry.

Most men shoot for women out of their league and act overconfident.

I've always been ugly, tried WAY out of my league and succeeded 10% of the time by being nice and keeping clean.

Attitude. Period.

Now...

[humanearth]

No shit. I see a lot young men doing the same shit.

Like get up and grow a pair you Napoleon Dynamite looser

[Wowgirl30q]

Yupps

[AustinMan]

What studies can you cite to support your sex for one assertion?

[Wowgirl30q]

I will send you link later think it was a NC university study, article in psychology today I believe.

[Tyffen]

I agree with a lot of this. But it's a problem that has it's roots in the parents and how society is shaped nowadays.

Strong men created good times, and good times creates weak men.

Women should learn not to complain as much. Because I see equally broken women out there. So they shouldn't think they deserve the most confident, rich and handsome guy ever...

[Wowgirl30q]

Thanks

[DudeDiligence]

Some if this is true, some isn't. But I do wonder where all the regular GAG feminists are. LOL

[Wowgirl30q]

@DudeDiligence who cares 🙃

[DudeDiligence]

I certainly don't, but the irony is inescapable.

[Wowgirl30q]

They gave up on me🤣

[Marriedwith2]

To be fair, women enjoy the ability to have various restrictions for men (looks, weight, etc) that they don't adhere to themselves. women who weigh 200+ pounds often demand a thin guy and women who rate about a 3-4 often demand men who are, at least, a 7

I was very lucky to find a great woman who is not shallow because i'm just a 5 on my good days lol

[Myonzon]

Disagree with some of this. Living parents sometimes is a tradition for some people or especially if they're the ones taking care of them if their parents have a disability. Other reasons because him being a "virgin", it's weird but some girl's be shaming dudes who're virgins and wouldn't sleep with them because they may be bad in bed, or they don't shame them but they would still not sleep with him if he's too innocent

[Jackieboi]

Wow someones abit whiney about men taking care of their own needs. Brain function? Erectile disfunction? Sorry hearing over and over and over how splitting the bill is no problem made me believe its not a problem. Dont get me wrong, you're right about everything except porn addiction leading to all that (though it goes without saying both ways), i just feel a little hurt when you say we whine about it. I think were just too comfortable thought sure a lot of guys whine like you say.

[justcurious2019]

what guys dont understand is this is not a dating site and if you want a girl you have to put in work

[Wowgirl30q]

Amen

[justcurious2019]

@Wowgirl30q thank you

[Wowgirl30q]

Welcome

[justcurious2019]

@Wowgirl30q how you talked to princess at all?

[Wowgirl30q]

Yes she's great😀

[brutally_honest_guy]

Apart from so many things already mentioned, I think its intentions that have made it difficult for guys to get girls. Usually people only wants hook-ups from a date. Healthy relationship is rarely sought. Then girls have a preconceptions in mind that a guy approaching her only wants to fuck her. This change in mindset have made things difficult.
Feel free to disagree.

[Wowgirl30q]

@brutally_honest_guy I actually almost put exactly what you said about the dating apps!!

[brutally_honest_guy]

Then I can say we think alike about a lot of things. 😊

[Wowgirl30q]

Awesome 😀

[SarahsSummer]

but most guys have pinpointed why they can't get a girl, and believe (erroniously) its the girls fault

[Wowgirl30q]

Course it is. ☺️

[Wowgirl30q]

Damn you Sarah and your morals...

[armleg]

why can't i just be myself its not fair that women get to be themselves and still have someone love them

[SarahsSummer]

@armleg is it fair that Jeffrey Dahmer is in prison for just being himself and eating people?

[Wowgirl30q]

😂😂😂😂

[esotericstory]

I agree on some points but relationships are a team effort, they are not carried only by men. That its men's fault only can't be true, relationships are done together.

[Wowgirl30q]

Well that's fine and I appreciate you reading

[Kit_Kat88]

Guys should just be a gentleman and avoid the points you listed. That’s not too hard

[Wowgirl30q]

You wouldn't think..

[Robertcw]

Meh it is kinda hard to afford an appartment by yourself. Less hard with roommates, but still pretty difficult. Seems money is at the root of all these points.

Basically, a guy who lives at home with parents, doesn't dress to impress women, streams shows he likes a night and who watches porn to relieve sexual tension whenever he gets it fully describes what she wrote here -- which is basically my entire life. Which must explain my situation. Hell, I can barely afford an $1500 car. Definitely can't get an appartment, could buy clothes but I dress for myself. And I enjoy cinema as a hobby so I stream shows via Amazon Prime and Crunchyroll every night for fun.

I don't seemy situation changing that much tbh in the near future. My income could go up slightly, but it's not going to go above anything more than $30,000 any time soon. Realistically it's looking more like $18,000 - $24,000. So, technically I'm broke as fuck. But at the same time I have all the things I need so I'm not too concerned ahout it at the moment, except for not having my own place. But rent is around $1500 - $3500 a month, a room with roommates is like $700-800 a month.

I could probably do $400 a month or so but that's it. Definitely no new cars or houses in my near future tho. But that's normal for my cohort. Women are easily out earning men for all Americans age 29 and under. I can honestly say that, today, it's a woman's world. Especially with social media, tinder and salary jobs.

[Justlooking15]

Honestly, social media has destroyed the good old clean way of dating. Woman as well as men are to connected to social media. Facebook / testing and other social media apps has destroyed many marriages because it is very easy to type something then to actually meet up with some ex. Spark up affairs and ruin lives. No respect for the male.

[Pulimuli]

Its actually just that women have freedom nowadays and dont have to settle for a man just because he's got a job and can support her

Women nowadays can choose men they actually want, thus some undesirable men are angry because they can't force women to marry them out of necessity like its 1945

[ikisseddeath]

Honestly I think it's lack of confidence to me it seems girls like when a guy has some if not they hesitate and sometimes just say somthing to get out of it and this is coming from a man who lacks confidence and lost his girl looking for someone new has been difficult do to my lack of confidence in my question if they go out or not

[Wowgirl30q]

That's 5 of many

[loveslongnails]

I can not relate to anything in this post... which is a good thing.

[Wowgirl30q]

Very

[loveslongnails]

Thank you !!!

[Wowgirl30q]

Welcome